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"When I die, you Andy Lau still have to see our children, otherwise you won't be blinded and will not see the heavens."
In March 2007, in order to help his daughter chase stars, Yang Qinji, who did not hesitate to cut his kidneys and sell his house, committed suicide by jumping into the sea, leaving only a seven-page suicide note, which caused a sensation in the country.
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The woman who took a photo with Andy Lau on the picture is called Yang Lijuan, and Andy Lau has reached the point of becoming a demon, and is affectionately called "the originator of illegitimate rice" by netizens.
And the reason why she is so fascinated has to start from 1994.
That year, Yang Lijuan dreamed of a very handsome man, and not only that, the man also said to her professional lines in idol dramas in his dreams.
"You are particularly close to me, and I have met you in true love"
Maybe Yang Lijuan at the beginning did not care, after all, it was just a dream, and she did not know who the other party was, but this man repeatedly broke into her dream and played different roles, which made Yang Lijuan, who was in adolescence, very moved, and believed that this person in the dream was absolutely related to herself, and since then, Yang Lijuan has regarded the other party as a "true destiny". Finally, under a fortuitous coincidence, Yang Lijuan saw Andy Lau's poster, which made her know that her "true destiny" turned out to be the King of Hong Kong.
Since then, Yang Lijuan has begun to collect everything about Andy Lau, and all the posters of Andy Lau have been posted in her home, and the more she knows about it, the more addicted she is. In the eyes of others, Andy Lau may only be a little more handsome than ordinary people, only obsessed with his appearance, but for Yang Lijuan, it is a deeper attachment, just a TV series she can watch N times, it is no exaggeration to say that for her, Andy Lau's whole person already belongs to her.
For Yang Lijuan at that time, life was all About Lau except for her parents. She never felt that the dreams she had were illusory, but thought that these dreams were Andy Lau's guidance to her, as long as she saw Andy Lau, she could marry him. Obviously, at this time, Yang Lijuan's psychology has been problematic, but her family not only did not guide it correctly, but "aided and abetted the abuse". They felt that star chasing might bring endless motivation to Yang Lijuan.
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With the support of her parents, Yang Lijuan became more firm with Andy Lau, and then she began to write letters, one after another, but all of them sank into the sea. And her emotions have also changed from being full of expectations at the beginning to being irritable now, and when she is extremely angry, she will tear Up Andy Lau's magazine to vent. The yang family's parents, who could not bear their daughter's pain, decided to take out all their savings to help their daughter chase the stars.
In 1997, in order to let Yang Lijuan meet Andy Lau, Yang Qinji took out 9900 yuan to let Yang Lijuan participate in a Hong Kong tour group, in the eyes of her father Yang Qinji, only her daughter can live a peaceful and stable life when she sees idols, but what he did not expect is that Yang Lijuan made her more crazy after this time, even if she did not even see Andy Lau's back.
Seeing the prosperity of Hong Kong, Yang Lijuan was more determined to marry Andy Lau, clamoring to see Andy Lau, even if the family could not withstand her tossing and turning. In order to make up for the travel expenses to Hong Kong, Yang Lijuan asked her father to sell the house.
In 2003, everything went according to Yang Lijuan's father selling the family's house, and the family squeezed into 400 million rental houses in January.
One day in 2004, Yang Lijuan learned the news that Andy Lau was filming in Gansu, and ran to the crew in ecstasy, there was no way to enter the crew, she was on the roof to watch, in her opinion, Andy Lau came to shoot a scene near her home, it was because of the guidance of the dream. And every day she fantasizes that Andy Lau can walk through the crowd to herself, and then make a deep confession.
As time passed little by little, she couldn't even see Andy Lau's shadow. It was also in this year that Yang Mu's physical problems made the family, which was not rich in the first place, worse.
In 2005, Yang's mother forgot to turn off the gas, causing gas poisoning, and then her leg was hit by a heavy object and disabled.
However, Yang Lijuan did not give up star chasing because of her mother's disability, and she had an iron heart to see Andy Lau.
On the one hand, the wife has a huge treatment fee, and the daughter wants to chase the star.
Needless to say, the pressure is all on Yang Qinji, and at this time his retirement salary is only two thousand, and with the increase in prices, two thousand yuan can not even buy Andy Lau's periphery.
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By 2006, Yang Qinji couldn't come up with a penny, and this time he thought of MS.
"I'm still alive when I cut off a kidney"
"So you can get a sum of money"
"Dolls can go to Hong Kong to recruit"
This is Yang Qinji's original words, he thinks that if he can live, his daughter's wish is the greatest. As a child, it is really sad to force the father to this extent, and Yang Lijuan's next words make people look at it to pieces.
"MS is too dangerous, or borrow money"
Yun said this sentence lightly, making people feel like Yang Qinji MS is as simple as throwing a garbage.
However, because this is an illegal act, it can only be solved, but this matter is known by the media and rushes to report, and such a shattering of the three views has also triggered heated discussion among countless people.
