After being denounced by netizens, Ma Weiwei posted an apology video in a trumpet to apologize for the remarks that "Wu Yifan slept with fans is a welfare" five years ago.
She said: "If I can't compensate for the Tomitakes, at least I can do it and stop disgusting everyone." ”
This is not the first time Ma Weiwei has apologized. In 2017, when the third season of "Strange Story" was broadcast, Ma Weiwei accused the program team of buying hot searches for the contestant Jiang Sida on Weibo, and scolded the program group for being eccentric.
It didn't take long for the marketing department to prove Jiang Sida's innocence. In the end, the farce ended with Ma Weiwei deleting the blog post and apologizing to Jiang Sida.
In the same year, Ma Weiwei was interviewed by Yi Lijing.
Ma Weiwei said: "Every time I see The Parrot Shi Hang cursing people on Weibo, I envy death. ”
Yi Lijing asked her: "Now you can't casually scold people on Weibo, making you feel a pain?" ”
Ma Weiwei quickly replied, "Of course." ”
Born in 1981 in a small village in Guizhou Province, Ma Weiwei was brought up by her grandparents and was a child who roamed the mountains and wilderness.
When she was seven years old, her parents took her to Guangdong to study. In the classroom, urban children whispered Cantonese and looked at the new students. When ma Weiwei introduced herself in Guizhou dialect, the children giggled as if they had discovered a new continent.
Ma Weiwei is very dark and wears myopic glasses of a few hundred degrees. She shrugged her thin shoulders, tugged at Hellokitty's pink shoulder straps with both hands, and looked down at the little white shoes her mother had bought for herself.
In physical education class, Ma Weiwei could not squeeze the slide, and could only take advantage of the fact that after the students came home from school, secretly ran to the playground to play, sometimes climbed up and did not dare to come down, tangled on it for a long time, and then slowly climbed down the ladder.
Later, the male students in the class invented a "new way to play". They hung Ma Weiwei's school bag in the men's toilet. The louder Ma Weiwei cried outside the men's restroom, the more they laughed.
Ma Weiwei begged them to return the book to her. They spit on Ma Weiwei, scolded her as a "country boy", and then threw her books out of the men's toilet one by one. While Ma Weiwei was crying and crouching on the ground to pick up books, they slipped out of the men's restroom and threw away Ma Weiwei's school bag.
The school bag lay quietly in the trash like a deflated balloon. Ma Weiwei took her bag home and cried while washing.
Such a prank is staged almost every few days.
Jumping bands are especially popular in primary schools, and students do not bring Ma Weiwei to play. They really can't find a little partner, so they will let Ma Weiwei join as a leather band pillar.
Ma Weiwei's feet were sore every time she stood, and she thought to herself, "I'm so tired, I want to jump once." ”
By junior high school, Ma Weiwei's Cantonese level was still half a bucket of water, but her Mandarin proficiency was much more.
As soon as the classmates around her changed, Ma Weiwei found that she could also make friends normally like a child in the city.
Teachers like to order students to read essays aloud. Ma Weiwei does not like to write essays and is often lazy. Once when she was clicked, Ma Weiwei stood up, read an essay impromptuly in front of her white paper, and was praised by the teacher.
At this time, Ma Weiwei found that she was not so bad.
At the age of eighteen, Ma Weiwei was admitted to the Law School of Sun Yat-sen University. Ma Weiwei's height of 169 cm is particularly tall among southern girls, attracting many suitors.
Once, a boy ran downstairs to Ma Weiwei's dormitory, played the guitar and confessed, and howled all night.
The roommate said, There's another silly fork, it's not that doesn't mess with flies! ”
Ma Weiwei was anxious to hear this, jumped down from the top bunk, grabbed the warm pot filled with boiling water on the ground, ran to the balcony, and smashed it directly downstairs.
Thanks to not hitting people, but after this incident, Ma Weiwei's suitors were obviously less.
