Author: One flower
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Zhang Xiaoxian once said: "Love is a struggle between men and women, sometimes everyone is happy, more often it is a lose-lose situation." ”
How long can a love affair between the sexes last?
Some people replied firmly, "A lifetime." ”
Some people just laugh and don't talk.
Every relationship has a shelf life, the key is how to maintain and operate, which is like the attitude of facing worn-out clothes, some people are good at repairing and repairing, not willing to throw away, and some people will choose to throw away immediately, and then start with new clothes, so clothes, so is love.
As mentioned at the beginning of the article, loving someone cannot be hidden, and it is very obvious that it is not loved, especially for women, and the answer can be drawn from her physical behavior.
Once a woman "empathizes with each other", she will take back these "exclusive privileges" and be careful.
First, the "exclusive privilege" of physical touch
When a woman loves a man deeply, she gives him various privileges, such as physical contact, holding hands, hugging, kissing, and even offering the innocent hands that have been cherished for many years. In the face of introverted men, women will also take the initiative to guide each other, and every physical contact will make the feelings between each other deeper.
But if the "empathy is not in love", the woman no longer loves the man in front of her, and will not hesitate to withdraw the "exclusive privilege" of physical contact. The reason is very simple, she already has someone else in her heart, and the privilege of physical contact is given to people outside, and naturally she will not have your share.
If women often use physical discomfort as an excuse to avoid your touch, even the hand is no longer willing to hold you, careless you have to be careful and wary, don't take the woman's change of heart seriously, will suffer a big loss.
Second, the "exclusive privilege" of the emotional tree hole
Women are highly dependent creatures, they will show the softest side of their hearts to their lovers, but also to tell their lovers the secrets they have cherished for many years, which is the "exclusive privilege" they give to the loved ones.
Many women have suffered unfair treatment in their original families, and they have become enemies with their relatives, and all they have is love, so their lovers have become their strongest backing. Everyone needs an emotional tree hole to vent their emotions, and for women, the other half is a tree hole.
If one day, women no longer treat you as a tree hole, happy and unhappy things, no longer share with you, become silent in front of you, but turn around and chat with other men hot, there is no doubt that she is "empathetic and not in love".
Third, the "exclusive privilege" of aesthetic dress
Women are tolerant of those who please themselves, and women will unconditionally cater to those they love.
When a woman loves you deeply, she can't help but ask her friends around you about all your likes and dislikes, and when she grasps this information, she will work her daily speech and dress to cater to your aesthetics, just to get a compliment from you, or a smile that will be heartfelt.
Usually going out shopping, when tangled between two colors or styles, she will also ask for your suggestions, as long as you choose, she will nod her head with joy and accept.
But if a woman no longer listens to your advice, and no longer caters to your liking, for example, you don't like her hot wave head, wearing a short skirt, but she has to dress like this, you don't like her and the opposite sex singing k, she has to play at night, deliberately against you, then it means that she really "empathizes and doesn't fall in love".
Because I no longer love you, so I no longer care about your feelings, and I am no longer satisfied with the appearance you packaged for her, I treat this relationship, there is no freshness, and the reason why I have not proposed to break up is not because I still love and are reluctant, but the time has not yet arrived.
Unlike men, once women change their hearts and have someone outside, they will no longer think about turning back, but will only go forward with absolute emotion. However, women cherish reputation, they do not want to be betrayers in the relationship, and they will cleverly use timing and strategy to force men to take the initiative to break up.
Capture the message of women's change of heart, men should be careful and wary, women love you or not, has long been given an obvious hint, you can not pretend to be stupid, continue to drag, otherwise, will only push themselves into a deeper cliff, suffer greater harm.
When the judgment is broken, it is the most rational choice for adults to face feelings.
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In addition to the above, women "empathize and don't fall in love", what behaviors will they have? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.