Hello everyone, I'm Mumu!
Lately I've been struggling with whether to live with my boyfriend! He has been in love with his boyfriend for more than 2 years, and recently he suddenly made a request, "We have been talking for 2 years, it is time to live together, right?" You don't want to think about it. ”
I don't know how many people like me have not lived with the opposite sex in their lives?
Whether or not to live with your boyfriend before you get married. What was it like to live together for the first time?
Annoyed, I asked my girlfriends and colleagues around me.
Colleague Lilith gave the advice that it was long possible to live together. Now that the boyfriends have brought it up, take it boldly and take the opportunity to take a closer look at the other half.
Lilith and her husband, in love for less than 1 year, lived together. After living together for 2 years, they were married.
"It's normal to live together before marriage." Only by living together in advance can you understand his habits. Only then can I really know if the two of you can get by together.
Love is the romance of the wind and snow, and cohabitation is the life of chicken flying dog jumping. Don't try, wait until you're really married, and you want to regret it' that it's really too late! ”
Lilith's freedom, I can't learn. But that's the right thing to say. But the cohabitation experience of a good girlfriend made me a little afraid.
Girlfriend Xiaofang, who talked with her boyfriend for 3 years before living together. Before they moved together, they stuck to that red line and didn't have a relationship. The boyfriend has been booing her warmly. Housework is done together, cooking together, playing games together, shopping together. After living together for less than a week, the two had a relationship.
After the relationship occurred, the relationship between the two changed. The boyfriend's "true face" began to show, not doing housework, and spending the whole day in the world of games. When I got back from work, I lay down on the couch and started brushing videos and calling for takeout.
Being together every day, over time will lose the sense of freshness. Small contradictions accumulate to a certain day and erupt. Xiao Fang quarreled with his boyfriend several times, but the boyfriend still did not change his lazy personality. Even said, "You've all slept with me, and wonder how I'm going to coax you?" ”
This sentence completely broke Xiao Fang's heart, and finally the two broke up. Many sisters around me said that Xiao Fang did not know people clearly and met a scumbag. However, her boyfriend and her love for 3 years, I am in the eyes, the man is also sincere and sincere, how can the ending end be like this?
At present, the problem I am most afraid of is also this, if after living together, I find that my boyfriend is not suitable for me. Then at this time I will definitely choose to break up. I am not a character who can be hidden.
After the breakup, if you find another boyfriend, will you mind me and live with other men?
Let's open up, how many men in China don't mind that their girlfriends have lived with others? Maybe you don't mind it, but your heart is more or less diaphragm.
If it's a girl, it's the same. If I knew my boyfriend had lived with other women, whether it was a month, two months, or a year, I would have minded!
The reason is understood, that is, you can't control your mood.
So everyone thinks, recently my boyfriend made a request to live together, should I agree? Since they all went with the idea of getting married, did they agree to it?
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