Zhang Mingrong will never forget that cold morning, he kicked out the door and in the door, confronting his father.
"Are you really going to ruin our home for a woman you've known for only 3 months?" Father's face was livid.
Zhang Mingrong looked worried: "Kong Yan fell paralyzed in order to chase me, I must go to see her to be at ease!" ”
Kong Yan is the girlfriend that Zhang Mingrong met when he was working in Qingdao, and the two only had 3 months from acquaintance to love.
Seeing that Zhang Mingrong insisted on going to the hospital to visit Kong Yan, his father shouted out sadly: "You dare to walk out of this house today, and you will never come back!" ”
Too late to say more, Zhang Mingrong hurried to the hospital.
It's just that the young Zhang Mingrong doesn't know how difficult it will be to take this step!
Looking back on the past, he said with emotion: After a lot of experience, I learned to be strong and tolerant, and I continued to move forward with a grateful heart...
01
Zhang Mingrong was born in 1988 in a small village in Liaocheng, Shandong Province, and he was the fifth oldest in his family.
His parents were honest farmers, and their families were originally ordinary, relying on their parents to farm to maintain the family's livelihood.
Later, when my mother went to work in the fields, she accidentally fell hard. The mother was reluctant to pay for a doctor, so she hid from her family and continued to work in the field with the pain.
Delayed treatment, the disease worsened, and eventually led to paralysis in bed, the family that was not rich was even worse.
Zhang Mingrong, 15 years old, watched his father's back become more and more rickety, and the wrinkles on his face became deeper and deeper, and Zhang Mingrong could not express his sadness in his heart.
In order to reduce the burden on his family, he resolutely dropped out of school and came to Qingdao to work.
In 2008, Zhang Mingrong met Kong Yan on the factory assembly line, and was attracted to this lively and beautiful girl at the first sight.
However, he did not have the courage to confess to Kong Yan, but only silently treated her well.
Fortunately, Zhang Mingrong did not confess, or he had to be heartbroken. Because Kong Yan's first impression of her was very poor, she felt that Zhang Mingrong "didn't look like a good person."
Zhang Mingrong, who did not know it, regarded Kong Yan as a beam of light in his life, and whenever Kong Yan encountered any trouble, he was always the first to stand up and help her.
After two months, Kong Yan had a good feeling for Zhang Mingrong, and felt that this young man was down-to-earth and enthusiastic, a rare good person, and could be entrusted for life.
Tormented by unrequited love and feeling that the wages in the factory were too low, Zhang Mingrong decided to resign.
Before leaving, he invited everyone to a meal, specially invited Kong Yan, and they all drank a lot of wine during the banquet.
"Wine strengthens people's guts", he pulled Kong Yan outside, and confessed incoherently: "Kong Yan, I like you, I like you at first sight!" If you want to be good with me, I'll stay, you don't like me, I'll leave here and never bother you again. ”
I don't know if it is the effect of alcohol, remembering Zhang Mingrong's love and care for himself in the past two months, Kong Yan hugged Zhang Mingrong.
Happiness came so suddenly, but Zhang Mingrong didn't know at that time that bad luck was stretching out its claws to them.
02
It turned out that Kong Yan, who was the same age as Zhang Mingrong, was actually full of heartache behind the cheerful optimism.
From a young age, she was given to others by her patriarchal parents, and her adoptive parents were married for many years without children, Kong Yan was pampered and had a happy and carefree time.
A few years later, the adoptive parents had their own daughter, but they were still good to Kong Yan.
Kong Yan slowly came out and became a big girl of Peugeot, and the media in the four villages and eight miles was about to break the threshold.
Her adoptive parents carefully selected a young man who was good in every way and set her a family affair.
However, Kong Yan had never seen the boy and had no feelings for him, but he was unwilling to rebel against his adoptive parents, so he reluctantly agreed.
The man's family is well-off, very satisfied with Kong Yan, and he quickly set up a kiss and sent a dowry money.
After the engagement, Kong Yan and the man have been in contact several times, and they can't feel like it in their hearts, but they are hindered by the grace of their adoptive parents' upbringing, and they can't say desperate words, which adds a lot of troubles.
In order to avoid meeting with each other, Kong Yan and the villagers came to Qingdao to work. Until she met Zhang Mingrong, she did not like this young man from dislike to love, she did not know what love was.
