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Marriage is like a gamble, where the winner shouts for the championship and the loser is full of tears. However, some people lose so badly that they are crazy enough to fold and kill themselves. He Jie once fell into this pathetic situation. You might think this is just a joke. No, He Jie was really on the verge of despair when she was 28 years old and almost gave up her life.
She was once a smash hit, but under the double blow of marriage and career, she fell to the ground. How did this former super idol step by step go to the abyss of no return? He Jie's life trajectory was once quite exciting. At the age of 19, she shined on the Supergirl stage and became famous overnight.
In the next few years, she was known as a "folk idol". But at the age of 25, her career fell into a trough, and new talents in the music scene continued to emerge, gradually eating away at her popularity. Probably sensing the hopelessness of her career, He Jie began to shift the focus of her life and blindly devoted herself to marriage.
At the age of 28, she married He Ziming and soon gave birth to a son. Everything seems to be calm, but the stormy waves are brewing secretly. After marriage, He Jie's life fell into a complete runaway. As the saying goes, "beating is kissing and scolding is love". But He Ziming's husband seems to have gone a little too far, and his "love" for her is too iron-fisted.
He asked He Jie to teach her husband and children wholeheartedly, and he was in charge of everything else. This is undoubtedly a huge blow to He Jie, a first-time mother. She thinks that she can't do anything but give birth to children, and she makes the mistake of "mom bao man" all day long, and she has lost her sense of control over life and herself.
She thinks she has achieved nothing, blames others for all her mistakes, and complains about He Ziming. The rift in love has intensified. When the crisis came, He Jie confronted him at home alone. He Ziming is busy with work and is often away from home. Lonely and anxious, she cried and cried all day long, and she collapsed.
Depression began to rage, and she even thought about giving up her life at one point. In this way, what is the meaning of marriage? Isn't the family just a place of oppression and bondage? The 28-year-old He Jie has fallen into the dark period of her life, and her whole person seems to have fallen into a deep well, unable to find a way out. Fortunately, Diao Lei broke into her life in time to resolve the crisis.
Obviously, the trauma caused by marriage to He Jie is not small. Even today, 7 years after the divorce, she is still full of resentment when she mentions He Ziming. Time can dilute hatred, but the ugliness left by trauma will never be healed. From one point of view, He Ziming and He Jie have never been the most suitable person for each other, and they are destined to break up.
However, it was precisely because of the divorce farce that year that He Ziming fell into trouble and his career plummeted. Today, he bluntly admits that everything in the past has long since washed away time beyond recognition. Even today's He Jie is emphasizing that "choosing a husband depends on the inside" and attaches importance to the fit of the soul. It's a pity that this lesson came too late.
At that time, she was alone in love with He Ziming's handsome appearance, ignoring the importance of inner morality. This created the tragedy of the marriage. It is not difficult to see that the trauma brought by the divorce to He Jie is deep and long-lasting. And the biggest victim is the child of the two. They grew up in a restructured family, having to accept the fact that they were separated from two families, and rarely saw their biological father.
For children, this is tantamount to a double injury. Yesterday's grievances and hatreds have long since disappeared with the wind, and today's harmony and explanation are the way out for everything. We all hope that both of us can really let go of hatred and live well. Let it pass, there's no need to let the child pay.
Those good old days don't need to be crowned with any hateful footnotes. Take advantage of the time and cherish the people in front of you. Embrace the past and present lives with benevolence, and only then can everything new be opened beautifully.
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