As the saying goes: "Life is like chess, some people can live a dead chess game, while some people will mess up a good chess game." ”
Many people hope that they are the former, to be able to get out of the mud of their own beautiful life, but in reality, there are many people who have become the latter, obviously have better conditions than others, but in the end they still destroy the future of the situation.
Supergirl in 2005 should be regarded as a very successful talent show, not only emerged a lot of high-quality players, but also really a stage for civilian players to show their skills, where there were many rising stars, such as Li Yuchun, Zhang Liangying, Zhou Bichang, He Jie and so on.
But compared to the glory of the first few, He Jie, who also sings well and looks sweet, is particularly lonely, not only has no fame, but also seems to be gradually diluted out of the circle, like a passerby N, so what is the reason that He Jie, who should be equally brilliant, has come to the point where no one cares?
Maybe it all starts at the beginning of the story.
In 2005, a talent show called "Super Girl" quickly occupied the audience's field of vision, the street canvassing, voting was in full swing, the contestants' unreserved performances, so that the audience watched straight out, and still remember the supergirl champion Li Yuchun's song "Only You Don't Have Him in My Heart".
To be honest, this year's draft should be the highest quality in the past Supergirls, so the top few who came out of this draft, basically, have become popular in the next few years, but only one Supergirl seems to have been forgotten by The Goddess of Luck, from a glittering rookie to a "little transparent" that no one cares about.
However, people who know He Jie's subsequent development story may not feel sorry for her "lonely and nameless", but will think that she blames herself and blames others.
At first, he Jie's development trend after standing out from Supergirl was still a good one, coupled with her own good singing and sweet looks, it earned her a wave of popularity, but as her confusing love history was exposed, her passers-by were gradually exhausted.
Someone once commented on He Jie's emotional history: since her debut, although she has only disclosed three relationships, one is more wonderful than the other, which makes people feel disgusted.
In 2010, He Jie and child star Shi Xiaolong became acquainted with the drama, at the beginning, the two did not choose to be public, but there is no secret in the entertainment industry, and the two people who are in love can hide some details of the "eyebrow affection", and it was not long before the relationship between the two was exposed.
This wave of love bombs instantly set off a wave, one is a new star selected, the development of these years is not bad, the other is a well-known child star, at the beginning, many people are not optimistic about the two, always feel that some do not match.
But this sister-brother love is still going on in their way, perhaps at that time, whether it is He Jie or Shi Xiaolong are deeply in love with each other, otherwise how can they grow a cute "happiness fat", so slowly, everyone also began to accept and bless the love affair between the two.
However, the two have only been separated for about a year, and there is gossip that the separation of the two stems from the parents of both sides, and it seems that the parents of the two cannot look at each other, but whatever the reason, this sister-brother relationship ended quickly and hastily.
Not long after the breakup, He Jie met true love again, in October 2012, He Jie's new song conference, a man entered the public eye, he is He Ziming, but also He Jie's first husband.
No one knows when the two were together, but it was not long after the end of He Jie's last relationship, so for the appearance of He Ziming, there were many opinions on the Internet, and originally a group of melon-eating masses were still speculating about how long He Jie's unguarded emotional meeting lasted.
But the next second, the two people who announced their relationship for less than a year quickly got married and became a loving little couple.
For a time, stunned a lot of melon people, after all, the two of them this love official announcement has not been long, the heat has not dissipated, as a result, suddenly it was revealed that the two flash marriage, seriously, this speed is indeed fast enough, of course, this may also be a kind of love to the depths of the natural become.
After marriage, He Jie and her husband He Ziming's "love" was often exposed by the media, but just when everyone was immersed in this "love", the inside story about He Ziming was pulled out, it is reported that on the eve of coming together with He Jie, He Ziming was not single, in other words, his emotional state showed that he "already had a girlfriend", but in such a situation, he pursued He Jie, according to his own disclosure, He Jie was chased by him with more than 800 text messages a day.
At the moment when the two established their relationship, He Ziming still seemed to be with his girlfriend at the time, but the next second he turned against him and fell in love with He Jie, so it was suspected that the act of stepping on two boats was obviously a blasphemy against love.
As for whether He Jie knew the inside story, no one knew.
However, because of this, many people who know about this matter ironically believe that He Ziming's seamless marriage is comparable to a precise time management master, fortunately, these two people are not hot, otherwise they will have to distort the three views of how many people.
He Jie and He Ziming's marriage is not happy, no one knows, but from the result of pregnancy after marriage, it should be happy, but later, the mutual tearing scene staged when the two divorced made people think deeply, marriage or childbirth, at best, it was love.
When the feelings are broken, there is no imaginary good gathering and good dispersion, only relentless mutual tearing, although in the past, the two often combined on the variety show of love, or in front of the camera to show love, or in the air to complain about love, boldly confess each other, but all this beauty is defeated in the word "breakup".
At the end of 2016, the two officially announced their divorce, the former loving husband and wife were instantly overturned, and what is even more ridiculous is that a month before the official announcement of divorce, He Ziming, who has a good husband, also disclosed why he cleaned the call on a certain blog, like an infatuated man, opening his mouth and shutting his mouth "Always support you, my wife", "I am the number one fan forever", all these obsessive words, at the moment when the two officially announced their divorce, they all seemed desolate and ridiculous.
If it is said that the divorce is already the subversion of the previous love between the two, then after that, the annual drama of the two people will make the melon-eating masses shout directly, "On playing with feelings, I will not accept anyone, just obey you two."
