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The Winter Olympics have been successfully concluded, the small Internet celebrity "ice pier" is also about to leave work, this Beijing Winter Olympics, we have surpassed our former selves, And the Chinese athletes have also shown the sportsmanship of the yangyang country to the people of the world.
Although the friendship first competition is second, but the competitive competition still has to be ranked, winning and losing is avoided, athletes must not only strive to achieve good results, but also have a good attitude in the face of failure.
Sun Long fell down in relay, and sent a text to say six "I'm sorry"
In the men's short track speed skating 5,000 meters relay, Chinese athlete Sun Long accidentally fell, eventually causing the Chinese team to rub shoulders with the medal.
For a time, Sun Long became the "target of everyone", many netizens questioned Sun Long's ability as a professional athlete, Sun Long also posted a blog after the game to apologize, read Sun Long's Weibo, and felt more heartache.
Sun Long attributed this mistake to his own anxiety, and believed that it was all his responsibility, and finally used 6 sorrys to express his apologies and regrets.
In fact, Sun Long himself is like everyone else, who does not want to achieve good results on the field? But there are many uncertainties on the field, even if the athletes have made sufficient preparations, it is certainly inevitable to be affected and interfered with, Sun Long's all-out mood netizens can understand, but how many people can feel the pressure as an athlete?
Sun Long's 6 sorry is also painful, in the face of failure, you can only blame yourself, invisibly increasing a lot of pressure and burden, but in fact, you really don't have to be so guilty, as long as you work hard.
Parents habitually instill the idea of "winning" in their children, but ignore how much pressure this expectation will bring to their children. At the Tokyo Olympics, Japanese table tennis player Ito Mimachi was brainwashed by his mother from a young age to "win", and even his sleeping mother did not forget to brainwash Ito in his ear.
Although Ito has become a very good athlete, the behavior of smiling when winning the olympic games and "crying his nose" when he loses is indeed difficult to like.
Children who can't afford to lose are more difficult to succeed, don't let children become such people
Everyone has a sense of victory and defeat, regardless of age, but everything is not only win or lose, in the freestyle ski women's big jump, Gu Ailing won the first place, the second place Tess Ludd is only 0.75 points less than Gu Ailing, after the game Gu Ailing hugged Tess Ludd tightly.
In her words, this gold medal is for everyone, and Gu Ailing is a talented girl in everyone's eyes, but she also has a time when she wins a silver medal.
Sportsmanship is about constantly surpassing and challenging yourself, not defeating your opponents! The popularity of Gu Ailing is inseparable from her "affordable to lose".
Children who cannot accept failure and mistakes are imperfect, even when they grow up, they are vulnerable, and they are weak in the face of life and real suffering, on the contrary, children can accept the results of failure in order to better surpass themselves and achieve progress.
In the process of educating their children, parents must not only let their children experience the joy of success, but also win over their children in various games and let their children accept reality.
In addition, parents do not put too much pressure on the child, learn to say "it doesn't matter" to the child, the greater the pressure given by the parents, the heavier the child's psychological burden, the more difficult it is to accept the result of losing, everything does not look at the result, look at the process, try your best is the biggest "winner".