In 1991, the Black Panthers made a video.
《Don't Break My Heart》。
In the MV, there is a girl with short hair in white.
The face is rounded.
Scalded with fluffy shoulder-length curls.
She sat in an open-top jeep.
Sunlight sprinkles on the face.
Light and dark.
The girl's name is Wing Mei.
At that time, the Black Panther appeared, and the focus of attention was always on the lead singer Dou Wei.
But Wing Mei noticed another person -
Keyboardist Luan Tree.
Short, energetic hair.
Wear a leather jacket and earrings.
It is inconspicuous, but she inexplicably feels that it is a "particularly handsome young man".
First from the left: Luan tree
Luan Shu also had a good impression of Wing Mei.
"Quiet and nice."
But at the time, the two had their own partners.
YongMei has a boyfriend.
Luan Shu is in love with Faye Wong.
At that time, Faye Wong was just an unknown little singer.
Mingling between bands.
Faye Wong and the Black Panthers
After filming the MV, Yongmei and Luan Shu exchanged phone numbers and separated.
Luan Shu followed the Panther around.
Wing Mei continued to work as a company clerk, occasionally making commercials and guest TV series.
Unbeknownst to the two at the time, years later, they set off a wave.
Luan Shu became a well-known musician.
YongMei, on the other hand, is China's second Berlin film queen.
And their fate is far more than that.
Seeing each other again is a year later.
At that time, Yongmei was working in Shenzhen.
One day, she suddenly received a call from Luan Shu:
"Come to the show?" We are in Shenzhen. ”
"Okay."
After entering the scene, Yongmei almost did not recognize it.
Luan Shu became the lead singer.
Long flowing hair.
The voice is dull.
"There are a lot of vicissitudes, and there is a manly feeling."
Wing Mei's heart fluttered.
More than a year has passed, and a lot of things have changed.
YongMei has broken up with her boyfriend.
Faye Wong left Luan Shu and turned to Dou Wei.
Dou Wei has also terminated his contract with the band.
Luan Shu became the next lead singer.
After the end of the day, the two talked a lot.
YongMei took a BLACK PANTHER CD home to listen to.
Luan Shu's voice is neutral and slightly hoarse.
And "particularly sincere".
What impressed her even more was that Luan Shu had a special small world.
By then Luan Shu had fallen in love with equestrianism.
Built his own horse farm in the countryside.
Play rock 'n' roll.
Get close to nature and animals.
This boy's world is so rich and interesting!
On the other hand, Luan Shu also quietly paid attention to Yong Mei.
She is from Inner Mongolia and grew up on the grasslands.
Good alcohol, riding horses since childhood, love to listen to rock and roll, drive the off-road vehicle fast.
But he has a quiet personality and does not like to go out to parties.
This girl is complex and contradictory.
Luan Shu was fascinated.
Later, YongMei recalled, "Suddenly there was an electric current between the two, as if someone was pulling the line. ”
They held hands.
28 spring and autumn have passed.
Today, we are still surrounded by each other.
Interestingly, the two have changed their titles in the media.
At first, Wing Mei was called "the wife of Luan Shu, the former lead singer of The Black Panther." ”
In 2019, Yongmei won the Golden Rooster Award and the Berlin Award.
The media flocked and interviews were intensive.
Wing Mei suddenly became famous.
Since then, Luan Shu has become the "husband of the Berlin Film Queen." ”
But these names did not affect their relationship.
On the night of the berlin award, the reporter asked Yongmei:
"Did you share the award with anyone?"
Yongmei smiled sweetly: "Husband~"
The tail note is long.
Slightly shy and playful.
She retweeted Luan Shu's Weibo and said:
"Thank you, without your support to go today, the military merit medal has half of yours!"
At first glance, this statement is no different from ordinary routine thanks.
But they know that this is true.
The time is dialed back to 2014.
Wing Mei is caught in a whirlpool of despair.
Apathy.
On the verge of collapse.
It was Luan Shu that pulled her out of the mud.
In 2013 and 2014, Wing Mei lost her parents one after another.
It is said that parents are a wall between us and death.
At the age of 43, Wing Mei's wall collapsed.
She fell into depression.
Insomnia, hair loss, fatness.
I can't act anymore.
"I may be out of show business for a while."
After sending a message to her agent, she went into hiding.
After countless sleepless nights, Yongmei's heart flew back to the Hohhot steppe.
She was still young and her parents were still there.
Her childhood wasn't really happy.
Her mother only cared about her brother and always ignored her.
My brother was very kind to her.
Once, her brother hugged her unevenly:
"Mom, you can't do that."
The mother was stunned: "Ah, is it? ”
Speaking of this, Yongmei was a little helpless.
The mother's eccentricity is not self-aware.
In those days, son preference seemed a matter of course.
But it also made her very inferior.
