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Ding Zhicheng: In order to help the disabled eldest sister, he did not get married, and he also gave up the iron rice bowl of renyi

author:Ye Gongzi

[Author: Ye Gongzi] Chapter 330

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Ding Zhicheng: In order to help the disabled eldest sister, he did not get married, and he also gave up the iron rice bowl of renyi

In mid-2002, a "Serious Case 6 Group" became the focus of popularity, a TV series mainly about high-tech crime, bringing the audience one suspense after another.

After the broadcast of this drama, it also became popular with the starring Li Chengru, Ding Zhicheng, Wang Qian, Sun Feifei and others. Ding Zhicheng played the upright and decisive policeman Yang Zhen with independent opinions, which was loved by many people.

Prior to this, Ding Zhicheng also played the beijing stubborn lord in "Where Dreams Begin" with a pure Beijing film, and his acting skills were recognized by many people.

Relative to the career, the story between Ding Zhicheng and his disabled sister is more touching.

Ding Zhicheng: In order to help the disabled eldest sister, he did not get married, and he also gave up the iron rice bowl of renyi

01 Ding Zhicheng, who was popular in "Six Groups of Serious Cases"

Ding Zhicheng was born in 1963, his father and mother are staff members of the Ministry of Geology, he has an elder sister named Ding Baoming, and a younger brother named Ding Zhihui.

The father and mother's work is relatively stable, and although the family is not rich, it can also solve the problem of food and clothing.

The biggest wish of every pair of parents is that the child is healthy, but the situation of Ding Zhicheng's family is very special.

The eldest sister, Ding Baoming, had suffered from polio when she was one and a half years old, but after being healed, she fell disabled and needed crutches to take care of her legs.

This has become an eternal pain in the hearts of parents, who have always felt indebted to their daughters.

In order to take good care of their daughters, they have taught two boys from an early age that everything must be based on their sisters, and it is the manhood to give their sisters help in time.

Ding Zhicheng and Ding Zhihui were also very obedient since childhood, and both obeyed their sister's words.

Ding Zhicheng: In order to help the disabled eldest sister, he did not get married, and he also gave up the iron rice bowl of renyi

Because Ding Baoming has a disability, he has been ridiculed by children since he was a child, so he feels very inferior. Coupled with the fact that everyone in the family is humble to her, over time, her temper is a little strange.

After Ding Baoming graduated from high school, under the mediation of his parents, he worked as a temporary worker in the warehouse in the Geology Department. In the warehouse, you only need to distribute supplies, you don't have to stand every day, and your body can bear it. But the only drawback here is the low salary, and both parents and Ding Baoming are hoping to turn into regular jobs.

In 1982, Ding Zhicheng's mother retired from the unit, and according to the policy at that time, the family's children could top the job.

Therefore, Ding Zhicheng's mother applied with the leader, can she let her daughter Ding Baoming top the post?

However, her proposal was rejected by the leadership, because Ding Baoming had problems with his legs and feet and was simply not up to his job.

In the face of such a good opportunity, parents certainly do not want to let go, since the eldest sister Ding Baoming can not top the post, let Ding Zhicheng, who just graduated from high school, top this post.

The eldest sister, Ding Baoming, was very uncomfortable not to become a regular worker, hiding in the house for several days without seeing anyone, and often crying alone.

The family looked at Ding Baoming's appearance is also very uncomfortable, but the matter of the unit is not their family's decision, can only keep comforting Ding Baoming.

Ding Zhicheng looked at the appearance of the eldest sister, and he felt even more guilty, and always felt that he had robbed his sister's post.

Ding Zhicheng: In order to help the disabled eldest sister, he did not get married, and he also gave up the iron rice bowl of renyi

02 The misunderstanding between Ding Zhicheng and the eldest sister deepened

Because she did not make a regular job, Ding Baoming was not interested in anything, did not want to go out of the house every day, even the temporary worker work in the warehouse she did not want to do, always felt that it was "very humiliating" to go there to work.

Seeing his sister like this, Ding Zhicheng was even more unwilling to go, so he went to the leader to ask for the work to be given to his sister, but how could the unit's affairs be done according to his wishes, and he was rejected by the leader at one bite.

In order to pass the time, Ding Baoming sews and mends clothes at home every day, and although Ding Baoming has disabled legs and feet, he is skillful, especially in making clothes, which is even more ingenious.

