Teach you the 2 unspoken rules of human nature that help you mix society like a fish, and use it to mix!
1: You don't listen to what other people say, the key to mixing society is your work identity and what benefits you can bring to them, when you have these 2 things, others decide what attitude to treat you.
Therefore, in the past, what others said about the network is the money pulse is extremely wrong, and this statement does not know how many people waste time to engage in social interaction and delay their own opportunities for promotion.
The really valuable network is that you are good, your network relationship can be done, you are good, your network relationship is to help you, you have the ability, your network relationship can make you more capable.
If you have nothing, nothing, then even if there are 500 people in your circle of friends, I believe you will not find a person who is willing to help you.
Get used to asking you about your job when they first meet you so that they can decide what attitude to treat you.
And you also have to conform to this human psychology, and try to talk about the nature of your work as much as possible in the conversation, because he wants to understand this at this time.
When others think you have a skill that you can use in the future, your network can be established.
2: No matter who you network with, you must follow the unspoken rules of giving more gifts and less preaching.
As long as you are polite and diligent, you will subtly influence others when you speak again.
If you are stingy and stingy and don't understand etiquette, you talk to others and think that you are tearing down the stage for him.
But many people have gone against the grain, and only a small number of people know how to conform to this unspoken rule of human nature to become more and more prosperous!
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