In her junior year, Ma Weiwei joined the school debate team on the grounds that: "The school team can live in an air-conditioned room, take a hot bath, and get extra points for the exam. ”
When she was in graduate school, the coach of the school debate team kept telling her, "You are very talented." After that, Ma Weiwei signed up for the National College Debate Competition, and after three rounds of assessment and interview, entered the team.
She was quickly promoted to the main force of the team, leading the team all the way through the barriers, winning the "full defense" championship for CUHK.
A year later, Ma Weiwei went out again and led CUHK into the International College Debate Tournament against Taiwan's Shih Hsin University led by Huang Zhizhong.
Huang Zhizhong's first meeting with Ma Weiwei was not pleasant. Huang Zhizhong felt that Ma Weiwei was smiling very fakely and hated it to death. Ma Weiwei also did not like Huang Zhizhong, she taunted: "By his middle division thunder overturned." ”
In the debate, Ma Weiwei smiled and squinted at her opponent, and her voice was very sweet. Under the gentle trap, coldly grasp the opponent's key point and continue to attack. The name "Gentle Knife" was born
After a few rounds, Ma Weiwei defeated huang Zhizhong, the "treasure island debater", and became famous in a battle.
After graduating from graduate school, Ma Weiwei worked as an English teacher at a training institution in Guangzhou, specializing in teaching level 4 and 6 writing.
It wasn't long before Ma Weiwei quit her job and started a business. During this time, she was invited to participate in various national and international debate competitions, serving as a judge, and occasionally participating in exhibition competitions.
Later, Ma Weiwei's father was diagnosed with advanced stomach cancer. In order to take care of her father, Ma Weiwei gave up her work and stayed at home for a month.
At this time, she found out that her husband, who had been married for six years, had cheated.
Her husband begged her for forgiveness, and her husband repeatedly did ideological work for her, and Ma Weiwei almost shook her determination to divorce. Until an elder who knew her well advised her: "Woman, a lifetime of forbearance and forbearance will pass, I have calculated for you, you will live a very hard life without him." ”
The elder's determined tone made her make up her mind: "If you see death and I dare not divorce, I will divorce, I want you to see, this marriage, I can not be separated, this death, I can not send." ”
Ma Weiwei fought a divorce lawsuit for half a year before returning to singleness.
In 2014, she signed up for "Strange Story", and "Gentle Knife" re-emerged.
Ma Weiwei's sharp views and frequent golden sentences in "Strange Story" easily won the love of the judges and the audience. Many of the views are also very impactful now.
"If you want to fight for a man in the way of a career, you have to do two jobs, receive the money of a chicken, and provide a double-fight service."
"You have no love, you need companionship, then you have a dog!"
"A woman is a rib in a man's body, and you talk to your organs about privacy?"
Ma Weiwei is known as the "ticket swiping machine", even if it is a 10-90 score, she can turn defeat into victory.
Friend Qiu Chen commented on her: "There are often victories and losses on the field, but in the face of her, there is always a feeling that even if she wins, it is like losing. When playing, we will listen to what the opponent says, while thinking about how to refute, Ma Weiwei can talk about even the opponent has forgotten what to do, she is a stress player, the stronger the opponent, the more excited she is. ”
Without any suspense, Ma Weiwei won the bking of the first season of "Strange Story".
That year, the Jiangsu Radio and Television Exhibition Competition was held in the South Trial Lecture Hall. Fans from all over the country came to Nanjing to watch the game, and even Korean fans came to see Ma Weiwei.
There were more than a thousand fans at the scene, and the Southern Trial had to dispatch police from the Nanjing Municipal Public Security Bureau and the Security Bureau to maintain order at the scene.
Because of the order of the tickets, fans and security guards clashed. A female fan cried and beat up the security guard, shouting: "I want to go in to see Ma Weiwei!" ”
In 2015, during the filming of the second season of "Strange Story", Ma Weiwei rushed to record, and her high heels were too high, and she accidentally wrestled in the dressing room. Before the crowd could react, Zhou Xuanyi immediately picked her up and drove her to the hospital.