She always thinks:
"Am I not doing a good enough job, or am I just inferior to my brother?"
Self-doubt takes root.
The airtight vines cut her off from the outside world.
Fortunately, there is also a father.
Father is the light that shines through the gaps.
He is an electrical engineer.
She loves to read and will recommend books to Wing Mei from time to time.
He has the most simple literati style and has refused countless undesirable cooperation.
He often taught Wing Mei:
"Don't be carried away by desire, think independently, and have self-esteem and self-love."
She always remembered those words.
Later, she entered the show business circle and faced many temptations.
Many girls around me take shortcuts.
Easily get a designer skirt bag and ride in a luxury car.
There are also wealthy Hong Kong businessmen who pursue her.
But she was not reconciled: "I hope to work hard myself." ”
Father did not smile.
Quite harsh.
However, it had a great influence on Yongmei's life.
Such a leader left.
She was in pain.
For a long time, she was disconnected from everyone.
Day and night are turned upside down, overeating.
Luan Shu looked in his eyes, darkly anxious.
He was always by her side.
Nor does it make sense.
Just quietly accompany her to bask in the sun.
Play the guitar for her.
Together in a daze on the grass of the racecourse.
When the weather is nice, go out and ride a horse.
Source: Southern People Weekly
Yong Mei's heart gradually calmed down.
She began to read.
Look at psychology, philosophy, religion.
I also started practicing yoga.
Re-condition the body.
It's slowly getting back on track.
During this period, Luan Shu always accompanied her.
For her, that was the greatest comfort.
In 2017, Yongmei received the script of "Long Days on Earth".
At that time, she had not filmed for nearly 4 years.
Luan Shu encouraged her: Try it.
YongMei went to shoot.
After the film was released, she won several heavyweight awards.
On the day of the award, Yongmei told Luan Shu for the first time.
It is their common glory.
Love is mutual.
Luan Shu accompanied Yong Mei through the most difficult moments.
And the low period of Luan Tree, YongMei is the same.
Never leave.
Try to assist.
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Luan Shu's life is also a legend.
He loves music and he loves equestrianism.
Luan Shu's father was a music teacher.
My mother was a writer.
His parents did not care about the cost of his education.
He even smashed the pot to sell iron and bought him an old German piano.
Luan Shu began practicing piano and violin from an early age.
Under such influence, he is also very obsessed with music.
In 1989, Luan Shu joined the Band Panther with a passion for blood.
Coincidentally, it was also the same year that Luan Shu rode a horse for the first time.
Decades later, he remembered that it was a dark horse.
When he rushed out on horseback, he chuckled.
"It's over, it's on the road."
He became obsessed with horseback riding.
He also likes to spend time with horses.
The horse's eyes were clear and honest, allowing him to relax.
In 1993, Luan Shu and Yong Mei began to fall in love.
By then he had built a small horse farm.
I like to ride a horse and run two laps.
In the eyes of ordinary people, the horse farm is a very unreliable thing.
The probability of profit is minimal.
If you are not careful, you will lose your family.
But Wing Mei admired it.
"It's a creative way of life."
Seeing YongMei's support, Luan Shu was more at ease to do it.
The following year, he left the Band Black Panther.
Single-mindedly open a horse farm.
Yong Mei also moved into the small horse farm.
At that time, they lived a miserable life.
The racecourse is located on the outskirts of Shijingshan.
It took 20 minutes to get on the road before I could catch the bus.
There is no heating in the cottage.
In the winter, it is as cold as an ice cellar, and the boiler is burned for heating.
The toilet water pipe will be frozen, and you have to endure less access to the toilet.
The cottage is built on a hillside.
The washing machine is halfway through and often the water pressure is not enough.
Life is extremely inconvenient.
But Yong Mei Gan is like a glutton.
Staying at the racecourse was seven or eight years.
Perhaps influenced by her father, she did not attach particular importance to money.
"You don't have to have a lot of money to be happy."
Blue sky and white clouds, grass horses.
There are also luan trees around.
She was very satisfied.
Luan Shu was thinking about raising horses and taming horses.
Savings are constantly burning.
But there is almost no income.
Yong Mei is not in a hurry.
Whenever life became strained, she took over the drama.
When filming, every day I walked down the mountain and took a yellow car to the crew.
This peaceful life lasted only 4 years.
In 1998, Luan Shu suffered a change.
He was excited to take his horse to the National Games.
Before the game, my father was suddenly diagnosed with liver cancer.
Died soon after.
The National Games won.
It would have been a consolation.
The 300,000 prizes won can also make up for the shortfall in the farm's funds.
But then, Luan Shu learned that 300,000 were all swept away by partners.
That year's winter was particularly cold.
Loved ones die and friends betray them.
But Luan Shu couldn't care less about sentimentality.
What lies ahead of him is an even greater dilemma —
He and Yongmei were already destitute.
Horses have to be cared for, they have to graze.
