A host once talked to Ma Yili about the triangle relationship: "In reality, there are many people who face the triangle relationship, which is very difficult to deal with. Today's young people don't have so much patience to understand those more delicate feelings, they say scum."
Ma Yili said: "Yes, it is said that women live too humblely, men are too scummy, but in fact human nature is so complicated." ”
Although Ma Yili said that the clouds were light and breezy, she herself was "" encountered two "triangular relationships", once when the well-known article and Yao Di cheated in marriage, and the other was the entanglement story between her and Guan Hu and Liang Jing.
Time back 21 years, Guan Hu has not yet made "Eight Hundred", Liang Jing is not the famous director's "Xian Neisuke", and Ma Yili has not experienced betrayal and divorce.
At that time, they were just "little people" who were not well known in the entertainment industry.
To tell the story about the two of them, we have to start from 1999.
A director busy in love
In 1999, at a gathering of friends, Liang Jing, who had just arrived in Beijing from Fuzhou, met a bearded director and asked in small talk:
"What have you ever filmed?"
The director confidently said several works, and boasted that he had won awards abroad. At this time, Liang Jing calmly asked, "When was that?" ”
He said "a few years ago," and she immediately asked, "So what have you been doing all these years?" ”
The director replied with an embarrassed face: "Busy in love." And the director who has been busy falling in love is Guan Hu.
At that time, Liang Jing was not deeply impressed by the director who was 1 meter 9 tall in front of her, but liang Jing, who was heroic and sassy, left a deep impression on Guan Hu as a "big handsome girl".
This simple meeting, no one expected that they would eventually come together, because there was never a shortage of women around Guan Hu.
That year, after Guan Hu graduated from the directing department of the Beijing Film Academy, he immediately raised funds on his own to shoot his first film work, "Hair Is Messy". The heroine of the movie is Guan Hu's girlfriend at the time, Kong Lin.
For the 24-year-old fledgling newcomer director, this film contains his youth and courage, but at the same time it is slightly immature. Although the new film has not set off too many waves, love is full of sweetness in life.
Four years later, Guan Hu filmed a second directorial work, "Romantic Street", and the heroine was also Kong Lin.
The cooperation between the two husbands and wives witnessed the most youthful time of Guan Hu's director's work. But the good times did not last long, and after working on the second work, they announced that they had broken up peacefully.
However, Guan Hu, who did not have a long time in the empty window period, met Ma Yili, who was still in college, when casting for "Nightwalker", and was immediately fascinated by her gentle and lovely appearance, and immediately opened another "famous love triangle".
Love her and make her popular
On the eve of Valentine's Day in 1997, Ma Yili sent a message to Guan Hu: "Tomorrow Valentine's Day, no one will spend with me."
Guan Hu, who had already placed his heart on Ma Yili, replied, "After you know me, you will not spend Valentine's Day alone." ”
The next day, Guan Hu took the flowers to the door of Ma Yili's dormitory, and from then on, the two officially established a relationship.
It can be seen that when meeting Liang Jing, it is the hot love period between Guan Hu and Ma Yili, and the phrase "busy in love" can only be blurted out by people who are enjoying sweet love.
For his girlfriend's pampering, Guan Hu is not only expressed in his mouth, starting from Kong Lin, he is accustomed to letting his girlfriend "get the moon first near the water tower" and participate in his own works.
In this way, you can not only contact feelings, but also win the girlfriend, why not enjoy it?
Therefore, during that time, Ma Yili became the "absolute" protagonist in Guan Hu's works.
First of all, Guan Hu tailored the movie "Xi Shi Eye" for Ma Yili, and he can play the leading role just after his debut, which shows Guan Hu's intention for Ma Yili.
Ma Yili performed well in the film as the protagonist, and Guan Hu was also shortlisted for the most popular film of the Golden Rooster and Hundred Flowers Film Festival with this film, which can be described as fame and fortune.
Subsequently, in 2001, Guan Hu directed the annual drama "Black Hole", and in the star-studded TV series, newcomer Ma Yili also won a brilliant role.
At this time, Liang Jing, who once had a relationship with Guan Hu, also got the role of Gong Qian, an intern policewoman in "Black Hole", due to the temporary absence of a role in the crew.
Ma Yili and Liang Jing also became good girlfriends because of this drama.
After a small test of the bull knife in "Black Hole", in 2003, Ma Yili really became famous by virtue of Guan Hu's relationship as an assistant director in "Huan Zhu Ge Ge 3", and won the role of Ziwei.
It can be said that Ma Yili's road to fame is inseparable from Guan Hu's escort.
However, after the two became famous, they ushered in not a sweeter love, but many contradictions.
When feelings fade, people disperse
Ma Yili became popular because of her starring in "Huan Zhu Ge Ge 3", and after that, the film contract continued, and she often got together with Guan Hu and left more.