Ma Weiwei thought to herself, "Old Zhou, so strong." ”
The two have been friends for ten years, but Ma Weiwei feels that this physical contact is something special. During his hospitalization, Zhou Xuanyi finished recording the program every day, and then ran to the hospital to take care of her, help her apply medicine, and accompany her to do rehabilitation. Zhou Xuanyi's carefulness made Ma Weiwei's heart move, and she felt that she could not bear it any longer.
"Old Zhou, I seem to have some idea about you."
Zhou Xuanyi said, "Me too." Later, he mentioned this relationship on the show: "Many philosophical people don't believe in love, and now I believe it." One of the things I admire most about Ma Weiwei is that she appreciates the fact that I am not appreciated by everyone. ”
Ma Weiwei was a little hesitant about the relationship. Both are contestants in "Strange Story" and have a lot of mutual friends, and if they break up, it will be very embarrassing.
Zhou Xuanyi said: "Let's sneak together for half a year first, if it is appropriate, we will open up with friends." If the situation is not good, then when we casually make an appointment, everyone is still a good brother, and we will not tell others. ”
Ma Weiwei patted Lao Zhou's shoulder hard: "Good idea! ”
Ma Weiwei couldn't help but share her happiness with her friends. Within a week, the whole company knew they were getting better.
In August 2015, Ma Weiwei revealed their relationship at the Malaysian Star Debate. The scene was full of blessings, and the two embraced and laughed.
Soon after, Zhou Xuanyi's ex-wife Xu Qi went online and posted a post pointing out that Zhou Xuanyi had cheated on him, but did not specify who Xiao San was. Ma Weiwei fell into the "little three storms".
She did not know how to respond for a while, and under the pressure of public opinion, depression and anxiety both broke out. She lost sleep at night, her hair fell off one by one, and at one point she suddenly suffered from panic attack, couldn't catch her breath, and went to the emergency department.
Zhou Xuanyi was anxious and afraid, in order to take care of Ma Weiwei, he even canceled the plan to go abroad, indefinitely postponing the evaluation of the title of deputy high-level official.
Ma Weiwei wanted to scold Xu Qi, but after half a year of patience, she felt that she could not bear it. In the Spring Festival of 2016, she wrote on Weibo: "I have completely given up the burden of idols, and will randomly spray back in the coming year to feel comfortable." ”
Zhou Xuanyi said: "Ma Weiwei has idol baggage, I have the burden of family ugliness that cannot be exaggerated, and the other party is precisely on this point, so that he will do everything to frame the slander." ”
In order to help Ma Weiwei reverse the trend of public opinion, Zhou Xuanyi added: "My ex-wife desperately used trumpets to spread rumors, and even many friends who did not know me who interacted with me on Weibo were also harassed. ”
Ma Weiwei took advantage of the victory to pursue and declared war on Xu Qi: "It is better to tear two joys, take off the clothes, show privacy, let everyone be happy, I will write an open letter to Miss Xu Qi now, we will tear it in front of our faces, don't play yin." ”
"The real fact is that you and Zhou Xuanyi divorced because of the breakdown of your relationship, which is clearly written on your divorce agreement, and you are only angry that I and Zhou Xuanyi show affection and deliberately retaliate."
Xu Qi did not respond, she cleared all the Weibo.
Ma Weiwei was even happier when she saw it: "Everyone can go and see, who deleted all the Microblogs in one second?" Who is weak-minded? Really so reasonable, delete what Weibo? ”
Fans think Xu Qi is weak-hearted. They organized to besiege Xu Qi, scolded Xu Qi for framing Ma Weiwei, greeted Xu Qi's entire family, and speculated that Xu Qi cheated after marriage or asked for a gun to cause pregnancy.
There are even fans who run to Xu Qi's unit to make trouble, pointing at Xu Qi's nose and scolding her for not having a face, how not to die.
In the same year, Xiao Gna exposed Wu Yifan's deception of feelings and stepped on countless boats.
