There are many things in life that are like this, and if you have not experienced them, you will never really understand, and only if you have experienced them, you will truly understand.
It is said that time can forget everything. In fact, this is not the case, time can only do to make you let go, not to make you forget. What can be forgotten can only show that this matter is something you do not pay attention to and do not care about.
Know that the things you really care about will never be forgotten because of the passage of time, and it will always exist deep inside you.
Because after walking through, we will understand more and more, what is life? What the experience is. Life and experience are actually the path we walk under our feet. It's a series of life experiences.
I don't know if you've had an experience like this:
The reason why the first love is so unforgettable is actually because this relationship is the first time you have experienced it personally. This is the first time you have fallen in love with someone and experienced what is called love and what is called parting.
That's why, even after many years, we still think of the person we first loved. In fact, it is not that we have not let go, but this matter is our real experience. Even if they don't end up together, they won't forget.
Because that's the way we've been. After all, from the beginning of life to the end, we will naturally encounter many things along the way, of course, we will meet, miss and understand. None of this is obtained on paper, but we have obtained it in the practice of life.
That's why some people say, "You're not me, you're never going to understand me without going through what I've been through." "It's true, there are some things that you would never understand if you hadn't experienced them.
Just like in a relationship, why do you always regret it after losing it, and you will think of cherishing it, because this thing has been experienced. I remember such a sentence: "People who have not lost love do not understand love, and people who have not been frustrated do not understand life." ”
Perhaps, when we look back, there will always be some pictures that come to our eyes, the things we have experienced, as if they were what happened yesterday. For example: career progress or stranding, love is beautiful or regretful.
We didn't understand that at the time. But when we have experienced these things, and then look back, we will have more understanding and awareness of these things. Only then will they understand the things that they once did not understand, and the things that they thought could not be changed. In fact, it is possible to make changes.
It was only at the time that we didn't know it, and we could only understand it after we had walked through it. This may also be why we always give advice to others.
Because I have not walked through, it is difficult to understand.
It may be precisely because of this that we will understand why people who have entered the heart, even if they do not contact for a long time, will worry about their lives.
In fact, it's not that you can't put it down, it's just that that person or that thing is an important experience in our lives. As someone once said, "Failure teaches us more truth than success." ”
And those that are hard for us to forget, indeed most of them have failed.
It's as if we've heard such a story before, and it's telling us why we only understand it if we've experienced it ourselves. It's a mother-daughter conversation.
The daughter stood at the intersection of life, and a crossroads appeared in front of her, as if there was a road calling her. At this time, her mother stopped her and said, "You can't take that road." ”
The daughter asked, "Why?" ”
My mother replied, "I came from that road." ”
The daughter said, "Why can you go that way, I can't go." ”
The mother said, "I don't want you to take a detour." ”
The daughter said, "But I want to go." ”
Indeed, this is the case, many things we have not walked through, we can not know whether this road is right or wrong, only after walking, we can understand. In your own life, what is crucial and what is irrelevant.
There are some things that we will never understand without experiencing. But it is precisely because of our experience that it will be difficult for us to forget. It's like a very awkward sentence: "If you knew me before, maybe you would understand me now." If you know me now, maybe you will understand me before. ”
In short, in the end, we will eventually understand that things that we could not understand before will only truly understand if we have experienced them ourselves.
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