When her parents saw her like this, they bought her a sewing machine and let her make clothes at home. Later, he began to collect work, make clothes for the people around him, and became a tailor who made clothes.

Although there is work at home, Ding Baoming always has a grudge in his heart. As time passed, this resentment gradually shifted to her younger brother Ding Zhicheng, who believed that he had "robbed" her job.

Because of this incident, Ding Baoming ignored Ding Zhicheng for several months in a row, which made Ding Zhicheng feel very uncomfortable.

Later, in order to coax his sister, Ding Zhicheng bought her a bat shirt and a large silk scarf that were very popular at that time.

Ding Zhicheng: In order to help the disabled eldest sister, he did not get married, and he also gave up the iron rice bowl of renyi

Who would have thought that after he took it home, the eldest sister actually snatched it and threw it on the ground, and said to Ding Zhicheng with great resentment:

"Did you come to see my joke?" Are you here to show off to me that you are a regular worker? ”

Ding Zhicheng was red in the face by his sister, and he didn't know how to answer, and he muttered for half a day before he said with grievance:

"No, no, I just want you to be happy, I don't mean that at all."

But Ding Baoming did not accept his brother's affection at all, and directly reprimanded him:

"I don't have to worry about whether I'm happy or not!" Anyway, you robbed me of my official job! ”

After speaking, Ding Baoming began to cry.

And Ding Zhicheng also felt uncomfortable red circles, and his sister said:

"I also want to give it to you, but the leader does not agree, I... I don't want this job at all. ”

After this incident, the misunderstanding between the sisters and brothers deepened, and slowly became the heart disease of the family.

Ding Zhicheng: In order to help the disabled eldest sister, he did not get married, and he also gave up the iron rice bowl of renyi

03 Ice release the former suspect sisters and brothers

In 1984, Ding Baoming was 23 years old, and finding a partner also became a family's heart disease.

The little girls around her who were about the same age as Ding Baoming had their own other half, but Ding Baoming had not found the right person because of his disability.

Although the family never discussed this topic, their parents were always worried about Ding Baoming's affairs.

I didn't think that before her parents helped Ding Baoming Zhang Luo, she already had a sweetheart herself.

The other party is a young man named Yang Jianyun, who is in good health, has five facial features, is tall and handsome, and is the type that all girls like.

It turned out that this boy was a co-worker that Ding Baoming knew when he was working as a temporary worker in the warehouse, and the two of them often chatted together at that time, which was very familiar.

Since then, Yang Jianyun has been obsessed with Ding Baoming, but because he was young at that time, he did not dare to confess.

After Ding Baoming left the warehouse, Yang Jianyun heard that she was sewing clothes at home, so he often used the excuse of sewing clothes to talk to Ding Baoming, and gradually, the two had a hint of ambiguity.

Ding Zhicheng: In order to help the disabled eldest sister, he did not get married, and he also gave up the iron rice bowl of renyi

After Ding Zhicheng heard about it, he always thought that the other party "had ulterior motives" and had fought with someone else because he was worried that his disabled sister would be deceived.

Originally, the eldest sister had a disability, and if he met a bad man again, it would be even more unfortunate, so he repeatedly examined the other party, and gradually relaxed his heart.

Soon after, with the approval of the parents of both sides, the two began to talk about marriage.

Yang Jianyun is good at everything, the only drawback is that the family conditions are not good, because there are many brothers and sisters, and there is no decent house when getting married.

But Ding Baoming did not care at all and decided to rent a house and marry him, but Ding Baoming's parents and Ding Zhicheng did not agree at all.

Later, under the consultation between Ding Zhicheng and his parents, he gave up the marriage room prepared by his parents to his sister and brother-in-law.

In the depths of Ding Zhicheng's heart, he is always full of guilt for his sister, hoping to use his own meager strength to give back to her.

After this incident, Ding Baoming understood that his brother had always been completely sincere to her and had no bad intentions at all.

The sisters and brothers finally released their former suspicions because of this incident.

Ding Zhicheng: In order to help the disabled eldest sister, he did not get married, and he also gave up the iron rice bowl of renyi

04 Resigned the iron rice bowl of renyi for his sister

After the eldest sister got married, Ding Zhicheng also came and went from time to time, and was even admitted to Beijing Renyi as a drama actor, and the family was very happy.

Ding Baoming and Yang Jianyun are also quite happy after marriage, her personality has also improved greatly, every time she sees her family, she is happy, and the family also knows that she is really happy.

