Recently, Shandong Jining netizens shared a heart-warming video. In the video, a 3-year-old boy suddenly gets angry because he wears the wrong mask and starts a fire at his mother. When the mother saw it, she gently asked her son why he was angry. Is it the anger of the mask, or the anger of the mother? Because the boy was young, he didn't know how to express it, so he slammed it with his hand
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Discouraged.
Although the son was a bit unreasonable, the mother was not angry, still patiently comforted the son, and taught the son that he could be angry when he was angry, but he could not hit anyone. After 20 minutes of unraveling, the mother hugged the child, and the child's face gradually showed a smile. Mom said that he should be very broken, but he didn't know how to accept and dispel this strange feeling in his heart.
Netizens are also hotly discussed about this:
"If this emotion of the child is changed to me, I may also lose my temper, and sure enough, I am not suitable for raising children, this mother is so gentle and the way of education is very good."
"At this time, adults can't let children suppress their emotions. Guide the child and let the child's emotions slowly release. This mom did a great job. ”
"Usually my son cries and loses his temper, I just let him cry out on his own, don't say anything about him, just look at him quietly, he will recover his mood when he cries enough."
I have to say that this mother's approach is really good. I believe that many parents will follow when their children lose their temper for no reason
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Irritable, and then vent your anger on the child. In fact, this is a double harm to the child, and it is not advisable. Children are young, encounter things do not know how to deal with and tantrums is normal behavior, we adults to do, is to help them to solve these problems.
What do you think?