The hardest book in the world to read is actually people
A person is a book.
It is more difficult to read people than to read books written in other words. I have read it conscientiously, and I have read it for most of my life, and I have not yet understood this "book of man."
Some people are willing to lend you an umbrella on a sunny day, but when it rains, he quietly leaves with an umbrella.
When you read him, don't blame him
Because he himself does not want to be drenched in rain (and other people's umbrellas), nor does he want to share the difficulties of others, what can you say? Or keep an umbrella for yourself.
Some people, when you are powerful and powerful, surround you, and you leave your job, or you are powerless, but he hides far away.
When you read him, you must understand him
Because he used to praise you for some need, now that you don't have that skill, there's no need to chant hymns for you anymore. Here, you need to calm down and first reflect on whether you were too gullible in the past.
Some people, when they pour out their affection in the face of you, the expression of language is like flowing a clear and sweet river, and under the riverbed, there is a dirty undercurrent.
When you read him, don't hate him
Because anyone who deceives others with hypocrisy as a disguise, people before and after people live quite hard, and if they are not good, they will be punished by the hypocrisy of the same kind, you should be considerate of his way of life, waiting for his humanity to return and introspect.
There are people who stand idly by while you sow hard, but when you reap, he shares your fruit for all reasons without shame.
When you read him, don't be disgusted
Because someone is willing to share the sweetness of your harvest, no matter what kind of psychology he has, he should have a welcoming attitude. You make a little sacrifice, but you fulfill a person's desire for performance, and slowly, it will make him learn some self-esteem and self-love.
Some people pay attention to the appearance of the decoration, and the dress shows a kind of luxury, but the depths of the heart are full of emptiness, full of ignorance and ignorance. That uncultured form is often unconsciously revealed in his words and actions.
When you read him, don't despise him
Because he did not understand that clothing is made by a tailor, it is only a sign of money, and that human knowledge, character and temperament are the true value of a person's life. For vulgar people, you can reflect on your own behavior.
Reading others, in fact, is also reading oneself, reading the truth, reading the good, reading the beauty at the same time, but also reading the hypocrisy behind the morality, but also reading the ugliness behind the beauty, but also reading the cunning behind the smile... ... ...
The most important thing in reading people is to understand how to be a person.
To read people is to be a real person.
Therefore, when reading people, we must learn to be tolerant and learn to be generous, so that we can read something that is beneficial to ourselves, can we read nobility, we can read joy, and we can read happiness.
Although I have not finished reading this "book of people", I will always try to read it from all aspects.
(About the author: Feng Jicai, a famous contemporary writer, writer, artist, folk art worker, folk writer, painter)