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"I have been with you for eight years without a name and no part, these eight years I have entered the year of standing from an ignorant girl in my early twenties, the best eight years of a girl have been given to you, you don't marry me, I will marry your brother, you wait!" 」
The woman who said this passage is named Jiani, an actress from Shandong, who once played the role of "Yan Hong" in "Orange Red".
The "you" in her mouth refers to her ex-boyfriend, the "old drama bone" villain Hu Shen Junyi.
As the saying goes, a friend's wife cannot be deceived.
After 8 years of youth, a woman can cut off her love and turn around to marry her boyfriend's brother.
What is the story behind this complex love-hate relationship?
01
The profession of acting has always eaten the food of appearance.
Those ordinary people who are born with ordinary appearances, but love acting, want to eat this bowl of rice and have to pay many times the effort.
Once a reporter interviewed Shen Junyi: "Why are you so desperate? ”
Shen Junyi said frankly: "I don't have a stable job, I don't know if there will be a drama to find me tomorrow after this drama is finished, there is still a family waiting for me to raise it, of course, I have to work hard." ”
That's what he said and that's what he did. At one time, he filmed 14 plays a year, and all the works he has participated in since his debut have added up to more than 130.
It is not an exaggeration to call him a model worker in the show business circle, and from him, you can probably see the whole process of an ordinary person changing careers to become an actor.
Shen Junyi was born in 1957 to a military family in Guangxi. At the age of 5, his father, a soldier, led his family to beijing to live.
Shen Junyi was broad-shouldered from a small shoulder and looked like a northerner from the outside.
Because of his tall stature when he was a student, he fell in love with basketball and became a main member of the school basketball team. At that time, he was full of thoughts about becoming a basketball player, what acting, he didn't think about it at all.
In 1975, at the age of 18, Shen Junyi was fortunately selected by the basketball team of the 69th Army and was called into the army as a sports soldier.
In the three years of military career, Shen Junyi's strong physique has been trained, and as he grows older, his thinking has also changed slightly.
After retiring from the army, he was assigned to work as a signalman on the Beijing subway. Repeating the same work every day, life is boring, watching TV and listening to the radio after work is his only entertainment.
Around that time, he became interested in acting and began to think about being an actor.
Shen Junyi often rides his bicycle through Beijing city after work, and goes to the filming place to see if there is an opportunity to run the dragon set to earn money.
He was really looking for it, starting from the group performance, half a foot was considered to have stepped into the show business circle.
No matter the size of the role, let him play a lying corpse or a passerby, he is full of energy, with a small reward to go home to announce the good news.
Ren's family and friends said that he was not doing his job, and he would not listen to him no matter how much he persuaded him. The whole person was stunned.
Group performance is 7 years.
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In 1984, the crew of the movie "Wanted" gave him a heavy role, playing a criminal police officer.
This is the first time that Shen Junyi has run a dragon set for 7 years and has a character name. He cherished the opportunity, and in the movie he used all the experience he had accumulated over the years.
When the movie was played, his burly figure and tall and upright image were deeply rooted in people's hearts and naturally became famous.
The advantage of fame is that more scripts come to the door and more money.
In 1985, he starred in five films, "The Soldier's Proof", "The Adventure of a Pigeon Fan", "Pigeon Tree", "Black Valley of Blood", and "The Last Clue to the Strange Case of the World".
Although filming is hard, it is paid several times higher than going to work. Shen Junyi focused on being an actor, and simply quit his job in the Beijing subway to become an actor full-time.
In 1986, he ushered in the blockbuster TV series "Wulong Mountain Bandit Record" of his acting career, and Shen Junyi changed the image of "Wei Guangzheng" and incarnated as his bandit leader "Drill Mountain Leopard".
He shaved his hair and brought to life a scheming, fierce, shrewd and cunning character.
After the broadcast, the response was enthusiastic, the audience remembered the badness of "drilling mountain leopard", and Shen Junyi also went farther and farther on the road of playing a villain.
This year he won the Golden Eagle Award for Best Supporting Actor.
When a man has achieved something in his career, it is time to consider the major events of life.