Staff need to wrap up and go home for the New Year.
But he couldn't get a penny out.
Luan Shu gritted his teeth and looked down to borrow money.
In the end he gave it all.
I made up 300 yuan for everyone.
He was ready to go out of business.
Unexpectedly, after the Spring Festival, all the staff came back.
A lot.
No demand for reward.
Friend Xu Libo said, "Because it's Luan Shu." Only he has such a charisma. ”
In addition to the staff, there is also Yongmei.
She took over the role to pay off the debt.
Comfort Luan Shu and tell him not to worry.
Xu Libo went to the horse farm to see them both.
Seeing that they were so poor that he couldn't help but persuade Luan Shu to write a few songs.
"It can improve the economic situation a lot."
Yong Mei knew that Luan Shu was in a mess.
Not in the mood to create.
She said to her friends:
"This matter cannot be rushed, Luan Shu's talent will not be buried, this is a matter of timing." I never doubted. ”
Later, the operation of the horse farm gradually survived.
Luan Shu also continued to write and sing songs.
He doesn't like to be interviewed.
Nor is it accustomed to showing emotion in front of others.
But once, I talked about the experience of opening a racecourse.
He said: "I cherish my family very much. ”
YongMei always understood him.
Understand his bond with the horse, and are willing to accompany him on the path of equestrianism.
Together, through the wind and rain.
They are the gods and goddesses in everyone's eyes.
But YongMei revealed in the interview that in fact, they also broke up many times.
After all, the difference between two people is too big.
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Sometimes, Wing Mei also wonders.
How did two people who looked like reverse mirrors get together?
Wing Mei is gentle and swallowed.
Do not like to socialize, mobile phones turn on call forwarding all year round.
To find her, you have to text.
This habit was maintained for 17 years.
Becoming a film queen is still the same.
She is used to health.
Quit drinking, go to bed early and get up early, practice yoga.
In recent years, she has held regular book clubs.
There is a faint bookish temperament.
Walking with Dong Qing, it is also very harmonious.
Luan trees are completely different.
He loves to go out and collect wind.
In the mountains of the Nu River, eat and sing with the Lisu people.
Absorb a variety of unheard of music.
Play and write songs on the road.
Luan Shu has a whoy personality and loves to party.
Often with a bunch of brothers, drinking and nagging until dawn.
YongMei did not often interfere with him.
But once, she said to Luan Shu:
"Husband, happy people who go first."
Luan Shu was stunned for half a day, and then understood: "Loving yourself is equal to cherishing each other." ”
He still loves to drink and stay up late.
But after that day, he exercised a lot of restraint.
Wing Mei has a strong sense of control over life.
Big enough to buy a house.
As small as how the CD is placed, what rag is used.
She has her own set of order and doesn't like others to break it.
Luan Shu called her "Commander.".
But Luan Shu grinned widely.
Keep things at your fingertips.
There is no planning in doing things.
It gave Wing Mei a headache.
Once, she found that Luan Shu had forgotten to turn off the lights again.
"Every time I say I'm sorry, then I still forget, or the old question..."
She thought about it and forgot it.
Hope to solve the problem though.
But if you can't solve it, let them "blur".
Constant communication and tolerance of each other.
Gradually, they became less and less contradictory.
Once, they met an elderly couple in the hospital.
The elderly husband pushes his wife and prepares to go home after the injection.
The wife said something slowly.
Grandpa squatted down trembling.
Tidy up her pant legs and tie her shoelaces.
"We're going to do the same when we're old."
They blurted out at the same time.
Now both of them have passed the year of knowing their destiny.
They stand hand in hand.
Ready for the decades to come.
In January this year, Wing Mei and Luan Shu sang on the same stage for the first time.
The two held hands and sang a song "Two Geese in a River".
Yong Mei on Weibo @ Luan Shu, sweet confession:
"A river of water in the song, two geese, is a life and love that can never be sung endlessly."
Then Luan Shu replied:
"Hard worked my goose."
This dog food is also too sweet.
When the girl of the prairie meets the young man who loves horses.
They ran to the outskirts of Beijing.
He built the pony farm with wood and brick tiles by hand.
The house is built on a hillside.
Push open the door.
Walk out of the courtyard.
In the distance, at the foot of the mountain is a large peach forest.
When the peaches are ripe, the two of them turn over the barbed wire to pick the peaches.
In the following spring, the peach trees bloom.
Wing Mei likes to move a small stool. Reading a book outside the house in a daze.
A sea of pink flowers swayed in the wind.
She watched the sun, rising and falling inch by inch.
You can faintly hear the sound of horseshoes pedaling in the distance.
Decades later, in the recording studio.
Talking about this experience, Yongmei's eyes are shining.
"It's beautiful. It was the best time of my life. ”
After a moment, she smiled and said:
"We are old and white, there should be no problem."