Women's understanding of love often only cares about pure love, but the love that men can give women is very rational.
Faced with different understandings of love, many women often have doubts.
Why do you know that you love to die and live, but you are hurt to the skin?
Women's love, lack of security, so women want to find comfort from men, however, men's expression of love is very real, speaking without paying attention to methods, the more they want to comfort her, the more they hurt her.
Women are very emotional, men are very realistic, and when emotion meets realists, then women's faces will become wonderful.
In the understanding of men, such a woman is a neurosis, but for a woman, such a man just does not understand the woman's heart, is a straight man, is a scumbag.
Of course, women become emotional and often have a relationship with men, maybe there are people outside the men, maybe men focus on other things and ignore themselves.
However, for men, they are just playing a trick, or running and working hard for their own careers, while women ask too much of themselves, which is simply a fuss.
In fact, for women, she is wronged, and she also hopes that the love she gives is understood and hurt by others.
But if the love given is not exchanged for the same love, the heart will be indignant.
Of course, men have to support their families and work hard to earn money outside, and men will think that taking a lot of money home is the greatest contribution to love.
However, women are not only short of money, but also lack love and companionship.
Even a sane and mature woman, once faced with feelings, will lose herself, and she needs the feeling of being surrounded by love.
Of course, men in love will definitely do what they like and give her what they want.
The woman is very satisfied at this time, and has received the man's verbal commitment and action in a down-to-earth manner.
However, after marriage, men often change their faces, because he has already married women, and women still want the sweetness of the beginning, but what men want is to support their families and fight for their careers and families.
The gap in understanding has brought a lot of trouble to life after marriage.
At this time, the woman will say: Men are changeable, and they will not love her when they are married!
Actually, it's not that men don't love, because they have two words written on their shoulders: responsibility.
Of course, many women will say that the reason why men choose to get married is to pass on the generations.
This statement is beyond reproach, human reproduction begins from this aspect, not passing on the generations, is not it contrary to social laws, and every pair of people who love each other hope to have their own love crystal, is this not good?
Of course, some men are very careful, and they choose marriage just to satisfy their own desires, or they are not bound outside the heartbeat.
Men long for freedom, even if they have a happy little home, they also long for the flowers and plants outside.
Men don't like to be restrained, and they don't like to be yelled at by women.
But some women like to think of themselves as the leader of the family, and in the long run, the man will soon get tired and want to break away from the family, because in this family, he can't find his own happiness.
Maybe it's that women love too tightly, and the more men want to break free.
It is precisely this contradiction that makes more families face the ups and downs.
In fact, what is concerned between men and women is tolerance and understanding, women herding men will make men more concerned about the family, do not bind him, the more tightly grasped, the easier it is to lose.
Whether it is a man or a woman, being together is fate, that is, to help each other, to share each other's worries, only to treat each other as their other half, everything will be solved, and it will come to fruition.
Life is too stressful, whether it is a man or a woman, you have to think about the time when you can't open it.
At such a time, as your other half, don't go to the other party to find trouble, don't blame the other party because of the silence of the other party.
The right thing to do is to comfort him, but to understand why he has become like this, so as to help him relieve his worries.
Men, like women, want someone to help them, and it is always annoying to give themselves a troublesome partner.
No one is the eternal savior, and everyone has a vulnerable side.
Women rely on men and want men to be saviors and save everything for themselves, but men are not saviors, and he also needs someone to decompress.
A woman who often says that her man is incompetent, in fact, she herself is even more incompetent. You can't be a phoenix yourself, you have to turn into a swan and fly with her, but if your man is a swan, then he will only be with other swans.
So, for love, moderation is good!
It is more important to achieve yourself as a woman than to be a man.
Although women are the main force in the family, they have to get married and have children, but also have to go to work to earn money.
However, for women, the main force in the family is actually men.
But as women, don't feel sorry for yourself, when there is no man, we can also live a wonderful life, if you are fragrant, butterflies come.
Then, if a woman wants to live a wonderful life, even after marriage, she must often dress herself beautifully, only in this way can you let your husband always have a beautiful wife.
Loving yourself is a woman's compulsory course.
Similarly, men all like women who have their own independent personalities, and women who are always dependent on men will be bored by men.
Dale Carnegie said: The key points of women's success and happiness lie in self-esteem, self-respect, courage and confidence, pay attention to overcoming the weaknesses of human nature in dealing with family and career problems, give full play to the advantages of human nature, give full play to women's potential intelligence, and thus obtain happiness in life!
For the love between men and women, Carnegie pointed out the key point.
Between men and women, facing marriage and feelings, it is actually just a contest of reason and sensibility.
Smart women know how to praise men and make men energetically do things for themselves.
Ignorant women will only blame men and let men gradually go away in complaining.
In the book "Carnegie's Advice to Women on Happiness in Life", we are told the code to open a happy marriage, so that women can read it with their hearts open, and men can read it more and love their wives more.
This book tells us what is a woman's confusion in feelings, let us soberly realize that if we want to have happy love and marriage, we must tolerate and understand men, be a woman who can control her emotions, know how to love herself, be a woman who will firmly hold her own man in her own hands, and let men be willing and die for themselves.
If, as a woman, you are facing emotional twists and turns, or you want a happy marriage, then you must read this "Carnegie's Advice to Women for a Lifetime of Happiness."
I hope that everyone can benefit from this book, know how to manage marriage, grasp the business code of love between men and women, and thus become invincible and have a happy marriage.