Is it marriage that ends love? Mrs. Song of "Snail Residence" said in one sentence that the unbearable truth of marriage was exhausted
The finale of the fairy tale is nothing more than the prince and princess breaking through many obstacles, defeating demons and ghosts, defeating witches, and living happily in the castle after marriage.
However, in real life, love is beautiful, marriage has become the graveyard of love, in fact, where is it so simple?
The TV series "Snail House" tells a story around the house, a story that makes people mixed and thought-provoking.
In fact, the play only borrows the shell of the house to talk about things, about love, about marriage, but also directly to the humanity behind people and things.
After Hai Ping and Su Chun, who love each other, enter the marriage, they find that everything has changed.
The handsome big boy became a greasy middle-aged man, the back was a little arched, the brain door began to be a little bright, and the seaweed, also by the beautiful and gentle, bird-like young girl, because of pregnancy and childbirth and the body deformation, the romance between the two no longer exists, some are just the parents in the short, a chicken feather and live.
Seeing that the once radiant sister had become the shrew who was calculating, Seaweed was confused.
Soon, she meets a man named Song Siming who can make her realize many previously untouchable dreams, but he is not a prince on a white horse, he is just a poisonous apple brought to her by the witch of life.
In fact, the person who is most sober about love and marriage in the play is Song Siming's wife, she said
"Men need stepping stones when they are young, they need a strong needle in middle age, and they need a crutch when they are old."
Unfortunately, she could not resolutely get out of marriage.
01, seaweed because of the greed in the heart, reduced to a successful middle-aged man's strong needle
After graduating from college, the young and beautiful seaweed constantly changed jobs, struggling in real life, holding a small amount of money, but taking on tedious and laborious work.
She likes all kinds of luxuries, but she can only sigh, and even eat a Haagen-Dazs has to think twice.
Fortunately, she is still young, still immersed in beautiful love, and does not need to be like her sister, anxious every day about buying a second-hand house or a new house.
And her boyfriend Xiaobei has already planned to save some money in a year or two, plus the support of "your father" and "my father" to buy a set of "snail house".
Seaweed also once thought that love could make up for material deficiencies.
However, after witnessing her sister arguing with her brother-in-law for "one dollar", she ate noodles every day in order to save money and buy a house. She questioned her life: "Will I and Xiaobei be like this too?" ”
Later, in order to repay the usury for her sister, Seaweed borrowed money from Xiaobei.
Originally, she had always thought that since the two were in love, then: yours is mine, and mine is yours.
Unexpectedly, the money saved by Xiaobei from between his teeth was for the two of them to buy a house in the future, so he did not hesitate to refuse the seaweed's request to borrow money.
The moment he saw Xiao Bei roaring angrily, Seaweed's heart also wavered in his heart for the love he had once believed in, "I am not your person, from now on, I will not ask you for money again." ”
Tears of disappointment swept through her eyes, and in despair, she rushed down the stairs only to find herself with nowhere to go.
It made her feel desperate, and at the same time questioned the love, just for sixty thousand yuan, which became a big gap between the two.
However, Song Siming almost effortlessly, as if just taking out a box of candy, he easily took out the money and stuffed it to seaweed.
At this time, the balance of Seaweed's heart was completely out of balance, and Xiaobei's incompetence completely made her disappointed in this love.
In Song Siming's eyes, she is a little girl, a dreamy little girl, her sleepwalking doll-like look aroused the most primitive impulses in his heart and the dreams of youth, sleepwalking doll-like looks aroused the most primitive impulses in his heart and the dreams of youth.
In the small nest built by Song Siming, seaweed is like a carefree princess, she only needs to enjoy the rich material life.
Song Siming is mature and stable and in a high position, far-sighted and humorous, he can not only give her a good feeling of spending thousands of dollars, but also can solve all kinds of troubles in life and work for her, including her sister's troubles of buying a house, and a series of thorny problems encountered by her brother-in-law in the unit.
All this greatly satisfies the vanity of this girl, making her willing to be Song Siming's mistress, even if she has no identity and cannot see the light, she is willing and remorseless to throw herself into this fruitless love.
However, even if they put on a beautiful cloak for this relationship, this is just a bad relationship, to put it bluntly, it is just a little girl who covets enjoyment, and has become a strong needle for a successful man, and the two take what they need and deceive themselves in the name of love.
