Gu Ailing, this girl who is both sassy and beautiful wins, Jedi Strikes Back, and the vice can also win the championship...
The final jump of the final, the bank or the gold? Side items, no success, practice injuries, I am afraid that only the chosen daughter in the Shuangwen dares to choose B, right?
Mom also suggested being a little more prudent, and Good Lai was also a side item, the rat pulled a wooden shovel, and the big head was in the back. But these post-00s are not to believe in evil, a thousand jun moments, the face does not change color, the heart does not beat, play is the stimulation, proper drip after the birth is fearsome!
A few days after the Winter Olympics, except for the ice piers and snow melting, there is not a single good stubble in this arena, either with a knife or wings. Freestyle skiing is even more of a leader, in the space of tens of seconds, first flashing in the air, and then landing steadily, there is a group of judges next to you to judge your aerial posture, which is really exciting.
This little girl has courage, not an ordinary cow!
Heaven forbid, completed the chick this amazing jump, the sub-item to take the gold medal, this wave of operation 666!
The officials are very enjoyable, this melon is big and sweet, almost snug: the winter Olympic final dares to play tricks, Gu students may not be the first, dare to play such a desperate estimate is not much.
The keyboard man said, isn't it to make a decision, what's difficult, it's a matter of minutes here! After eating enough to support the horse aftereburners who have nothing to do, the moment the skateboard hits the jumping platform, you are most likely scared to pee...
If you don't say that the little girl is strong, this thing will be done: everyone is happy; if it fails, it will be completely Barbie Q. A bunch of good people carrying keyboards quickly gathered in various positions with long guns and short guns: as far as you are, you are not self-sufficient, you are so ambitious, and the silver medal is not fragrant.
Oh, that guy, I can't imagine, you apologize, a bunch of people hate you for being arrogant; you don't apologize, a bunch of people hate you and don't repent, in short, there is no good. If you are injured again and affect the main item, it will be even more doomed.
Kidnapped by morality, judged by others, living in other people's worlds, only not living for themselves, this is the norm for Chinese athletes, or those athletes who have won silver medals and bronze medals will not laugh, you are the second in the world, it is already very remarkable, right?
To put it bluntly, in traditional Chinese culture, the mission of a reader is to cultivate oneself, to build a family, to govern the country, and to peace the world. If you live in the height of the temple, you will worry about the people; if you are far away from the rivers and lakes, in short, you must always be concerned about the world. This sentiment has supported the backbone of the nation and also made the benevolent people of successive dynasties and generations as the code of conduct.
With the improvement of the cultural self-confidence of the Chinese people, the voice of reviving traditional culture is getting higher and higher, and traditional cultures such as "Disciple Rules" and "Four Precepts of Fan" have begun to return to family education, which is a good thing and a double-edged sword.
In psychological counseling practice, there will be two levels: "upper brain" and "walking heart". The so-called "upper brain" is basically equivalent to cognition, and the so-called "walking the heart" is basically equivalent to emotions or feelings.
Some friends who do not understand psychological counseling think that psychological counselors are chatting with others, and they are not worthy of hundreds or even thousands of consulting fees.
Excellent psychological counselors should accompany the client to "walk the heart", solve the client's inner conflict and the trauma behind it, help the client find undiscovered resources, and improve the efficiency of problem solving.
Becoming a good counselor requires professional skills, long-term accumulation, sufficient psychological energy, incomparable patience, wise thinking and sensitive sense of smell.
Looking at the cultivation of chinese culture according to psychological standards can be divided into two levels: other discipline and self-discipline.
Practitioners of Sinology who are in the "other law" stage are based on the recognition of external standards, not from the inner self-consciousness: we refuse to break the law because we are afraid of punishment, not because of reverence and respect.
People who have been in the state of "other laws" for a long time will be more constrained and will accumulate more dissatisfaction, which is the inner conflict, and the conflict will always erupt into an unstoppable flood beast to a certain extent.
"Never bully honest people, honest people have a Buddha in their hearts, Buddha suppresses the devil, if you push the Buddha down, you will release the devil."