Although Guan Hu single-handedly held Ma Yili red, he was very traditional in his bones, and he repeatedly hinted that Ma Yili should minimize his workload and accompany him more.
However, where is Ma Yili, who has been strong since childhood, willing to choose to let go when the momentum is at its peak?
As a result, the relationship between the two went farther and farther.
Until one time, Guan Hu had a play in his hand, hoping that Ma Yili would come to star.
However, Ma Yili replied: "I have been waiting for a full schedule recently, I really can't find time, you ask others."
This hurt Guan Hu's heart, and he could only temporarily find Liang Jing to save the scene.
In fact, when filming "Black Hole", Liang Jing was attracted by Guan Hu.
"On the scene of the shooting, I immediately felt the charm of this man, his charm lies in his persistence, completely the state of an artist, at that time I was thinking, maybe I am looking for such a man." 」
However, due to the relationship between Guan Hu and Ma Yili, Liang Jing, who has a big grin on the outside, can only choose to hide her feelings in her heart, as long as Guan Hu needs it, she will stand up for help at the first time.
It is said that "love does not know what to do", but the demise of a relationship is always accompanied by confusion, perhaps a word, or a look, all kinds of accumulation, and finally the feelings fade, and people disperse.
Finally, in 2004, Guan Hu and Ma Yili ended this relationship that lasted for 7 years.
Helpless reasons for breaking up
The former lover and girlfriend were together, which made Ma Yili feel betrayed and humiliated, and from then on, the three rarely intersected.
Until many years later, at an award ceremony, Ma Yili and Liang Jing happened to be on the same stage, and the two did not interact the whole time, and the scene was once very embarrassing.
Many years later, talking about Guan Hu, Ma Yili said: "Guan Hu is planning on the set, but he is a complete child in life, and everything needs to be taken care of. ”
Obviously, the enterprising Ma Yili can't stand the need for both human care and macho Guan Hu.
However, Liang Jing said: "I especially hope to protect the simple childishness in his heart, and engaging in art requires a pure mentality." ”
They are two completely different types of women, one is gentle on the outside, but strong and enterprising on the inside; the other is heroic on the outside, but traditional and virtuous on the inside.
Asked about the reason for breaking up with Ma Yili, Guan Hu replied: "Ma Yili is too strong, life is good, feelings are good, career is good, I am very tired. ”
A year after breaking up with Ma Yili, Guan Hu and Liang Jing consummated their marriage in a low-key manner.
Li Jing once revealed that after a drink, she asked Liang Jing how much she loved Guan Hu, and Liang Jing smiled and said, "I can die for him."
"It's easy to fall in love and difficult to get along", some people, initially walk together because of personality, but eventually break up because of personality, going around in circles, just to find the right person.
Feelings in no particular order
For marriage and feelings, even Liang Jing did not believe that she would tie the heart of this eccentric director:
"I didn't think I would marry Guan Hu, I love him, and it's enough to pay for him."
It is in this way that liang jing finally reaps the fruits of love. After marriage, the two had a son and a daughter, which formed a "good" word, and Liang Jing also chose to retreat behind the scenes and return to the family.
The handsome lady who was once in the wind and fire dedicated all her tenderness to this family.
In 2015, on the occasion of the tenth wedding anniversary, Guan Hu and Liang Jing made up the wedding for themselves, and under the witness of a group of relatives and friends, they swore an oath of love to the earth and the heavens.
At the wedding, Liang Jing said affectionately, "In this life, I have docked", which may be the best declaration of her marriage.
With the backing of the family, Guan Hu's career has also developed like a broken bamboo, and he has successively made acclaimed movies such as "Yimeng", "Bullfighting", "Killing", "Old Cannon" and so on, consolidating his position in the director's circle.
As in the past, Guan Hu has Liang Jing in every movie, and now, she has long become his "exclusive heroine".
This year, "Eight Hundred", which was finally released after many ups and downs, has set off the patriotic enthusiasm of the audience.
On Valentine's Day, Liang Jing posted a confession to Guan Hu.
"You cried, the tears of sorrow and joy and grievance moved everyone present, and I cried when I saw you cry like a child, because at that moment, only I understood you best."
Hand in hand through 15 years of wind and rain, the hands that have been questioned have long been tightly clasped together, that is a payoff, but also a harvest.
On the other side of the story, Ma Yili is no longer the girl who dared to be bold, she experienced love and betrayal, and lived as a wife and mother.
Although she has experienced divorce, on the road of pursuing love, Ma Yili has never been discouraged and compromised, and the success of her career has made her more confident, and now she is more calm and wise.
After seeing the emotional entanglement of Guan Hu, Liang Jing and Ma Yili, some people will ask, is there a priority between feelings? Uncle Chai felt that feelings should not be divided into first-come, first-served, and what is suitable is the best.
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【Text| Yu Sanpier]
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【Typography | Xiu Xiu】
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