Zhang Hanyun, as the childhood goddess in the hearts of many post-80s and 90s, Zhang Hanyun once became popular by participating in the talent show "Happy Girl".
Her sweet singing voice and cute appearance have attracted a large number of fans, but her career development has been tepid.
In terms of love life, Zhang Hanyun also experienced a hidden marriage with actor Peng Guanying, which finally ended in a breakup.
During the filming of the TV series "Jade Face Peach Blossoms Always Meet", Zhang Hanyun and her partner Tong Mengshi sparked a spark of love.
Although Zhang Hanyun is 4 years older than Tong Mengshi, Tong Mengshi still launched a passionate pursuit of her. It is reported that the two have met their parents and received the blessing of their families, and now they are only waiting to get married.
It is worth mentioning that Zhang Hanyun is also the goddaughter of the famous movie star Andy Lau. Back then, Andy Lau admired Zhang Hanyun's talent, not only gave her a lot of guidance, but also helped her gain a firm foothold in the entertainment industry.
This layer of kinship has undoubtedly added a touch of luster to Zhang Hanyun's career and popularity.
Although Tong Mengshi has also played many roles, the most well-known is the role of "Wuzhu" in "Celebrating More Than Years 2".
As the guard with explosive force value around Fan Xian, Wuzhu is a likable supporting role, which has won Tong Mengshi a lot of popularity.
However, due to the positioning of the supporting role, even if the popularity is high, the role of Wuzhu is of limited help to improve Tong Mengshi's coffee position. It is reported that Tong Mengshi's negotiations with investors are often frustrated because of this.
The depressed Tong Mengshi will be like a wounded lion, sulking and unwilling to communicate with others.
Even if he is comforted by his girlfriend Zhang Hanyun, he often can't listen to it, and even gets angry with her. This kind of situation not only happens in private, but even when Zhang Hanyun's friends come to visit.
Over time, others feel that with Zhang Hanyun's fame and wealth, why put up with Tong Mengshi's stinky temper?
In the face of criticism from the outside world, Zhang Hanyun strongly supported her boyfriend, she said: Everyone has emotions, and it is normal to need to talk and vent, and she is the best candidate.
Ugly words when she is angry don't mean everything, and besides, she loses her temper herself. It is precisely because each other can become the "trash can" of emotions when the other needs that their relationship can be maintained to this day.
In fact, Zhang Hanyun and Tong Mengshi can come to the step of talking about marriage, which shows that the two are very compatible.
They dare to show their true side to the people they love most, including negative emotions and vulnerable moments. Such a true and honest relationship will become stronger and stronger under the run-in of both parties.
We can't help but ask: in the face of love, do you choose to hide your true self and strive to manage a perfect image, or have the courage to show your shortcomings and vulnerabilities in exchange for deeper understanding and companionship?
As we all know, Zhang Hanyun's road to fame is somewhat similar to her idol predecessor Li Yuchun. Li Yuchun became an instant hit in 2005 with "Super Girl" and became the top of the mainland pop music scene.
She pioneered the "corn wind" trend with her androgynous image and slightly husky voice. And Zhang Hanyun rose to prominence in 2006 through "Happy Girl", and won the love of the public with her sweet and lovely temperament.
Although the two singers from the draft have very different styles, they were both idols of the same era.
However, Li Yuchun's love life has always attracted much attention and speculation. It is rumored that she has had scandals with many male stars, such as having a close relationship with Zhou Bichang, who is also a fast female player, and she is also suspected of being a couple.
But Li Yuchun has always been silent about relationship problems and remains single. On the other hand, Zhang Hanyun, although she is not as brilliant as Li Yuchun in her career, is extraordinarily frank on the road of love.
She does not shy away from her hidden marriage history, and generously admits her love for Tong Mengshi, but there is also a kind of maverick freedom in comparison.
At that time, "Happy Girl" not only made Zhang Hanyun popular, but also made the "Three Little Flowers of Fast Girls" Hao Feier, Wang Rong, Huang Yali and others an instant hit.
However, later Hao Feier faded out of the entertainment industry and returned to his family, Wang Rong focused on commercial performances to make money and no longer released films, and Huang Yali transformed into an actor, all of which made a group of fans sigh.
As for Zhang Hanyun, although he has not had a big hit for many years, he has also maintained a certain degree of exposure in the fields of music and film and television.
Now, she has finally ushered in spring in love, and netizens have sent blessings, hoping that the goddess of childhood can reap happiness.
Zhang Hanyun and Tong Mengshi can achieve positive results, which is not unrelated to the similar backgrounds of the two. As people who have worked hard in the entertainment industry for many years, they know that this industry is not easy and know how to tolerate each other's shortcomings and temperaments.
And Tong Mengshi is willing to show Zhang Hanyun the real and imperfect side, and Zhang Hanyun is also willing to be his spiritual pillar, this sincere honesty is the key to maintaining the relationship.
Looking back on Zhang Hanyun's emotional experience, I have to mention her hidden marriage with Peng Guanying. In 2017, Zhang Hanyun and Peng Guanying became acquainted because of their cooperation in the TV series "Liangsheng, Can We Not Be Sad".
Both in and out of the play, they are good couples, and many netizens are calling for their relationship. However, the good times did not last long, and only a little more than a year later, the news of their breakup came out.
It wasn't until later that everyone learned that they had not only been in love, but had also obtained a low-key marriage certificate.
Regarding this short marriage, Zhang Hanyun once admitted in an interview that it was caused by impulsiveness.
She said that two young people with strong blood were in love and ignorant for a while, but they ignored the differences in three views and living habits, and finally came to an end.
