Does your baby still rely on the electronic version of the story when he listens to the story?
Tell stories to your children yourself, what should you do if your children are disgusted?
Now, you should learn to tell stories to your baby like this!
How would your baby react if you asked you to tell him a story? Troublesome, let him read the storybook himself? Or turn on the TV directly to play cartoons? Maybe you've used it all, but it's not a good idea. Research shows that growing babies like to listen to stories, because their minds are full of all kinds of fantasies and dreams, but they have no way to experience them themselves, so they have to eagerly hope that their parents will tell them stories to meet the characteristics of their whimsical thinking at this age.
Maybe parents will complain, where are so many stories? In fact, preschoolers don't care about the content of the story, because they only like to listen, and even if you repeat the story a dozen or twenty times, they will still listen to it with relish.
When you are free, you may wish to buy a few albums, use the contents of the album to make up a story, and even discuss the content of the story with the baby, or ask the baby to tell the storyline he imagined in his heart. In this way, you can not only reduce a lot of stress, but also expand your baby's imagination and enhance the emotions between parents and children. But don't forget, whether you weave your own story or adapt it from a picture book, it should be educational, to cultivate your baby's qualities of love, confidence, bravery, and integrity.
Actually, an album is a "dead" thing, but the stories you make up are "alive." As long as you are willing to spend more time making up some meaningful stories, your baby will benefit a lot.
Parents often complain that their babies can't sit still when they listen to stories, and they can't hear a few words and run away. In fact, parents should first pay attention to whether their storytelling methods are appropriate.
Parents telling stories to their babies should pay attention to the following aspects:
1. Short and lean
For a 3-year-old, a complicated and lengthy storyline is unacceptable. Therefore, parents should choose a story with a simple plot and interesting interest.
2. Close to life
The characters, animals, etc. involved in the story are best seen or heard by the baby. When babies listen to stories, they have the basis of association, which helps them understand the content of the story and generate interest in listening to it.
3. Accompanied by pictures
When telling stories to the baby, it is best to use pictures, which can not only mobilize the baby's auditory function, but also mobilize their visual function, which is conducive to deepening the baby's memory of the story, and the baby sounds interested. If parents can draw, they may wish to draw while talking, and the story told will be sketched out with a simple diagram, and the effect will be better.
4. Vivid image
Don't be stupid when telling stories to your baby. It is necessary to change in expression, voice, intonation, and action with the change of the plot and characters, so that the baby has a sense of immersion.
5. Game performance
After the baby is familiar with a story, the story can be made into a game, and the parents and the baby play a role in the story, which helps the baby understand and accept the story.
6. Guide in depth
When parents repeat the story, they should guide the baby to recall the plot of the story and the names of the characters in the story. Guide your baby to distinguish between good and ugly, good and evil within the limits of their understanding. At the same time, it inspires the baby to think about the problem with the storyline, which is conducive to moral education and developing the baby's intelligence.
In addition to storytelling, if you want to cultivate your baby's creative ability and creative thinking at the same time, you don't need to go through so much trouble, as long as you take 15 to 30 minutes a day to play creative games with your baby (indoors or outdoors), you can greatly improve your baby's creativity, and sometimes you can even help solve a lot of problems at home.
When engaging in family creative games, you may wish to find a clear theme or problem, try to "encourage" the baby to think of a variety of solutions, for example: you can ask the baby, "In addition to the lamp can be used as a reading lighting device, let's think about it, what is its use?" Or, "The knots of hanging pots, because of watering and soaking, often rot, what is the way to solve this problem?" ”
In addition, parents must observe the following 4 principles:
No criticism is allowed.
Don't always think that the baby's idea is not feasible, in fact, the stranger and fresher the concept, the more worthy of attention.
The greater the number, the better, and even if there is repetition, it is more meaningful than nothing.
Have your baby try to improve the parents' opinions, which will help generate new ideas.
In this way for 3 months, the baby's thinking ability will definitely be significantly improved, then he will no longer be a "stinky cobbler", but a flexible mind like "Zhuge Liang"!
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