Growing up to 20 years old, she had the idea of fighting for her happiness for the first time. The matter between them was known to Kong Yan's adoptive parents, and they called Kong Yan to return to her hometown.
Kong Yan cried and said to Zhang Mingrong, "Take me out of here!" "They decided to go to Tianjin to work, leave familiar people, and start a new life."
Who knew that within a few days of arriving in Tianjin, the adoptive parents could not find Kong Yan, and directly called the police to say that Zhang Mingrong had abducted their daughter and run away.
In the face of the police who came to the door, Kong Yan explained the ins and outs of the matter clearly, and then firmly expressed her heart to her adoptive parents through the phone.
Seeing that the daughter who has always been obedient was so stubborn this time, her adoptive parents were so angry that they scolded Kong Yan for having no conscience, and when their wings hardened, they wanted to fly away.
They blamed Zhang Mingrong even more, and brought the daughter of the good duan to ruin. Took the time to go to Zhang Mingrong's house to see it, and after returning, 100 people did not approve of this marriage.
Before the Spring Festival, Kong Yan received a call from her adoptive parents, saying that her adoptive mother was sick and asked her to hurry home. After deliberating, the two men decided to take the opportunity to seek forgiveness and fulfillment.
Zhang Mingrong came to visit her adoptive parents with the gift and Kong Yan, but they ignored him and threw the gift outside the door.
In front of him, he yelled at Kong Yan, "Look what you've found?!" ”
Kong Yan's tears brushed down, and she defended her boyfriend: "He is not good-looking, but others are good, and they are good to me!" ”
"Can people eat as a meal?" He has a paralyzed mother in his family, and a bunch of children, and you have to suffer for a lifetime when you marry! ”
But no matter how much his adoptive parents persuaded him, Kong Yan iron-heartedly identified Zhang Mingrong. They were afraid that Kong Yan would go with Zhang Mingrong and locked her up.
In the middle of the night, no one cared, Zhang Mingrong, who had been hungry for a day, squatted in the firewood room of Kong Yan's family, cold and hungry and suffocating, and when he saw two bottles of pesticides, he was discouraged and had thoughts that he should not have.
He called his father and told him about his grievances, and he told him to go home first. Zhang Mingrong thought about it, sent a text message to Kong Yan and left Kong Yan's home.
After seeing the text message, Kong Yan ran out in a hurry to chase her lover back, but found that the gate was locked.
She was in a hurry, and when she saw the steps leading to the bungalow, she suddenly had an idea in her heart.
Three or two steps to the top of the square, Kong Yan did not think about it, and jumped down. "Poof", in the quiet and cold winter morning, the sound of Kong Yan landing on the ground is particularly heavy.
Unfortunately, everything was in a deep sleep at that time, and there was no reaction.
After landing on the ground, Kong Yan felt a sharp pain and could not stand up on his legs. She gritted her teeth and climbed forward for a distance, thinking: This leg is afraid that it is broken, such a climbing method, I can't catch up with him in the Year of the Monkey!
She began to shout for help, and when she was discovered by her awakened family, she was rushed to the hospital.
Zhang Mingrong, who was physically and mentally exhausted, had just returned home, and before he could sit still, he received a call from Kong Yan, and he was excited, thinking that Kong Yan's adoptive parents had changed their minds and finally agreed to their affairs.
Who knew that the phone was connected, but it was a thunderbolt on a sunny day. On the phone, Kong Yan's adoptive parents shouted, "Hurry up!" Kong Yan jumped from the wall and was paralyzed in order to chase you, and is now in the hospital. ”
After hanging up the phone, Zhang Mingrong was still ignorant, but when it came to Kong Yan, he could not stand idly by.
He instinctively wanted to leave, but was stopped by his father: "Are you really going?" Do you know what paralysis means? You look at your mother like this, so many years, we have not suffered enough? ”
"But Kong Yan jumped off the wall and fell in order to chase me, and I couldn't help but go and see her." Zhang Mingrong insisted.
"Do you really want to drag this family down before you are willing?" Father almost pleaded.
"I can't leave her alone!" Zhang Mingrong took a step.
"If you walk out of this house today, don't come back!" His father yelled at his back.