This failed marriage experience undoubtedly taught Zhang Hanyun a lesson, but at the same time, it also gave her a more sober and mature understanding of love.
There are many popular people, and love life has always been a hot topic in the entertainment industry. Zhang Hanyun and Peng Guanying, Wang Baoqiang and Ma Rong, Jia Nailiang and Li Xiaolu...... One by one, celebrity changes can always attract widespread attention and heated discussions.
The reason for this is, on the one hand, the public's curiosity about the private life of idols, and on the other hand, it also reflects the world's various thoughts on love and marriage.
In fact, whether it is a celebrity or an ordinary person, there will inevitably be contradictions and frictions in the relationship, but as long as the two parties truly love each other, tolerate and understand, and manage and care, they will definitely be able to work together to overcome difficulties.
As Zhang Hanyun said, feelings are managed by two people together, and each other must learn to grow.
Although she and Tong Mengshi quarreled from time to time because of their temper, they still chose to understand each other's difficulties and accept each other's negative emotions, and this honesty and courage are worthy of recognition.
Some people say that the most taboo thing in love is to hide it, and the most valuable thing is to reveal the sincerity, Zhang Hanyun and Tong Mengshi can come to the step of talking about marriage precisely because they dare to show the most real appearance in front of each other.
This kind of unreserved trust is something that many couples dream of but are difficult to achieve.
On the other hand, at present, many young people always suffer from gains and losses when they fall in love, and they are dissatisfied with the shortcomings and habits of their other half, but they are unwilling to communicate with them. Over time, the contradictions accumulate day by day, and the feelings gradually drift apart.
The reason why blind date variety shows such as "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" and "New Blind Date Era" are so prosperous is precisely to cater to the psychology of contemporary young people who yearn for true love but do not know the essentials.
In fact, everyone is not perfect, true love is not to find a perfect person, but to accept a person who has shortcomings but is willing to change for you.
Just like Zhang Hanyun and Tong Mengshi, although there will inevitably be quarrels in life, as long as they tolerate each other, they will definitely be able to turn hostility into friendship.
With the broadcast of "Celebrating More Than Years 2", Tong Mengshi will also appear in the public eye again.
With this shareholder trend and the help of his girlfriend Zhang Hanyun, I believe that his career will also usher in a new breakthrough. And their feelings are believed to be recognized and blessed by more people in the future.
Counting Zhang Hanyun's emotional experience, from a young and frivolous hidden marriage to today's mature and frank relationship, it can be said that he has experienced a lot of ups and downs.
But it is these ups and downs that have created her more and more determined and calm attitude towards her feelings. Those once confused and hesitant have turned into today's careful care.
On the road of love, Zhang Hanyun and Tong Mengshi stumbled, but they did not hesitate. Looking back, they may also be full of emotion.
But as Zhang Ailing said: "In the end, love is not love, but love is so weak." After experiencing the sweetness and bitterness of love, they know how to cherish the present moment and manage the people in front of them with their hearts.
When it comes to Zhang Hanyun's relationship history, I have to mention her hidden marriage with Peng Guanying. The two fell in love quickly because of the play, and finally achieved a positive result.
However, this marriage was short-lived and fleeting. In this regard, Zhang Hanyun once sighed: "We are too young to know how to manage feelings." Her short married life made her realize that love requires not only passion, but also reason and responsibility.
Now, Zhang Hanyun and Tong Mengshi continue their relationship, and this time, they have learned to be more tolerant and considerate.
Although Tong Mengshi occasionally gets angry with her because of her unsatisfactory work, Zhang Hanyun still chooses to be patient and enlightened and be his strong backing.
She understands that to love someone is to accept everything about him, including his flaws and temper.
In fact, in the entertainment industry, Zhang Hanyun and Tong Mengshi's emotional experience is not special, many celebrities have experienced the ups and downs of love, and marriage is sweet or bitter.
For example, Xie Na and Zhang Jie, from meeting and falling in love on the fast girl stage, to getting married and having children, along the way, although there were quarrels and unpleasantness, they were always in love.
Another example is Zheng Shuang and Zhang Han, who were once the enviable golden boys and girls in the entertainment industry, but in the end they couldn't escape the fate of breaking up.
The experiences of these celebrity couples tell us that love is never smooth sailing.
It requires effort on both sides to learn to communicate, understand, tolerate, and compromise. As Tong Mengshi said in the interview: "Hanyun and I are both temperamental people, but we are willing to change for each other."
This kind of willing change is the most touching thing about love.
Throughout Zhang Hanyun's emotional journey, from young and ignorant to mature and steady, from hidden marriage and divorce to courtship again, she has become more and more open-minded and frank on the road of love.
Those former heartaches and helplessness have turned into today's experience and wisdom. She no longer expects flawless love, but knows how to accept each other's shortcomings and take care of this hard-won relationship with sincerity.
Love is a part of life, but it is by no means the whole story. In addition to love, we also have dreams, careers, friendships, and family affection. Only through multifaceted achievements and satisfaction can we build a happy and fulfilling life.
I hope that Zhang Hanyun and Tong Mengshi can continue to shine in their careers, go hand in hand in their relationships, and become inspirational models in the entertainment industry.
And for everyone who is looking for love, the story of Zhang Hanyun and Tong Mengshi may give us some inspiration.
There is no standard answer to love, only the one that suits you.
Instead of demanding perfection, learn to be tolerant; Rather than suffering from gains and losses, it is better to be honest with each other.
As Zhang Ailing said: "Love is what it is, not so much a feeling, but an instinct."
May all people be driven by the instinct of love to eventually become a family member and reap happiness.