Aquarius's attitude towards feelings

Although the water bottle does not seem to be a sensitive and delicate person, the water bottle's capture of subtle changes in emotional details is quite accurate. Aquarius suddenly realized that he, who never seemed to concede defeat, always seemed to be losing.

Because you never admit defeat emotionally, then in other aspects you will definitely suffer losses. For example, if the water bottle breaks up with a person, in the house they share, there are a bunch of valuable and worthless things, and they have a dog together, and the water bottle will most likely come to a sentence, "I don't want anything else, I take the dog away"...

Or maybe Aquarius has a big conflict with a colleague, Aquarius does not think about how to squeeze the other party away, but will calculate when he will leave.

Contradictions have been made, contradictions have been made, and the anger that should have come out has also come out, but there is not so much deep hatred. But if the atmosphere becomes strange because of this, there is always someone behind the scenes pointing fingers, and the work becomes unpleasant because of this. It is not because of this person who has a contradiction with himself, but because this environment is no longer suitable for him, so he has to leave.

The water bottle will rarely go behind its back to make a stumbling block to set up some person to achieve its own goals, but will willingly bear the consequences of its own decisions. This consequence cannot be called a loss, because the water bottle is not a decision made by someone or something, but a choice that follows the heart. And the most feared thing in the heart is to suppress and feel indebted.

In the vision of the water bottle, there is no way to have your own temper and bad habits, and the other party's personality and bad habits are inevitable. If there is a contradiction, it will be resolved, if there is an opinion, it will be expressed, and if there is a gap, it will communicate, even if it is two sentences and there is no speech for a day, this is also a form of expression. It's like a lot of times you really don't have much of an opinion on the other person, or you have to argue about a solution. It's just a simple bad mood, plus these days to see the other party is not happy, quarrelsome two sentences what's wrong?

I see that you are not happy and you also see that I am not happy, so I will vent all my resentment, vent it, and think that I can still be there, but when I get along again, don't carry the previous resentment, this is no problem. If we don't finish venting, we don't communicate, don't want to fight for a solution at this time, talk well after venting, and discuss how to avoid this situation in the future, which is no problem. Communication several times found that can not be solved, either adapt to this way of getting along, or elsewhere, good to get together and disperse who does not hate anyone, no one is right and who is wrong, that is, two people are not suitable, this is even more faulty.

The key point is that Aquarius never thinks about who to possess, who to change, who to conquer. In the same way, he hoped that the other party would think the same way. It can be said that in the process of getting along, I restrain a little for the sake of the other party's happiness, but it must not be said that because you hate this, I have to change.

Don't say anything, because you have changed something for me, I have to be grateful, and then repay you, and change something to please you.

It is not because Aquarius is selfish and does not know gratitude, but he will always feel that this change is not willing, this kind of giving is more like a kind of self-pleasing, like how great he is, how much he has paid, and turning his head to ask for the corresponding return. It doesn't feel like a lot of enjoyment, it's going to feel stressful. As mentioned above, the most feared thing in Aquarius's heart is to suppress and feel indebted. He needs equal feelings, equal relationships, equal status, and the first to be out of balance is often the other party.

Don't try to use words or behavior to keep the water bottle, but use your temperament aura charm to attract the water bottle.

As the first paragraph says, although the water bottle does not seem to be a sensitive and delicate person, the water bottle's capture of subtle changes in emotional details is quite accurate.