The only fly in the ointment is that the two do not make much money, and after marriage, Ding Baoming cannot go out to work and can only continue to make clothes at home. Yang Jianyun continued to work as a temporary worker in the Geology Department, with low wages and unable to improve the family's economic situation.

At the end of 1986, after the birth of their two sons, Ding Baoming could not continue to make clothes for people because he had to take care of his newborn son, and only Yang Jianyun supported the family alone, and the family's economic situation was even more embarrassing.

Once, Ding Zhicheng just paid his salary, he bought some food to visit his sister, but unexpectedly, when he entered the door, he found that their family of three was drinking a cup of Coke, you let me and I let you, no one was willing to give up.

It turned out that this cup of Coke was issued by Yang Jianyun's unit, and he was reluctant to drink it, so he brought it back to his wife and children.

Ding Zhicheng saw such a situation, and then saw the living conditions and living conditions in his sister's home, he couldn't help but be sad and eager to help his sister.

Ding Zhicheng: In order to help the disabled eldest sister, he did not get married, and he also gave up the iron rice bowl of renyi

At this time, although Ding Zhicheng had the iron rice bowl of Beijing people's art, his salary was not high. The actor's salary is the basic salary + performance fee, and he is just a dragon set actor of the human arts, and wanting to get a high salary is equivalent to a fool's dream.

Subsequently, he saw that the people around him had gone to the sea to do business, and he moved his mind.

After some investigation, he quit his iron rice bowl job as a human artist, formed a construction team with his friends, and began to do interior decoration for people.

At the end of the 80s, there were ways to get rich everywhere, and Ding Zhicheng just caught up with the good times, and within two or three years, it became a "big money".

He not only equipped himself with a big brother, bought a car, but also decorated the house for the eldest sister, paid tuition to the eldest sister to learn clothing design, brother-in-law Yang Jianyun has always wanted to take the civil service examination, because of economic reasons do not dare to resign, but also with the help of Ding Zhicheng officially began to review.

Later, the eldest sister Ding Baoming set up his own clothing company, named "Bo Jewelry Clothing Co., Ltd.", the brother-in-law was also admitted to the civil service, the nephew also entered a good school, and the family was happy and harmonious.

Ding Zhicheng: In order to help the disabled eldest sister, he did not get married, and he also gave up the iron rice bowl of renyi

05 Ding Zhicheng's marriage is the eldest sister's heart

In 1994, Ding Zhicheng was 31 years old, but he had no suitable partner, and his mother and eldest sister were very anxious.

For this reason, his mother often nagged him, and as a result, he and his mother said:

"You said, if I were single, I would be able to help my eldest sister's family in a fair and upright way, and if I found a daughter-in-law, would people allow me to help my eldest sister like this?"

After listening to it, her mother wet her eyes, and later, after Ding Baoming knew, she was even more moved, and she was even more concerned about Ding Zhicheng's marriage problems.

Finally, in 1995, Ding Zhicheng and Renyi's former old colleagues came together, the woman is Renyi's accountant, and the two have known each other for a long time.

After marriage, Ding Zhicheng had a daughter, and his mother and eldest sister relaxed their hearts.

In 1997, after the conditions at home were better, Ding Zhicheng remembered the performance again and returned to the stage of human art again.

Ding Zhicheng: In order to help the disabled eldest sister, he did not get married, and he also gave up the iron rice bowl of renyi

After that, while acting in dramas, he appeared in works such as "Where Dreams Begin" and "Past and Present Lives", and finally made a big comeback in "Six Groups of Serious Cases" and became a popular actor.

Unfortunately, his marriage to his wife did not last long, and the two divorced in 2000.

After Ding Zhicheng's divorce, his mother and eldest sister began to be anxious again, but Ding Zhicheng did not care at all and did not want to find a partner.

To this day, Ding Zhicheng is still single and has not found a suitable other half.

Ding Zhicheng: In order to help the disabled eldest sister, he did not get married, and he also gave up the iron rice bowl of renyi

The sister-brother relationship between Ding Zhicheng and the eldest sister Ding Baoming is really touching, and the simple and selfless feelings between them are difficult to have in the current society and will be worth learning.

Since ancient times, it has been said that home and everything is prosperous.

Only when a family loves each other can we live a happier life.

I also wish Ding Zhicheng to find his other half as soon as possible and live a stable and happy life.

—END—

Original author: Ye Gongzi

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