He Ziming first exposed his ex-wife He Jie's old bottom on a social platform, not to say that the other party and his married life were not harmonious, that is, his wife betrayed himself and put on a green hat for him, in addition, He Ziming also said that He Jie simply looked down on him, because he did not earn as much as her, and what made him more intolerable was that He Jie often abused him.
To tell the truth, if what He Ziming said is not false, then He Jie is indeed a person with a worrying personality, cheating in marriage, domestic violence, which is unforgivable, but in fact, the annual drama of the two can not only listen to one person.
Immediately after, following the ex-husband's "humble man" persona elaboration, He Jie also responded immediately, but compared to her ex-husband's remarks of "I am wronged, I want to say, let everyone see the true face of you as a woman", He Jie's response did not explain too much, but instead retreated into progress, bluntly saying that she was willing to leave the gossip to time to confirm, she did not want to be that clown.
He Jie's move to retreat into the advance, won the support of many people, seeing that the situation seems to be reversed by his ex-wife little by little, He Ziming once again released a big move, and this time, he seems to want to break the net and not leave each other with half a bit of decency.
First of all, it is said that the two officially declared a relationship before is not the original intention, but a hype carefully portrayed by He Jie and his company, in order to earn enough audience attention when He Jie released a new song, so that she can increase her heat.
Subsequently, He Ziming directly revealed that He Jie's new object Diao Lei, and this accusation is justified, He Ziming also said that he and Diao Lei's ex-wife have timed each other, the two are indeed both cheating in marriage, for a time, He Jie cheated on the marriage and threw dirty water on her ex-husband's news, and He Jie at the center of the incident was also criticized by a lot of public opinion.
However, Diao Lei's ex-wife still stood up, and she said impartially that He Jie did intervene in her marriage, but He Ziming was not clean, after all, the recording of her dialogue with him was randomly spliced by the other party, in other words, Diao Lei's ex-wife did not help anyone.
Subsequently, perhaps in order to confirm the implicit meaning of Diao Lei's ex-wife, he Ziming, who deliberately set up a person, still overturned, he was not a sad man who was "wronged Baba", but a complete "scum", a group of photos of returning home late at night with long-haired beauties, so that Heziming's image collapsed completely.
The follow-up development is nothing more than two points, the woman tries her best to save the image, denies that she cheated in marriage, wants to show that she is the victim of this marriage, and the man constantly throws dirty water on the woman, trying to make the woman and herself discredited together.
But in fact, the sober melon-eating masses simply ignored the two people, after all, what is there to take sides in the "nest of snakes and rats"?
Afterwards, I thought that the storm of this matter would subside, but then, the news of He Jie and Diao Lei's remarriage still made many netizens turn over the old accounts.
Although the matter of feelings is involuntary, love and not love, are personal choices, but after the previous incidents such as marital infidelity, He Jie's "calmness" does make many netizens unable to understand, after all, Ming's "derailment" is in front of them, He Jie and Diao Lei can still get married like a nobody, which is really shocking.
Of course, He Jie's "calmness" is not voluntary, if it were not for a screenshot of a chat record that woke up, perhaps He Jie would not have "taken the initiative" to reveal that he and Diao Lei were married, and the two already had children.
It should be known that He Jie was still immersed in the marriage that was "hurt" by He Ziming in the previous period, and she herself also said that she would not remarry in the future, but what she did not expect was that the news of her remarriage came so unexpectedly.
However, before everyone lifted the small bench to eat melon, the news of He Jie's remarriage and marriage change came, she took Diao Lei off, the ring of the ring finger was gone, Diao Lei returned to the single apartment alone, and the two were suspected of living apart.
In this way, this marriage that was not favored by everyone ushered in a group ridicule, and in the face of outside rumors, He Jie's explanation was to throw out a photo of a hand with five fingers carrying a ring, with the text "The ring is blocked."
But in fact, it does not matter whether He Jie's marriage is married or not, because with one period of emotional history after another, everyone has long been numb to her emotional history, and she herself will change from a singer with a good passerby to an "N" line singer who has no passers-by now.
For example, in a previous commercial performance, the obvious backward business ability and the high note that cannot be sung, all the inadvertent details have made He Jie's "not fire" a matter of course, "the spark of the stars can burn the plains", compared with other supergirls in the same period, He Jie's bleak star path is indeed traceable, but also self-inflicted.
Now, Lang Jie 3 is suspected of returning to the stage, someone broke the news of What Jie in the list of participants, but this time, no one paid for it, but before that, He Jie also posted many times that he hoped that he could go to Lang Jie, and then specially a special official social account.
Seriously, this wave of operations is indeed a bit of a mystery, is it in the self-detonation will participate in the show? Or do you simply want to rub the heat? Or do you want to ask yourself for a job?
But no matter which one, He Jie's passerby has long been ruined by himself, and the Internet is not without memory, from the previous paragraph after paragraph of love history, all began with a wretched look, ended in an unbearable way, especially the marriage of her ex-husband He Ziming and the current Diao Lei, which makes He Jie's future step by step muddy.
Mohr said, "Choice is the most difficult part of life." ”
Compared with the same period of players, the reason why He Jie appears lonely and nameless is not because of lack of luck, nor is it lack of strength, but because of her choice, every period of criticized love history, pushes it into the abyss little by little.
The world loves to say that "details see character", from the divorce drama with He Ziming to the marriage with Diao Lei, it seems that every detail reveals some clearly visible information, and it is this information that He Jie has gradually lost his popularity, from a rookie who can look forward to it, to a "marginal entertainer" who is not welcomed.
Therefore, even if you have a good game of chess, it is not easy to play it well.
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