"I don't need you to live well, even if you're gone, it doesn't matter, as long as you don't hurt."
People who are not parents may have a hard time understanding this strong feeling, which is a sentence that Taiwan's veteran actress, host Bai Bingbing, Bingbing sister said to her beloved daughter Bai Xiaoyan.
Bai Xiaoyan took a photo with Bai Bingbing before his death
If Bai Xiaoyan is alive, she will be almost 40 years old this year, and Bai Bingbing should also be a grandmother. From being abandoned at an early age, to doing child labor, being split legs, being robbed, and the kidnapping case of the only daughter Bai Xiaoyan, whose cruelty shocked the whole country, Bai Bingbing's suffering in this life is almost endless...
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Who is Bai Bingbing?
Taiwan's well-known actress, singer, actor, host, variety show big sister, is a small S did not dare to make a big predecessor, the media called her "Taiwan's Yamaguchi Baihui", but she called herself "the bitterness of life, the harmonic star on the stage".
Mainland audiences are most familiar with You Ping in her "Double Cannon" and Lei Tiger in "Wu ShiLang". In fact, she had a wonderful performance in the 1990s hit drama "Family with a Fairy Wife".
White ice ice
Audiences who love to watch "Kangxi Lai" know that Bing Bingjie is particularly hard and serious, has never been on the shelf, no matter what the topic is a correct attitude to participate, take gifts out of exchange never bring rags to fool people, every speech has its own effect, as a senior but not rely on the old and sell the old, if she does not say, you can not see that she has experienced so much suffering.
Bai Bingbing is a child of the poor.
Poor enough to be almost sold by his parents, his three younger sisters gave him away, he was slightly older, and he saw his brother crying and being taken away.
Screenshot of "Kangxi Is Coming"
No way, the family can't afford to raise them. Her father was seriously ill, and the family's dozen children lived in a small village next to a mine pit, and at the age of seven she began to work as a child laborer to share the family's burdens.
Someone buried her to raise a flag in front, and when she was young, she didn't have enough strength to carry the flagpole on her stomach to borrow strength, and two hours later she received the money but found that the entire injury in her navel was broken.
She wrote a detail in her biography when someone asked, "Why don't you ask a friend for help?" As soon as she heard it, she knew that this man had never been poor.
She said: "Poor people, no friends. ”
Bai Bingbing was also radiant and loved to sing when she was young, she was bent on entering the entertainment circle, and she participated in hundreds of games before and after without getting out. Until the age of 20, she ran for the fight for women and struggled to squeeze into the show business circle.
White ice in his youth
She thought that the time had come to run, but she did not know that the suffering was not yet half over.
In 1975, she went to Japan to develop and met Kajiwara Kajihara.
It was a tall Japanese man. There is looks, there is a career. He is a cartoonist and the owner of a film company. It is well-known in Japan.
Not long after dating, the comic book screenwriter, who was 19 years older than her, suddenly asked her, "Get married?" Bai Bingbing did not react and replied," Hey! ”
Bai Bingbing rides with her Japanese husband Kajiwara
Yin and yang mistakenly married people like this, and I don't blame her, how much Taiwanese people worship Japanese people don't need me to say more, especially in that era. Bai Bingbing, a 20-year-old newcomer, did not know that this was the second marriage of the other party, and he still had three children.
Bai Bingbing didn't know that this man would bring her favorite child and the saddest event. In contrast, catching a husband's infidelity during a new marriage is insignificant.
Bai Bingbing has a very strong personality, and she once recalled the scene at that time:
The female star pulled on the white sheet to cover her naked body, did not feel sorry at all, looked at me coldly, and said to Kajihara coldly: Didn't you say that you were going to divorce this woman? How did it come to this! ”
At that time, Bai Bingbing was seven months pregnant, and she immediately packed her bags and returned to Taiwan with a big belly.
Five years of time has turned the page. She thought about not having a child in her belly, and she hit her shoulder hard, running, jumping, touching, trying to drain the child. The results were useless. When she heard the fetal heartbeat in the moment before she went to miscarriage, she changed her mind, no matter how hard it was, she was going to give birth to her.
Seeing things and thinking of people, thinking of her daughter when she was a child, Bai Bingbing's inner torment can be imagined
After Bai Xiaoyan was born, Bai Bingbing's father picked up waste bottles in the wine bottle factory, his mother disappeared, and his brothers and sisters were busy with their own affairs. Less than ten days after giving birth to her daughter, Bai Bingbing began to work.
