Girlfriends
Girlfriend, to put it bluntly, is the one who can cry with you and laugh together, share the good and the bad, almost participate in your entire life, have seen your happiest look, and have seen your most depressed appearance, your bits and pieces she knows, and even she knows you better than you.
The popular saying is that "two people are as good as wearing the same pair of pants". However, it is such a person that you trust and rely on wholeheartedly, but you are defenseless, pry your corner.
As a slang saying goes, "A thousand precautions, a thief is difficult to prevent", and the reason why you want to prevent girlfriends most of the time is because your girlfriends and your friends and your friends, including boyfriends, have too much contact time or opportunities.
In this case, some unexpected emotional disputes or love triangle dramas will occur, which will not only affect the relationship with girlfriends, but also affect the relationship between couples, if not dealt with in time or improperly handled, it will be hurt.
On February 15, Ms. Wang of Guiyang, Guizhou, found that her girlfriend was holding her boyfriend during the group photo, and this discovery made Ms. Wang less calm.
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Boyfriends and girlfriends, for Ms. Wang, are equally important, on the one hand is love, on the other side is friendship, and the feelings are very good, usually get along very happily.
Although Ms. Wang was "giggled" by this group photo, she was still more trusted by her boyfriend and girlfriend, and it can be seen from her words that although this group photo made her uncomfortable, she was very rational, did not make excessive moves, and her mood was very stable.
The first time she went to her girlfriend for verification, and patiently waited for her girlfriend's reply. Moreover, for her boyfriend's personality and usual interaction with her sisters, Ms. Wang said that she not only believes in her boyfriend, but also believes in her girlfriend.
From the photo she took with her girlfriend, it can be seen that this friendship boat is still relatively stable.
However, this big group photo makes netizens not calm, many people are imaginative, maybe everyone is more or less affected by some TV series, they all feel that this is not a normal phenomenon.
Some netizens said that "everything is traceable, although this is only a small detail, but often it is the details that determine success or failure, be sure to keep an eye on it." ”
There are also netizens who give evidence in the case of "When Wang Baoqiang's ex-wife took a photo, wang Baoqiang was next to him, but his ex-wife was holding his agent." The conclusion is: not disbelief, but to exclude suspicion. ”
Another netizen is very careful, saying, "Your boyfriend's right leg is stretched forward, the center of gravity is left, because there are people on the left who he cares about, your girlfriend's left leg is stretched forward, and the center of gravity is on the right, because there are people on the right that she can rely on." Obviously they already have things you don't know. ”
Of course, there are also netizens who are more rational, saying "Don't think about it too much, maybe they are too familiar with each other, and this is just a mode of getting along with each other, you have to believe them; in addition, it is really rare to meet good men and good girlfriends, don't tear your face, and be calm in case of things." ”
After reading the comments and analysis of netizens, Mia Er has the following views:
First: prevent problems before they occur
For the past things, or the "small accidents" that happened today, you can not blame the past, but as far as this matter is concerned, even if it is to be responsible for your girlfriend or to yourself and your boyfriend, as the heroine, you should also take some precautions and have a sense of crisis.
Doesn't it mean that people's hearts are unpredictable?
Some things, when put away, deteriorate, and even more so in the emotional matter, and you can't help but be in everywhere, and all the uncertainties start from habit.
Therefore, since the signs have been discovered, some preventive facilities should be made, which is also the greatest responsibility for yourself and your girlfriends.
Two: a sense of boundaries
The easiest and most enjoyable way for people to get along with each other is to maintain measure and boundaries.
There are some things that can be done as a girlfriend, but as an ordinary friend, it may not be able to do, especially the interaction with the girlfriend's boyfriend, this interaction will cause others' objections, destroy the reputation, and say that it is very likely that there will be emotional disputes, and the injury is small, and it is afraid of hurting life.
Therefore, as a girlfriend, it is best to maintain a certain distance from the boyfriend of the girlfriend, which is both a safe distance and a fresh distance.
It is not easy to meet girlfriends who can share their joys and sorrows with each other, and it is even more difficult to find them for a long time, and they are done and cherished.