03
Shen Junyi is no exception, he played the "drill mountain leopard" year, met the Beijing girl Zhan Yanni.
Zhan Yanni is an actress who graduated from the Bajing class of Zheng'er, born in a Kochi family, and graduated from The Northern Film.
When the two got married, Shen Junyi was already a celebrity in the circle, and Zhan Yanni had no works and fame.
At that time, a friend asked Shen Junyi: "You are already very popular, why do you still want to marry Zhan Yanni?" Don't look for something better? ”
Shen Junyi retorted, "Don't be fooled, Zhan Yanni is the most perfect in my heart." ”
Vows often do not stand up to the scrutiny of time, and in the 6th year of marriage, the relationship between the two is lit up with red lights.
Shen Junyi struggled for half a lifetime, the person who cares most is his baby daughter, even if there is a problem in the marriage and makes a confused decision, the person who cares most about it is his daughter.
In the third year of their marriage to Jenni, the couple had children. That year coincided with Beijing's bid to host the 2008 Olympics, and on a day of national celebration, the child was born.
In order to commemorate it, Shen Junyi named his daughter "Shen Olympic".
After the birth of the Olympic bid, Zhan Yanni quit her job and devoted herself to the family. Stay-at-home moms without a career have proven to be "high-risk occupations."
Shen Junyi runs around the major drama crews all year round, and his life is full of people and riches.
And his wife, Zhan Yanni, worked day and night for the family, children, and parents, and her life was full of trivialities.
Jenny has complained many times about her perennial husband: "I don't need you to make too much money, can't you shoot less drama and accompany me and my daughter more?" "
Shen Junyi retorted, "Aren't I all for this one?" ”
They can't see the difficulties in each other's lives, and the twists and turns of life. The two men drifted apart until a woman appeared and the marriage completely collapsed.
This woman is Janie.
04
Shen Junyi met Jani when he was filming, and at that time, the life of a chicken feather, the reprimand of the wife of the chaff had long annoyed him.
Jia Ni graduated from the 90th star class of Beijing Film, and she is a classmate of Huang Lei, Jiang Wu, Wang Jinsong and Li Lin. He has starred in classic roles such as Empress Wei in "Daming Palace Words" and You Shi in "The New Version of Dream of the Red Chamber".
In the crew, Shen Junyi and Jia Ni took care of each other, and they also had a tacit understanding and resonance for acting.
The most important thing is that Jiani is young, she is 12 years younger than Shen Junyi, shen Junyi is her first love.
The crew is a place where it is easy for people to have emotions for a short time, and soon Shen Junyi and Jian Ni have feelings for each other and become honey friends.
In order to stay with Jani, Shen Junyi made a bold decision to divorce.
In 1992, he had just divorced Jannie and immediately moved in with Janie. At that time, almost everyone I knew was gossiping about Jani behind her back, calling her "Little Three".
Jiani is fierce in nature, and despite the gossip, she also wants to build a love nest with Shen Junyi.
She once interviewed Li Tanlu: "Shen Junyi is my first love, the person I fell in love with for the first time, and the only lover in my 8 years of youth." ”
They lived together for 8 years, and Jani was at the age of considering having a child, and she repeatedly knocked on the side to ask Shen Junyi when he planned to marry her.
Shen Junyi was always on his own and did not give a clear answer.
When Jiani was 31 years old, she couldn't sit still anymore, so she took the opportunity to force Shen Junyi: "Will you marry me in the end?" I've been following you for 8 years, and if I wait any longer, I'll become a yellow-faced woman! ”
Shen Junyi was annoyed by the question, and his face was displeased: "Shouting and shouting in the middle of the night, what nerves are there?" Said I'm going to wait until my daughter is 18 years old before getting married! ”
Jani cried bitterly, her eight years of youth could not be exchanged for a marriage certificate, in the end this man did not love her enough.
She asked Shen Junyi for the last time: "When your daughter was 18 years old, did you think about how old I was?" I gave you the best youth, no results, then separate. ”
This time, With a broken heart, Jiani completely left Shen Junyi. An "untimely fate" ended and the two began to live a new life.