Zhang Mingrong took a step, or left without hesitation.
Despite his mental preparation, when he saw Kong Yan in the hospital, Zhang Mingrong was still stunned by the scene he saw in front of him.
The girlfriend was cast from waist to leg and full of syringes.
He couldn't help but shout, "Why are you so stupid, what if I don't come to you?" ”
Kong Yan whispered, "I don't blame you if you don't come." ”
A word made him break the defense, this strong and simple Shandong guy, tears flowed. He knew that in this life, he could not let go of Kong Yan's hand.
She would be a sweet burden on herself.
He secretly decided: Kong Yan, I am in charge! If you dare to jump off the wall for me, I dare to fight for love tomorrow!
Zhang Mingrong's real maturity began from the moment he saw Kong Yan, who was seriously injured and disabled.
Knowing that the burden on his shoulders was very heavy, he was not ready to back down and vowed to take on his own responsibilities like a grandfather!
Zhang Mingrong, 20 years old, grew up in an instant!
But Zhang Mingrong did not expect that the next few days would be so difficult, and it was rare for him to lose the courage to fight.
03
Kong Yan's adoptive parents believe that their daughter is chasing Zhang Mingrong's injuries, and he should bear Kong Yan's medical expenses, and Zhang Mingrong agreed without hesitation.
After appeasing Kong Yan, he went out to work to earn money and pay for Kong Yan's medical expenses. A month later, Kong Yan texted him: "You pick me up!" ”
Zhang Mingrong didn't say a word and came to Kong Yan's house. Kong Yan's original betrothed object gave her family a dowry, and after Kong Yan's accident, her adoptive parents negotiated with each other to let Kong Yan's sister marry instead of her sister.
After the sister got married, she was unhappy and unsatisfactory, and her adoptive parents sprinkled their resentment on Kong Yan and Zhang Mingrong, and the more they looked at Kong Yan, the more angry they became, and the care was naturally unsatisfactory.
The more he thought about Zhang Mingrong, the more he hated, let him quickly take Kong Yan away, and also let him write down a guarantee: in the future, Kong Yan's medical expenses and all other expenses have nothing to do with them.
Looking at the big bedsores on Kong Yan's back, Zhang Mingrong's heart was heavy, and he knew that only by taking Kong Yan with him and taking care of him personally could he rest assured.
Therefore, after signing the letter of guarantee, he walked away without looking back with Kong Yantou on his back.
Back in Qingdao, he rented a small room of 5 square meters, settled Kong Yan, and went out to find a job.
Because Kong Yan's body has to turn over once every two hours, he encountered a lot of trouble when looking for a job.
Once, he asked the recruiting unit if he could be allowed to return home every two hours.
A blank eye flew over: "This is work!" You think it's a kid who's playing at home? ”
Unable to find a regular job, he had to work odd jobs. Unloading, carrying bags, delivering couriers, running takeaways, as long as he gives money he will do it.
Unloading cement, others work two hours a day, and the rest of the time is used to rest.
He rushed home after unloading in the morning, turned Kong Yan over, massaged and massaged, and waited for her to drink from the water toilet.
After the busy, I hurried back to the construction site and continued to unload in the afternoon, like a gyroscope, and I was reluctant to rest for a moment.
Afraid that Kong Yan was alone at home and thinking wildly, Zhang Mingrong saved 300 yuan from between his teeth and bought back a TV set to relieve Kong Yan's boredom.
Tired, Zhang Mingrong is not afraid. Nothing else, the strength he has. Poor, Zhang Mingrong is not afraid, he thinks that as long as he has a breath, he will have Kong Yan's food to eat.
What can make Zhang Mingrong collapse is that there is no hope!
After a year of hard work, I insisted on massaging Kong Yan's legs and waist every two hours every day, even at night.
365 days a year, never stopped, but also spent a lot of money, regularly to Kong Yan to do rehabilitation.
However, the results of the examination a year later made Zhang Mingrong completely desperate: Kong Yan's body did not improve at all.
At night, after Kong Yan fell asleep, Zhang Mingrong came to the street alone, bought 100 pills, and bought a bottle of beer that he was usually reluctant to buy.
I took a sip of beer, swallowed the medicine, and cried as I swallowed: God, why don't you give me a way to live?