They regard Yang Lijuan as a traffic password, and Yang Qinji does not refuse to come to reporters, it is obvious that they want to use the power of the media and public opinion to complete Yang Lijuan's dream.
Soon, Andy Lau, who was far away in Hong Kong, knew about Yang Lijuan, and then Yang Lijuan met Andy Lau as she wished, and took a group photo.
In our opinion, it is already very happy to have a photo with the idol, but the Yang family seems to be demonized and not satisfied with the status quo. Obviously, just a few tens of seconds of photo time simply can't make Yang Lijuan pour out her love for so many years. But helplessly, after returning to the hotel, the whole person was full of frustration, and at this time, Yang Qinji was very distressed to see his daughter's decadent appearance, and he made a move that countless people could not imagine.
Give your life to help your daughter one last.
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On March 26, 2007, yang Qinji left a 10,000-word suicide note and jumped into the sea to end his life.
In this letter, in addition to writing about their heartache for decades, all the others are accusations against Andy Lau.
"What's so great about you"
"You failed my daughter's 13 years of youth"
For a time, Andy Lau was criticized by countless people, but what was wrong with Andy Lau?
Undoubtedly, Yang Qinji wanted to use his own death to let Andy Lau meet his daughter.
When Yang Lijuan saw her father's body and cried bitterly, it seemed that she had woken up, but soon after, Yang Lijuan asked to see Andy Lau again, and said: "You can't let your father die in vain."
In Yang Lijuan's view, seeing Andy Lau is no longer her wish, but her father's last wish.
At this time, Andy Lau was also not comfortable, since the yang lijuan thing happened, many people began to imitate, send text messages to Andy Lau, saying that they could not see Andy Lau and looked for death.
In the face of pressure on the Internet, Andy Lau is difficult to ride the tiger, and Yang Lijuan's behavior is tantamount to moral kidnapping, but at this time, Andy Lau resisted the pressure of public opinion and said that he did not see it.
This is the first time Andy Lau has said something serious in public, some people accuse him of disrespecting life, and some people accuse him of being hard-hearted. In the face of all these accusations, Andy Lau accepted them all.
But he still refused Yang Lijuan's request, if for nothing else, because he could not promote such a pathological star-chasing atmosphere.
Looking back, the reason why Yang Lijuan is so willful is not caused by the Yang family's parents?
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In the seventies, As a senior teacher, Yang Qinji married Tao Juying, who was more than ten years younger than himself, and when Yang Qinji was forty years old, the two ushered in the crystallization of love, which was considered to be an old man, so for this late daughter, Yang Qinji was afraid of melting in his mouth and holding it in his hand for fear of falling.
This kind of love only increased as Yang Lijuan grew up, and obviously became doting, in Yang Qinji's heart, as long as Yang Lijuan wanted him to give.
When she was in junior high school, Yang Lijuan used the fact that the tuition fee was too expensive and she was always bullied at school as the reason for her parents to agree to withdraw from school, and after half a year, Yang Qinji softened her heart and agreed to Yang Lijuan's request to withdraw from school. Even if the teacher came to the door to dissuade it, it would not help. All you get is the phrase "Is there any way the child doesn't want to read it anymore".
And they can't think of it anyway, it is this kind of doting that will eventually destroy the family.
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Yang Lijuan, who lost her father and still could not see Andy Lau, became angry and angry, burned everything about Andy Lau, and then refused to be interviewed by reporters and disappeared into the public's field of vision.
It wasn't until Yang Lijuan participated in a show in 14 years that we knew yang Lijuan's current situation.
And her purpose on this show is to wake up another fan who is crazy to pursue Andy Lau, she said that chasing stars is not worth it, all the words are complaining about Andy Lau, in her opinion, if it were not for Andy Lau himself, he would not have become like this. But unfortunately, Yang Lijuan's experience did not awaken Ao Yanhong.
For Andy Lau Yang Lijuan is now resentful when she mentions it, but what she doesn't know is that the person who paid off the loan anonymously was Andy Lau.
Yang Lijuan, who does not chase the stars, life has finally returned to calm, no longer clothes to reach out and open her mouth, there is no top pillar at home, Yang Lijuan has taken on the heavy responsibility of making money.
Over the years, she has worked as a clerk and volunteered, but because of the academic problem, she always did not do it long, until 16 years she found a satisfactory job, supermarket promoter, tired but full, although the salary is only 2,000 yuan, but it is enough for her. At this moment, she understood that money is difficult to earn, and only then did she understand how much her father loved her, and when interviewed by reporters, Yang Lijuan only said: If time can be repeated, I will no longer pursue Andy Lau so crazy. But there is no regret medicine in the world.
It's okay to chase stars, but we have to choose the right way, we can use idols as a driving force to move forward, but don't forget that idols are also ordinary people, and he is also working hard for his tomorrow.