02, Song Tai, who single-handedly created a perfect husband, a stepping stone in his youth, and a future wife
Song Siming's wife, Jiang Miaomiao, is wise and wise, and has a good family background from childhood, which makes her have a graceful and delicate temperament.
At first, Song Siming was a child of an ordinary family, but he married Jiang Miaomiao, a second-generation official, and this high-level marriage brought Song a beautiful future at the same time, but also inevitably damaged his man's self-esteem, especially when Song Siming learned that his wife was not a virgin when he married him.
But Jiang Miaomiao used everything he had to make this man.
When Song Siming went abroad for further study, Jiang Miaomiao took the child alone and lived by relying on the help of her mother's family. In order to let Song Xin do his career without distraction, Jiang Miaomiao not only took care of everything in the family, but also took care of his in-laws and handled various relationships for him.
Maybe it was the former "virgin" complex, or the old lover of the past, or the nature of men who like the new and the old, Song Siming has little feelings and feelings for his wife, she is only the mother of his children, but it may not be the person he loves, but marriage is still a necessity for the two.
Song Siming needs this marriage as a protection because of his career, and Jiang Miaomiao knows that Song Siming's feelings have wandered, but he clings to this marriage shell as a thought he has paid.
Mrs. Song's words are the best interpretation of the heart:
"Song Siming is the 'pearl' that my 'clam' endured for half a lifetime and only grinded out. It was not easy to get to this day, and how willing to give it to people. ”
In fact, to put it bluntly, jiang Miaomiao in the past was a stepping stone to Song Siming's success, and the future Jiang Miaomiao was his old companion, both of whom knew it, but they were willing.
03, Haiping sacrificed her sister for a better marriage, and she became a stepping stone
After entering the marriage, Haiping became more and more realistic under the blow of reality, and she said to Seaweed:
"If a man really loves a woman, don't play with it, you love this woman, the first thing to give is neither your heart nor your body, one is to take a stack of tickets, so that women do not have to worry about the future; the other is to offer a house, at least when you can't have a man, the heart is lost, and the body is still falling." 」
Because of the embarrassing situation after marriage, Su Chun's incompetence made her feel sad and helpless, so she had a more realistic understanding of love.
However, she is stronger and more independent than seaweed, and she wants to get her own house on her own and survive in the big city.
The desire for the house is the most direct driving force for her struggle and progress, for the sake of the house she eats clear soup and noodles to live, and the landlord is preoccupied, learning to calculate, the city servant and utilitarian.
However, what bothered her was that Su Chun not only could not make money, but caused her a lot of trouble, which made her feel physically and mentally haggard.
Haiping, who has always been strong, had to ask her sister Seaweed for help.
What she did not expect was that Seaweed met Song Siming and easily solved the trouble that the two of them had done their best but could not do.
Although she subconsciously understood that Song Siming's help would never be for no reason, nor would it be unrequited. However, in order to solve the immediate trouble, she had to pretend to be deaf and dumb, and let her sister fall, in fact, there was still a trace of happiness in her heart, and her sister could get to know such a capable person.
When all the troubles were solved, HaiPing unconsciously blurted out: "It would be good to know him earlier."
Haiping sacrificed the happiness of seaweed for the second half of her life in exchange for the life she wanted, with a house, a family of three established a foothold in this metropolis, and a career of her own, opening a school.
All this was obtained through Song Siming behind the seaweed, but she felt that all this was obtained by her own efforts, and she said with a word:
"I don't want to cut corners, I don't want to be opportunistic."
It has to be said that Haiping is more shameful than seaweed, she sacrificed her sister, saved her marriage and happiness, and in turn, educated her sister.
However, I can't help but wonder, after many years, will Haiping become the second Jiang Miaomiao? She single-mindedly created a beautiful marriage, but did not know that she had become a stepping stone for Su Chun to enter a successful person?
epilogue:
Love is romantic and fragile, after entering marriage, the reality of unbearable will once be the good memories of the powder, revealing the vicious side of life.
In fact, a lot of the troubles in marriage come from the fact that we want too much and can't do anything about it.
Therefore, some people sink in the marriage and complain about themselves, while others have different thoughts and bury the marriage.
In fact, it is better to let go of those desires in your heart, perhaps in order to feel the beauty of a dull life.