Fortunately, Zhang Mingrong was found by passers-by and sent to the hospital for 7 days and 7 nights, and finally got out of danger.
Kong Yan said to him with tears in her eyes: "I am dragging you down!" ”
Zhang Mingrong covered her mouth:
"Tsubame, I was wrong. I'm too, I just want to free myself, but what can you do when I'm gone?
In this world, I am your only dependence! I don't care about you, isn't this forcing you to the brink of extinction?
From now on, none of us are allowed to have this idea. Whatever it is, we are both alive and well! ”
Since then, no matter how hard it is, Zhang Mingrong has not flinched. Bitter people, the sky is not the limit. This earth-shaking effort has finally paid off.
One night, when Zhang Mingrong was giving Kong Yan a massage, he fell asleep unconsciously because of overwork.
Kong Yan looked at this tired man, and complicated tears flowed from his eyes.
After so many years of being hurt by him, she knew his kindness and responsibility better than anyone.
But at the same time, she also knows better than anyone about his hardships and hardships.
She wanted to cover him with a dress, so she struggled to reach the coat that Zhang Mingrong had taken off next to her.
It turned out that she actually had enough! Kong Yan was excited and couldn't help but cry with joy. Zhang Mingrong was awakened and saw his wife sitting on the bed.
He couldn't believe his eyes, wiped and wiped, and saw Kong Yan smile and nod to him with tears in his eyes.
Excitedly, he picked up Kong Yan: "Yan, you can sit up by yourself!" Our efforts have worked! He laughed and cried, cried and laughed.
Then came the bigger surprises.
04
As Kong Yan's health gradually improved, she did not need to go for rehabilitation, saving a lot of money.
Zhang Mingrong massaged Kong Yan more vigorously, and her physical condition was getting better and better.
Zhang Mingrong saved money to buy a wheelchair for Kong Yan, and slowly, Kong Yan was able to move from the bed to the wheelchair by herself.
Zhang Mingrong came home from work every day, and he could eat hot meals, which he didn't even dare to think about before.
Bigger surprises are still to come, in 2013, Kong Yan felt uncomfortable, Zhang Mingrong took her to the hospital for a check-up, and she was actually pregnant!
The two people were surprised and happy, in order to make more money and let his wife and children live a little better, Zhang Mingrong used the only 5,000 yuan in the family as a principal and used the evening time to make a small deal.
As a result, there was no penny left, and even the money for giving birth to the child was collected by the workers.
A child is born a boy, and it is not easy for an ordinary family to raise a child, let alone this situation?
As a last resort, when the child was two months old, they were really unable to raise the child, Zhang Mingrong posted a post on the Internet: healthy baby boy 2 months, the mother is paralyzed, unable to raise a kind person to take in.
As soon as the post was issued, it attracted a lot of attention, the reporter reported on the matter, and their situation was widely known.
Everyone generously donated money to help him solve his worries.
The child stayed, and Zhang Mingrong gratefully said to his wife: "We must not fail to live up to the expectations of well-wishers, and we will be able to repay the society in the future." ”
With everyone's help, Zhang Mingrong changed to a rental house with slightly better conditions. With a son, in addition to happiness, the pressure also increases invisibly.
But Zhang Mingrong was not afraid at all, and only felt that he had endless strength. He was like a clockwork clock, riveting forward.
Kong Yan is also in the process of taking care of her son, exercising more and more competently. Take care of your son, take care of the housework, and get more and more comfortable every day. My body is getting better and better, and I can stand up and walk with the help of crutches and walkers.
Originally, I only wanted two people to support each other and complete the simple journey of a lifetime, because the arrival of the little one suddenly became different from the past.
In 2015, the two were licensed to marry.
Zhang Mingrong tried to do all kinds of small businesses, but did not make any money. Later, he simply moved his family from Qingdao to Dongying, where consumption is much lower, and they will not be so tired.
As life became better and better, those wishes that Zhang Mingrong suppressed in his heart began to emerge.
When talking about love, Kong Yan once snuggled in Zhang Mingrong's arms and said with infinite fascination: "Everyone says that watching the sunrise at the top of Mount Tai is simply too beautiful, which day you will also take me to see it, right?" ”
A sentence she said casually was deeply imprinted on Zhang Mingrong's heart.