In the hearts of "honest people", there has always been a "demon" and has been temporarily suppressed by the "Buddha". As long as the conflict persists, the "demon" will continue to grow until it breaks through the seal of the "Buddha" and is out of control.
"Self-discipline" is a higher existence than "other laws", not to be happy with things, not to be sad with oneself, to rely on inner standards rather than external constraints, to achieve the harmonious unity of the subjective and objective world, and then to obtain inner firmness and indifference, which is called "physical and mental unity".
Such an "honest person" has no "Buddha" or "devil" in his heart, only reverence and respect, and refuses to violate the law, not because he is afraid of punishment, but because I don't want to do it at all.
"Body-mind unity" is the purpose of psychological counseling, to achieve the "unity of body and mind", the inner conflict will be reduced, it will become calm and peaceful, and it is easier to put aside external standards and judgments and find my true claims: even if the probability of success is very low, I also choose to bet desperately, which is the "free self-consciousness" in the philosophical realm.
In Sinology, "the unity of body and mind" is far from enough, and man must also reach a perfect agreement with nature, which is the supreme realm of Sinology: "the unity of heaven and man", which is the cleverness of Sinology compared to Western psychology.
It is ridiculous that many "masters" engaged in sinology education have not even figured out the ultimate purpose of psychology and sinology, and they dare to make a big fuss and try to use sinology to solve all the problems of family education and enterprise management. Maybe they will never understand that in this diverse world, the honey of the other, the arsenic of my. The law of nature is that the good and the bad are uneven, and the intention to use a religious way to save sentient beings from water and fire is not in line with the concept of "the unity of heaven and man", allowing differences, allowing differences, allowing suggestions, and allowing changes is the real "unity of heaven and man".
Blindly using classics such as the "Disciple Rules" to educate children does not necessarily cultivate a humble gentleman who is gentle as a jade and achieve the goal of self-cultivation and family governance.
Such a way is to suppress the child's nature, let the child live in the rules of others from an early age, restrain and limit the growth of the self, and dare not go beyond the thunder pool.
In the long run, it is easier to cultivate "honest people" who have "demons" in their hearts, and once the external moral standards cannot restrain the "honest people", or the anger accumulated in the heart is irrepressible, the honest people will be more terrible "bad people" - we will be wary of the "bad people" around us, but we may not necessarily foresee the blackening of the "honest people".
Studying Sinology is not to copy the content of Sinology, but to learn the spirit of Sinology, to learn the master's thoughts, at most to become the inheritors or followers of the master's ideas; if you study without blindly following the masters, you may become a new master and lead a new era. (Aristotle: I love my teacher, I love the truth more)
Educating children is not only to teach children knowledge, but also to teach children the ability to think independently, to see the world with their own "heart", to stop crows learning tongues, to stop people from following the clouds, to stop kidnapping others and to stop kidnapping themselves, and to always maintain a calm and longing heart.
Returning to Gu Ailing's case again, she made a decision that others did not dare to make because her family, especially her mother, gave her a "free and self-conscious" heart, and on the crowded one-way line, she chose backwards in order to complete the "free and conscious heart". For the sake of a "free and self-conscious mind", there is nothing that cannot be "played" or "challenged"!
Gu Ailing rejected her mother's suggestion of "baoyin" without distraction, let it go, and won the gold by the side item, congratulations! (Today she won another silver medal, and the main event she is best at is about to start, looking forward to her new highs).)
The final victory has a lot of contingency, but she deserves this contingency, and her letting go of it makes the mentality of the big favorite behind the championship unbalanced.
One is a little girl who respects her inner choices, the other is a favorite to win the championship with gains and losses, and the fortunes are reversed...
Some people cry because they lost the election, some people cry because they lost gold; some people smile because they participate in the competition, and some people smile because they finish the competition.
The mentality is different, and life is naturally different. Persistence may not be valuable, but it must be meaningful, this is what Xu Mengtao felt after winning the gold medal in freestyle skiing aerial skills today.
If parents can realize this, in family education, not because of the child's shortcomings and distress, nor because of the child's choices and anxiety, give the child a more relaxed environment, let the child have the opportunity to "freely and consciously" bloom themselves, your child may have a different life.
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