Later, those who were beaten by migrant workers and cut by robbers were very unlucky for ordinary people to encounter once in a lifetime, let's not talk about it, after all, the real suffering has not yet begun.
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To write this case, it takes a certain amount of psychological construction, all of which is too cruel for a 17-year-old child and a single mother.
On April 14, 1997, on an ordinary afternoon, Bai Bingbing, who was working, received a strange phone call, the other party used a voice changer after extremely slow, extremely terrifying, like drinking alcohol, and like taking psychedelic drugs, with a big tongue, a slurred and gloomy voice asking her to go to the cemetery next to the golf course, saying that there was Something about Bai Xiaoyan.
At first, Bai Bingbing did not realize what had happened, until her colleagues reminded her that "it would not be a kidnapping", she called the school and home without a daughter to hear, and when she confirmed that Bai Xiaoyan was kidnapped, Bai Bingbing immediately called the police.
Bai Bingbing told the story of the situation at that time
At that time, Bai Bingbing's career was booming, and she had many popular programs in her hands, she also filmed and made records, and at the same time, she often participated in education and public welfare activities, and also participated in election canvassing, which was called "Variety Sister" by Taiwanese.
Could it be that the limelight is too strong, too rich, or the famous love of the daughter is like life? The kidnappers set their sights on her 17-year-old daughter.
The golf course was very large, and when the brigade searched for four hours and found nothing, they wanted to retreat, when Bai Bingbing personally picked up a plastic bag.
Photos of Bai Xiaoyan's abduction were exposed by the media
She used chopsticks and a fork to slowly open the knot of the plastic bag. Inside was an iron lunch box. When I opened it again, inside was a lump of blood-stained toilet paper. Opening the toilet paper, it was a half-cut bloody thing, "Fingers! ”
Bai Xiaoyan's fingers!
There are also three semi-nude photos of Bai Xiaoyan and a handwritten letter. The crooked handwriting on the letter can be imagined to bai Xiaoyan's fear and pain at that time, and the letter reads:
"Mom, I've been kidnapped, and now it's very painful, you must save me, they want five million dollars, they can't be connected, they want old banknotes." You can't call the police, or you'll die. ”
Bai Xiaoyan wrote a handwritten letter that the kidnappers demanded 5 million US dollars, which was worth more than NT$135 million at the exchange rate at that time
The letter paper was torn from Bai Xiaoyan's bag, and on it was the date of the teacher's correction.
From that moment on, Bai Bingbing had not eaten, drunk or slept for fourteen consecutive days, and she was afraid of missing a little news. This is the second time the daughter has been kidnapped, the last time the whole family was kidnapped was the police saved them, this time Bai Bingbing chose to trust the police again, work together, only to save the daughter.
But what she did not expect was that the news of the "kidnapping of the only daughter of a well-known female artist" quickly leaked out, and various media outlets have reported it. Some newspapers even published half-naked photos of Bai Xiaoyan on the front page in order to attract attention.
The media widely reports on various "insiders" that are difficult to distinguish between true and false
The media completely ignored the hostages and squatted 24 hours a day near her home, and the rooms in the nearby hotel were sold out. The home phone rang constantly, even interfering with the calls that the kidnappers might have made.
Not only that, but there are also large TV broadcast trucks parked in front of her house, and helicopters hovering above... She walked out of the house and begged the reporter to stay away: "If the gangsters know that the police and the media already know, my daughter's life will be in danger, please leave, don't report." ”
No reporters left.
The next afternoon, the kidnapper's second call came: "Is the money ready?" Bai Bingbing asked to listen to her daughter's voice, and there was a mechanical reading of the newspaper on the phone, and Bai Bingbing knew that it was not Bai Xiaoyan as soon as she heard it.
Her heart sank to the bottom. Could it be that Xiaoyan has already been killed? She couldn't swallow, she was restless, and she was on the verge of collapse. At 1 p.m. on the 17th, I finally waited for the gangster's phone: "At three o'clock in the afternoon, you went to the bowling alley in Nankan alone." ”
Taiwanese newspapers reported extensively
Bai Bingbing said to the kidnappers, "I can't drive. ”
After 10 minutes, the kidnappers called and said, "Your daughter said you could drive!" At this sentence, Bai Bingbing cried with joy.