In the past few years, busy treating Kong Yan's injuries and busy running east and west to earn money to support his family, Zhang Mingrong did not even have the kung fu to stop and recall the past.
Now, life is slowly on the right track, and those once beautiful things suddenly come to mind.
Zhang Mingrong said: "I am a man, I come to resist, and I will help you realize your wishes one by one." ”
So, starting in 2017, he delivered takeaways and kept running, just to exercise his leg strength.
Almost ready, Zhang Mingrong took his wife to the foot of Mount Tai. He tied Kong Yan with a towel on his back and climbed up step by step.
The feet grinded out blood bubbles, and he leaned forward with his hands, Kong Yan was extremely distressed, and the tears slipped down.
She blamed herself: Why did she have this desire in the first place? People around him saw that Zhang Mingrong was struggling so hard, and they all advised him to give up.
People who have climbed Mount Tai know that hiking is not easy, let alone carrying more than 100 pounds of large living people?
But Zhang Mingrong faced the persuasion of others, wiped his sweat, smiled and said: "What I promised her, I must do!" ”
6331 steps, climbed for a full 12 hours, and finally reached the top of the mountain before sunrise the next day. Zhang Mingrong let out a breath of turbidity and shouted loudly: "Taishan, me and Kong Yan are coming!" ”
Afterwards, some people complained that Zhang Mingrong was too stupid, he said: "I am not afraid of the hardships of life, will I be scared by a mountain?" ”
Shortly after returning, Kong Yan became pregnant again and gave birth to a lovely daughter.
In 2020, Zhang Mingrong held a beautiful wedding for Kong Yan.
At the wedding, he said to Kong Yan affectionately: "Wife, in this life, following me has made you suffer a lot of grievances." Now that I have the ability, I want to compensate you little by little. Other women have it, and you will have it too. ”
Since 2017, Zhang Mingrong took his wife to climb Mount Taishan for 4 years, and for the third time, he was injured by a fall and failed to reach the top of the mountain.
Now Zhang Mingrong has converted the tricycle into a motorhome, which has a bed, a TV, and air conditioning, but there is nothing in the front cab.
In the summer, there are about forty or fifty degrees, and Zhang Mingrong said generously: "There will be wind coming in when it is opened, and it is not so hot." ”
In his spare time, he carried the family around, traveling more than 10,000 kilometers.
In 2021, he drove a tricycle to the foot of Mount Taishan, then pushed his wife in a wheelchair, led his son and daughter, and walked around the foot of the mountain.
He told reporters: "Kong Yan and I are getting older, and I want to take advantage of the fact that she is still in good health and take her around to let her see the beauty of nature." ”
05
Even in the most difficult times, when the two of them even had problems eating, Zhang Mingrong still sent a sum of money to his parents-in-law and his parents every month.
Touched by his sincerity, kindness, strong optimism, Kong Yan's adoptive parents also gradually accepted this son-in-law, but also sad about the sins that their daughter suffered for so many years, and now the adoptive mother helps Kong Yan to soak her feet with ai ye when she has time.
It is said that a son-in-law is half a child, and now, they can care about Zhang Mingrong, calling him several times a day, booing and asking for warmth, which is completely the rhythm of the son.
Zhang Mingrong's parents, after seeing that their son and daughter-in-law have not abandoned each other for so many years, were deeply moved, accepted the disabled daughter-in-law, and even hurt Zhang Mingrong's pair of children to the bone.
Zhang Mingrong and Kong Yan, one jumped the wall for love, and the other put the second half of his life for love. Bitter and sweet, keep the clouds open to see the moon.
A man's deepest love for a woman is the responsibility of the key moment.
And to be able to win a bad hand, Zhang Mingrong relies on his deep and simple love for Kong Yan and is a man's responsibility.
postscript
Zhang Mingrong is an ordinary person who can no longer be ordinary, but what he has done is indeed extraordinary.
How many people can do it?
Although he was very poor, he bore the medical expenses for his girlfriend who had known her for three months, and took the initiative to take care of her when his girlfriend faced the dislike of her family.
Running tirelessly, not daring to struggle slackly, only because he shoulders the heavy love of a woman and the subsistence of a family of four.
He said that he had a wish to have a house of his own, so that he would not have to worry about the expiration of the rental, and wished that his dream would come true soon!