Ma Weiwei saw it and posted a joke: "Is there any better fan benefit than star sleeping powder?" ”
"I think the star sleeping powder is a black spot, hurry up and close me."
On June 21, at the "Black and White Planet" press conference, as the host of this new variety show, Ma Weiwei said: "Wu Yifan is a living bodhisattva, and sleeping powder is equivalent to a big leader going to a small restaurant to eat, an absolute people-friendly move." ”
Ma Weiwei's remarks made netizens more determined, and Xiao Gna wanted to go crazy: "Thousands of people want to sleep Wu Yifan, how old are you xiao gna?" "She was scolded by netizens as a slut.
A year later, Jiang Sida and Xiao Xiao entered the final of "Strange Story", and Xiao Xiao won. Jiang Sida's fans were not convinced, went to Xiao Xiao's Weibo, and asked him if he was ashamed.
Jiang Sida was afraid of further expanding the negative impact, and sent a long response, saying that Xiao Xiao's strength was stronger, promotion should be deserved, and people should be able to lose.
Ma Weiwei left a message in the comment area: "The person in charge of the marketing department is Jiang Sida's sister, and his hot searches are all bought. “
"Jiang Sida spoke at the scene of The Strange Flower Saying twice as long as Xiao Xiao and Yan Rujing combined, and Lao Tzu sat down in a hurry."
Huang Zhizhong and Qiu Chen liked Ma Weiwei's comments. Xiao Xiao's fans became even more angry, running to Jiang Sida's Weibo to scold him for "not being able to lose" and "having a backstage", and personally attacking his sexual orientation.
Jiang Sida did not refute it, he comforted everyone in the fan base and asked the fans to "keep quiet".
Later, after the voice of the audience and the investigation of the marketing department, Jiang Sida's innocence was proved.
Fans found out that Ma Weiwei was deceiving people and began to turn the muzzle of the gun to scold her. Under pressure, Ma Weiwei deleted the Weibo that scolded Jiang Sida.
"I apologize to Star, but also accept his unforgiveness. It sounds cold, but what it actually means is that when the damage is too great, I have no right to force others to forgive me. “
After the Jiang Sida storm, Ma Weiwei was interviewed by Yi Lijing.
Yi Lijing asked her: "Now you can't casually scold people on Weibo, making you feel a pain?" Ma Weiwei replied, "Of course." ”
After that, she rarely scolded people on the Internet, but became the object of scolding.
In 2018, Huang Zhizhong said in the fifth season of "Strange Story": "Ma Weiwei is afraid to go to places with many people, because as long as she imagines that there may be one or two people in the crowd who have scolded her on the Internet, she will feel very painful." ”
Ma Weiwei said: "I feel like everyone is smiling at me, I'm afraid to know what they're thinking. ”
Because of long-term antidepressant drugs, Ma Weiwei gained more than twenty pounds. She hugged Huang Zhizhong and cried on the show, and even the opening link that she was best at in her daily life could not be carried out.
After the show aired, the audience continued to scold her: "How can you come out and sell misery, you deserve it." ”
After this Wu Yifan storm, she was scolded even more miserably.
She came out to apologize: "I used to be a divorced woman with nothing, it was women who helped me, I dare not be ungrateful." The only thing I can hate is myself, women give me love, I ignore it, what should I rely on to accept a stupid and arrogant self. ”
From the countryside of Guizhou to the primary school in Guangdong, the students hated Ma Weiwei.
Only one person was willing to play with her. Ma Weiwei cherished this friend.
The two of them came home from school together, and friends taught her how to interact with people, so that Ma Weiwei would not always be bullied.
Sometimes Ma Weiwei did not open her mind, and her friend would get angry and slap her, looking like she hated iron not steel.
Ma Weiwei was extremely aggrieved and opened her mouth to fight back.
But she was afraid of losing her only friend, and her half-open mouth closed and she said nothing.
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Author | Song Juhan