05
After leaving Shen Junyi, Jiani was depressed for a while. When she was pessimistic and helpless, Shen Junyi's good buddy Xie Xiaoxin came into her life.
Xie Xiaoxin is not an insider, the CEO of a German company, he was attracted to this gentle and atmospheric woman when he first met Jani.
Shen Junyi and Jia Ni's relationship began and ended, both of which were looked at by Xie Xiaoxin, and he was very distressed about Jia Ni. But always keep their duty and don't dig the corners of their brothers.
It wasn't until Jani broke up that Xie Xiaoxin launched a fierce pursuit.
Once Xie Xiaoxin took Jiani to eat shabu lamb, because she knew that Jiani grew up in Inner Mongolia when she was a child and loved to eat mutton. When eating, Xie Xiaoxin did not move his chopsticks, and watched Jia Ni eat happily.
Jani said urgently, "You don't eat lamb, why bring this to eat?" ”
Xie Xiaoxin said, "Because you love to eat." At that meal, Xie Xiaoxin ordered a bowl of tomato boiled noodles and accompanied Jiani to eat.
Jani was touched, and the man in front of her, who never spoke sweet words, always showed deep love in the action.
So when they were dating for half a year, the two got married with a license.
After marriage, Xie Xiaoxin pampered Jiani and gradually healed Jiani's broken heart, and they had children.
In the year of Jiani's birth, Xie Xiaoxin was anxious like an ant in a hot pot, waiting outside the delivery room. Until the moment when the child was born safely and Jani was carried out of the ward, the two looked at each other and cried, and Jani finally knew what true love was.
Once, In an interview, Jani said: "The day of childbirth was the only time I saw my husband cry, and I was moved to cry by him at that time. ”
Xie Xiaoxin's love, the birth of the child, let her be reborn.
She said: "I admit that when I married him, I was gambling, but this gamble made me reap true love and happiness, and I was right!" ”
Today's Jani is no longer a girl who loves the wrong person in ignorance and ignorance, and she has a happy and happy life.
06
On the other hand, Shen Junyi began to reflect on his mistakes after losing Jiani.
He always believed that blood is thicker than water, and his daughter grew up to understand her parents' divorce, not that she did not love her.
Shen Ao grew up with her mother since she was a child, and she did not have a deep understanding and concept of her father's love, and only knew in her heart that she hated her father for abandoning her and her mother.
Until the second year of high school, the rebellious period of Shen'ao's youth, she began to be fascinated by dressing, and she wanted to find Shen Junyi to buy clothes with pocket money.
Unexpectedly, Shen Junyi on the other end of the phone refused his daughter's request, saying that he should now focus on his studies and not pay attention to dressing up.
Shen Ao suddenly became angry and said loudly: "Why don't you want to spend it on me when you make so much money?" Don't you love me? ”
Shen Junyi sighed on the other end of the phone, and the resentment that had accumulated in his heart for many years suddenly went up.
That day she cursed the most ugly words to her father, and both father and daughter cried after a big fight.
Shen Ao hung up the phone angrily and cried at home, thinking that this time he had broken up with his father.
Unexpectedly, two days later, Shen Junyi called his daughter and said that he was willing to give her money.
Since then, the feelings of the father and daughter have slowly taken a turn for the better.
In 2013, Shen Olympic participated in Zhejiang Satellite TV's "I Am Not a Star" program, and Shen Junyi came to the scene to cheer up his daughter.
Shen Olympic has now also entered the show business circle, and Shen Junyi also took his daughter to film together.
Now That Shen Junyi has arrived at the Flower Armor House, the 64-year-old is full of silver hair and kind eyebrows. There are more vicissitudes and wrinkles on the face, but compared with when I was young, happiness and peace are written on the face.
Shen Junyi worked hard for half a lifetime to let his family live a worry-free life, and did not remarry for his daughter.
Once he was sorry for three women, with the precipitation of the years, the sad memories gradually disappeared.
Now that he is old and has his daughter to accompany and take care of him, he can finally enjoy his old age in peace.
A writer once wrote: The snow that falls in a person's life, we can't see it all, everyone in their own lives, alone in the winter.
There are no absolute winners in life, how many celebrities on the screen have a perfect and regret-free life?