With the improvement of people's living standards, parents will give students a better economic foundation, so that students can study with peace of mind, so it is normal for students to have a lot of pocket money, but in order to prevent students from spending indiscriminately, they will not give too much, but the New Year's pressure money is an exception, it is a blessing from relatives and friends to their children, it is inevitable that there will be some more.
Spring Festival is the students' favorite festival, neither need to write homework can also have pressure money, in the family reunion day many children are making a lot of money, especially children with good family economic conditions, the New Year's circle back is more fruitful, the pockets are also bulging.
But in general, parents are worried about students spending randomly, after all, the current students do not have too much concept of money, will be saved for students, but there are always exceptions, there is a primary school student in Jiangsu because the parents did not take back the red envelope in time, he carried a huge amount of cash to go to school, generously to the teacher and classmates to send red envelopes, parents know that the back of the face is green.
The boy took more than 20,000 cash to school, handed red envelopes to teachers and classmates, and parents learned that they were angry and vomited blood
Presumably, during the New Year, the children have earned a lot of pocket money! As few as a few thousand, from tens of thousands to tens of thousands, but most students do not know how to use such bulging red envelopes, so they will be handed over to their parents for safekeeping and use in future learning.
However, a second-grade primary school student in Jiangsu did the opposite, putting more than 20,000 yuan of money to go to school, and also wanted to take out this money to send red envelopes to teachers and classmates, which was stopped by the teacher in time and informed the parents of the situation.
After the parents learned that they were also surprised, how did not expect the boy to do such a ridiculous thing, so they rushed to the school in a hurry, when the students saw the invited parents, they were also aggrieved and afraid, standing in front of the parents with a school bag, in his opinion, they just wanted to share their own things with their classmates and teachers, and did not know where they had done wrong.
Later, from the boy's mother's narration, I learned that the money was the New Year red envelope added together by the boy and his sister, the total amount was 25500 yuan, which was a big amount for any student, and the boy's funny and angry move was not discussed with the sister, and the unauthorized decision to take the money to the school, go home inevitably a beating, good in time to stop the loss.
After the matter was exposed on the Internet, many netizens have opened the ridicule mode, and some netizens have bluntly said, "Blindly talk about elementary school students, this is clearly my eldest brother." Some netizens said, "This child can be treated, and having money is really shared!" ”
Some netizens are worried about his treatment after returning home, do not know how his sister will punish him after knowing, presumably will also give him a complete childhood, after all, "beat his brother early." ”。
Afterwards, parents said that they had deposited money in the bank, and criticized the boy, and have recognized the seriousness of the problem, in the final analysis, the current students have no specific concept of money, need the correct guidance of parents, can not criticize education on the line.
After the improvement of living conditions, students' concept of money is weak, and parents should teach students how to use it rationally
In fact, in the author's opinion, such things are not uncommon, before there are students spending a lot of money on the game, after there are cash to send red envelopes to students, which stems from the weakness of students' concept of money, which is the loophole of family education, which needs to attract the attention of parents.
Because the economic conditions have improved now, parents want to do their best to provide students with the best living conditions and learning environment, so many students can not understand that it is not easy for parents to earn money, so there is no concept when spending money, and there will be such absurd behavior.
Parents should teach students to understand that it is not easy to make money, learn to cherish the hard-won pocket money, teach them how to use pocket money correctly, for large amounts of money Parents should exist in a fixed account for students for future use, for daily pocket money for students to obtain through labor and progress, so that students' correct view of money and values can be formed step by step.
Mistakes in the process of growing up are also inevitable, and parents should correct and guide them in time to avoid leaving behind troubles
The first point is that students from a blank piece of paper to adulthood, the process is long, the so-called "no one is perfect", making mistakes on the road to growth is inevitable, students are growing up in the repeated reinforcement of mistake correction, parents should face up to this phenomenon, can not be nitpicking.
The second point is that when students make mistakes, parents are angry, but students are delicate, parents should first stabilize their emotions, can not solve in anger, so as not to say the wrong thing and do the wrong thing, and then talk to the student about the cause of the mistake and how to correct it after the emotion is stable.
Third, parents should pay attention to the way of handling, "stick education" is not advisable, to convince people to fundamentally solve the problem, of course, appropriate punishment is also necessary, as long as you pay attention to the scale, small punishment and large admonition will not damage students' self-esteem can also play a guiding and corrective effect.
[The author has something to say] primary school students with more than 20,000 cash to the school to distribute red envelopes, it is indeed a very absurd move, but it can also be seen that parents' education on the student's concept of money needs to be improved, to let students experience the difficulty of making money, in order to cherish the pocket money in their hands, in addition, parents should guide students to use pocket money correctly and reasonably, and good steel is the most important thing to use on the blade.
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