The media has eaten human blood steamed buns to the extreme, and every detail has not been spared from beginning to end
The kidnappers changed the place of payment seven times, and Bai Bingbing once fell into despair. She held a press conference and begged everyone to look for clues together, not to stare at her family: "I am an orphan and a widow, you can't bully me like this." ”
The kidnappers called for the last time, and she circled around Taipei City as instructed by the bandits, and in the process, the reporters followed and reported the details to the outside world at any time. The police have not been able to trace the kidnappers' phone numbers and locations.
At this time, Bai Xiaoyan had been missing for more than ten days.
For the next four days, Bai Bingbing did not receive any calls.
Bai Xiaoyan was tortured before she died
On the afternoon of April 28, a female body was found in a drainage ditch. Say, there is a finger that is missing. Bai Bingbing's liver and intestines were broken, and he rushed to the scene and saw Bai Xiaoyan, who had been dead for 10 days.
The gangsters tied six large iron mallets tightly around Xiao Yan's neck (three), waist (two), and feet (one), the little finger of his left hand was severed, and the wound was wound with wire...
The police offer a reward for the arrest of the perpetrators
The head was twice as big, not a single hair was left, two large holes had collapsed on the top of the head, and the eyes had been eaten by fish...
No one recognized who this really was, only her mother, Bai Bingbing, who knew at a glance that this was her youngest daughter Bai Xiaoyan.
According to the judge's later autopsy report, Bai Xiaoyan died on April 18 after brutal beatings and rape. The specific details can be Baidu by yourself, too brutal to write out.
It was so tragic, so tragic that a mother felt that such a tragic situation was worse than death.
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The main culprit in this case is named Chen Jinxing, a well-known bandit in Taiwan. Half a year later, he committed several crimes and fled. Throughout the escape, Chen Jinxing raped a total of 19 women, the oldest of whom was 60 years old and the youngest 13 years old.
Most intriguing is the fact that on November 18, 1997, Chen Jinxing took Colonel Zhuo Maoqi, the military attaché of the South African Embassy, and his family hostage and confronted the police at his residence.
Chen Jinxing was arrested and prosecuted
A large number of media rushed to the scene for live broadcasting, and various anchors talked to them one after another, so excited that they even wanted to call out to Bai Bingbing. When Chen Jinxing talked about the excitement, he also broke the news that when he cut Bai Xiaoyan's fingers that day, the knife was too blunt, and he cut it in half with a brick and slashed the back of the knife before cutting it.
How painful it must be for Bai Bingbing to hear these details...
These unscrupulous, frenzied media outlets for ratings are still reporting. Chen Jinxing's ending has many stories, and he is not willing to spend more ink on him.
Police rounded up
Speaking of Bai Bingbing, she could not leave the house for more than two months after the painful loss of her beloved daughter, and washed her face with tears all day long. After Bai Xiaoyan's death, Bai Bingbing's father also passed away due to excessive grief.
Bai Bingbing asked himself many times, "What evil have I done to suffer such retribution!" ”
To this day, there are still people who want to expose the ice scars
Not a day in more than twenty years has she not missed her children.
Because she missed Xiaoyan, she was tricked by the psychic medium into going to ten million.
It is also because she misses Xiaoyan that she founded the "Bai Xiaoyan Cultural and Educational Foundation" to help children in difficulty. In 2013, this strong woman even took out her own trauma to play the role of the mother who lost her son in "That Day Mother Came to See Me", and won the Golden Bell Award for Actress.
Poster of "Mom Came to See Me That Day"
She is still active in Taiwanese variety shows, and she can stabilize her emotions when Bai Xiaoyan's matter is mentioned on the show, and she has also said that she wants to "bring Xiaoyan back again."
She traveled to the United States and Taiwan to do IVF 16 times, all of which ended in failure. She didn't give up until her age didn't allow it.
In 2018, after the death of Bai Bingbing's mother, she posted a photo on Weibo and sighed, "The four people in the photo are now only me... Look up at the sky, there are no stars. ”
The words overflowed with sorrow
The most tragic part of Bai Bingbing is that as a media person, she relies on the media to become famous and survive, and her own daughter is almost killed by the media and drinks blood and eats meat, and as a result, she still has to continue to live in the media.
And today's technological means are more advanced, really appeal to everyone not to post photos of children in the public media, because you never know that the "save" button behind the screen is a person, a dog, or a demon...