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Life is not easy, manage three things, and good luck in the second half of life

author:Snow falls without dust

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Emerson once said, "Wise men believe that there is cause and effect in everything, and that there are rules for everything." ”

The same is true of luck, its good or bad is caused by cause and effect. Only when there is a cause can there be an effect, and only by believing in cause and effect can there be good luck.

I believe that the seeds of good luck sown in spring will eventually blossom and bear fruit.

Life is not easy, manage three things, and good luck in the second half of life.

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First: Manage your temper

Hu Shi once said: "The most hateful thing in the world is to put an angry face on others." ”

Many people, with the endless tolerance of their families, often throw such faces to those close to them.

Life is not easy, manage three things, and good luck in the second half of life

Lao Wang was a grumpy man, who was criticized by his superiors when he went to work, and when he went home to see his wife, he had not yet made dinner, and he opened his mouth to train. When my son came back from school, he wanted him to play chess with him, and he also trained loudly.

Both the wife and son were sullen by his fiery temper. Dinner time, which should have been pleasant and warm, became breathless and just wanted to escape.

There is a saying in the "Vegetable Root Tan": "Those who are irritable and careless will achieve nothing, and those who are peaceful in heart and qi will collect their own blessings." ”

In a person's temper, he often hides his blessings and luck, and a person's aura is attracted by himself.

Kobayashi is a security guard in the community, gentle and well-liked.

In order to subsidize his livelihood, he also collects waste in his spare time. Many owners take the initiative to give him waste cartons and plastic bottles when throwing away garbage.

Once he fainted from low blood sugar, and it happened that a business owner took a plastic bottle to the duty room, and found out in time that he was lucky to avoid the disaster.

The owners all said he was lucky enough to have nobles to save him. In the final analysis, his good temper and good fortune saved him.

Grumpy people, emotions are easy to get out of control, talk and do things without considering the feelings of others, often easy to cause trouble and trouble.

Those who have a mild temper are emotionally stable and kind. A good temper is like a gentle spring breeze, attracting people and making people warm. Help you harvest a harmonious family and establish good interpersonal relationships. Help you live a smooth life and have a good career.

Learn to cultivate your own mentality in reading, cultivate your temper in life, and be a gentle and generous person.

Get rid of bad tempers and you'll meet your better selves.

Life is not easy, manage three things, and good luck in the second half of life

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Second: Take care of your body

There is a saying on the Internet that is very heartfelt: "You are very healthy, that is the best year." ”

In a video, there is a grandmother Liu who rushed to extinguish the fire with a fire extinguisher in a certain place, and did not forget to let people call 119.

She reacts calmly, thinks clearly, has a quick hand, and does not look like an 81-year-old at all.

Many netizens were surprised by her physical state, and some netizens said: "My body in my sixties is not as good as hers." Some netizens directly called: "High-quality old age, 81 years old is like 51 years old." ”

When the reporter interviewed the reporter, she directly praised her physical fitness, and she happily told reporters: "It's OKAY, mainly because I usually insist on exercising and insist on it for many years." ”

Only by maintaining good health can a person bear the pressure of life, survive various critical moments, and enjoy the happiness and happiness of life.

Life is a marathon, at a certain stage of excessive effort, overdraft health is not worth the loss.

Xie Mou, a master's student at a university, suddenly convulsed in the teaching building, fainted, and was sent to the hospital, the rescue was ineffective, and unfortunately died.

His computer records that he stayed up until 2:30 p.m.

At the age of 34, he is about to graduate from graduate school, and if he goes down this trajectory, life should have a good ending.

However, his life came to an abrupt end in his heyday, and all his efforts were instantly reduced to nothing, which is regrettable.

Schopenhauer once said, "The greatest mistake a human being makes is to trade health for something outside the body." ”

A healthy body is the capital of struggle, the guarantee of family responsibility, and the greatest wealth in our lives.

When the job is gone, you can find it again, and when the money is gone, you can earn it again, but life cannot be restarted.

Life is not easy, manage three things, and good luck in the second half of life

Insist on spending a certain amount of time exercising every day to cultivate good eating habits and work and rest rules. Take care of your body, the tiger's vigorous body will escort you as you move forward.

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Third: Take care of your own money bag

There is a popular saying on the Internet: "The world is panicked, but the picture is broken silver." This piece of silver can solve all kinds of sorrow in the world. ”

We must not only be able to make money, but also learn to save money.

This is an era of rapid change, and no one knows, tomorrow and accident, which one will come first.

Lin Mou runs a restaurant and has a good income in the past few years, but he rarely saves money and advocates timely entertainment.

However, in the past two years, due to the great environment, his business has plummeted.

Not long ago, his father fell seriously ill and needed surgery. The doctor asked him to prepare 200,000 yuan, but he couldn't get it. He borrowed from the east and the west, and begged for people everywhere, so that he could barely make up enough.

Life is not easy, manage three things, and good luck in the second half of life

When people reach middle age, there are old people on the top and small ones on the bottom. The problem of parental support, the problem of children's reading, and even the mortgage and car loan to repay, everything is inseparable from money.

Having a deposit in your hand allows you and your family to have more calm and calm in the face of accidents and difficulties, and make your family more stable and happy.

Xiao Chen, a takeaway rider in a certain place, saved 1 million yuan in 6 years. He wanted to keep fighting for a few years and save enough money to buy a suite for his son.

Frugality is not about giving up quality of life and blindly slamming doors. Instead, it is a careful budget, overall arrangement, and reduce unnecessary consumption. Save the money and use it for the expenses that the family needs most.

From now on, try to make money while saving wisely.

Save at least one-third of your income every month. After 5 years, you will have a substantial risk reserve in your hands.

The deposit in the hand is not only wealth, but also an attitude to actively cope with life, and it is also a powerful "weapon" in the face of accidents and difficulties.

With more savings, the higher the fault tolerance rate of life when the unexpected comes.

With more savings in hand, you have more choices in your future life.

Life is not easy, manage three things, and good luck in the second half of life

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Fate is determined by heaven, fortune is made by oneself, and luck is given to oneself.

Whether you have money or not, do three things well and have a smooth life.

Gentle and kind, treat people like a spring breeze, the world will also be gentle to you;

Adhere to sports, life self-discipline, you have the capital to move forward;

Adhere to reasonable storage, precautions, your life will have more confidence and dignity.

May you love life, be kind to yourself, and be kind to others. Everything you meet is beautiful, and everything you get is what you want!