Seriously, for a divorced single woman with a male baby, what I am particularly afraid of is the Spring Festival and relatives group dinner, many people may say that since you are afraid to go, you don't go. But there are many things that are involuntary, I am afraid to go, but I have to go, why? Because I had no ability, did not have my own house, and after the divorce, I took my son to live in my parents' house.
Usually, our mother and son get along very well with our parents, my son and I go out to work and school in the morning, and at noon, my son will come to the canteen of my unit to eat together. In the evening, when we return from work and school, we can eat cooked vegetables and hot rice prepared by our parents. But during the Spring Festival, when my son and I had dinner with my parents and my uncles, I felt extremely embarrassed.
A bunch of people sit down, when the dishes are ready, it is time to inquire about each other's parents' short or even expose the shortcomings, for example, in the early years, the daughter of the uncle's family got married and got a certificate, there was no banquet, the aunt and uncle will chase after the uncle and ask, you are a daughter, why don't you even put the banquet when you get married? Is the son-in-law's family so poor? The uncle had to shake his head and sigh, the daughter is older, she said not to put wine, just travel to get married, I can't take her. My cousin is indeed a relatively cold personality, since she was a child, large and small family gatherings, she has not participated much, so she did not come to participate in such a New Year's relatives group dinner, all the embarrassment was left to her parents.
In the past, I used to accompany my parents to such dinners every year, and now I live in my parents' house and there is no reason not to attend. The result was really as I expected, and the aunt sighed and said, "Why do you want to divorce?" The second uncle then said, "Find another person while you are young!" The aunt quickly interfaced: "One marriage is not good, what else do you want to get married twice?" "I just looked down at the meal and didn't say a word, but I heard my mother's sigh, I hope this meal will end soon...