Zhang Ailing once said a word: I love you, for your happiness, I am willing to give up everything, including you.
Many women will pursue the love of "moths to the fire", even if they give everything, even if they are all wounded, they will make you happy. Women are mostly irrational in love, the humility of love, the righteousness of love.
Maybe they do this, thinking that they are born for love, die for love, and even if life is short, it is still vigorous. But in doing so, it is the scumbags who are fulfilled, and the women themselves are only scarred.
Zhang Ailing truly loves Hu Lancheng, loves to the dust, loves to "because I understand, so compassionate." When she learned that Hu Lancheng had other women, she also went to him again and again, hoping that he would turn back. Will come up with a large amount of savings to help him live a better life. Even for this man, to follow him in the chaotic world of war, will give his lover money to beat the fetus.
However, what Zhang Ailing got, in Hu Lancheng's autobiography, never gave her a word of praise, but said that she was a cruel woman. To fulfill the love of men, women are not great, but stupid to be thorough. Such a life can be said to be worthless, and whoever looks at it must sigh.
What men say, just listen to them. The so-called love, if there is no long-term companionship, there is no two-way rush, then such a man can be classified as a "scumbag", not to mention paying for it, to complete his happiness, is to give him a penny is a waste.
To love someone, you must be happy, and the other party can give reciprocal love. Love someone, don't let yourself get all the tears and hurt, the person you love, the minimum ability is to protect the woman you love.
Wei Yu likes the depth of field, as the saying goes, women chase men in the layer of yarn, she caught up with this man, but found that life after marriage is full of pain. Don't be deceived by the poisonous chicken soup, women must not use the perfection to retaliate for cheating, I am the best case.
All I want is a vigorous love.
When The light rain and the depth of field were in love, I never heard him say "I love you". After marriage, the two people also achieved "respect as guests", and the depth of field also achieved a duty as a husband, but in the heart of The Rain, he always felt that there was a sense of distance from this man.
Later, Wei Yu learned that The depth of field had loved a girl before getting married. She was smart and beautiful, but her family was too ordinary, and in the eyes of her deep-of-field parents, this woman was not eligible to enter their house at all. It is said that Jingshen's parents gave the girl a large amount of money and arranged a good job for her father and brother, and the girl gave up Jingshen to marry someone else.
The depth of field was painful for a while, as if it was put down, wanted to open, and then chose the light rain and entered the marriage. Wei Yu's family is well-off and kind,As a wife, it is the best choice for the Jing family.
The two people have been married for more than two years, And Wei Yu just knew that she was pregnant, and she had not yet told the news to The Depth of Field, but the Depth of Field told The Depth of Field: "Xiao Ke came to find me, sorry, I can't forget her."
The depth of field didn't even bother to make up lies, and directly gave a fatal blow to the light rain. So, Wei Yu said, "She is divorced? Want to renew the frontier with you? ”
Depth of Field nodded and he said, "I know, I'm sorry for you, I can give you anything else, as long as I have it, I'll give it to you."
Wei Yu said: "I don't want anything, as long as you can be happy, I will be satisfied." Her heart was full of hatred, because she had a plan, so she chose to give up. The woman named Xiao Ke was quickly paired with the man, and the light rain was light on the surface, but in fact, her heart was like a knife.
Xiao Ke and Wei Yu had also met, this woman was not as good as the depth of field said, she was even a little vicious. The first sentence when I saw the light rain was: "What is the use of a good family life, it is not impossible to keep a man's heart." The light rain does not argue with her, such a woman, one day will tear the disguise, when the time comes, the depth of field will regret. And what Wei Yu wanted to do was to hide the child and never let him see his own flesh and bones.
Xiao Ke, at the insistence of the depth of field, successfully married the past, she wore a famous brand, posed with arrogance, did nothing, and the parents of the depth of field always remembered the light rain and often complained to her.
The light rain was actually quite happy, because the more high-profile the woman was, the more dangerous it would be. Jingshen's parents were angry that they couldn't do it, and the family made a fuss about chicken flying dog jumping. It is difficult for Xiao Ke to integrate into such a big family, always coaxing the depth of field to take her out of the old house, and does not want to live under the eyes of her in-laws and in-laws.
Goodbye depth of field, when is the retribution for wrongs.
In order to get more money, Xiao Ke revealed his greedy nature. The light rain informed the parents of the depth of field of the little greedy behavior, and soon the woman was swept out of the house. Wei Yu also found Xiao Ke and said to her: "A good family is still useful, understand the heart, and will not value money more than love." Now that I'm pregnant with a child with depth of field, you say, who among us can have the last laugh. ”
Wei Yu deliberately let the Parents of the Jing family know that the depth of field was forced by the pressure of their parents, and goodbye Tou Yu. Depth of Field said, "Even if I and Xiao Ke can't continue, I don't love you." I know what you have done, and saying that you have fulfilled me is just a trick to get away with it."
He did not recognize this child, nor did he want to continue the frontier with the light rain. Jing Shen said: "I am single now, I have time to choose a good partner, I can't find a simple girl, I will not get married."
Wei Yu wanted to become Mrs. Jing again through her mother-in-law, but Jing Shen said: "In marriage, there is no retention at all, so she pushes me to other women, such a wife, not qualified, even if she is pregnant with my child, I only recognize the child, not the mother of the child."
This light rain does not know what to say, in love, the person who moved his heart first, the other party determined that this is evidence of not loving enough. After giving birth to this child, The light rain did not get the love of the husband, and the adults on both sides also made the relationship very stiff because of the child's love and hatred.
Originally thought that it was a match made in heaven, it could promote the relationship between the two families and have more help in the career. In this way, the relatives can't do it, it's also embarrassing to be a lover, and the problem of the child's belonging is still full of gunpowder.
Wei Yu always said that Xiao Ke used his feelings as a chip, and he was not a person in the bureau. I wanted men to hate the woman they once loved the most, so they chose to fulfill it. But if you want to go back to the past, it is impossible. After calculating the other party, in the other party's heart, there is only hatred left.
Women, when men cheat, don't make choices lightly.
If you really love this man, don't quit easily, and don't directly choose to be perfect. Instead, try to save it as much as possible, so that the man knows who loves him the most in the world.
If you think carefully, want to retaliate, or let the man die, it will become a very embarrassing state between each other. If you become a man's wife, you should remind the man of what responsibilities he should pay to women.
To love a person, you must love to the end, if you do not love, do not enter the marriage, once you enter the marriage, you must be loyal to the marriage. There are only two reasons why men cheat, character problems and love is not deep enough.
Either way, it's not a good match. Women should not use revenge to make men submit. If you really want a divorce, you have to think it through.
When a woman truly loves a man, it is impossible to fulfill the man with other women. Stop listening to the cases on the Internet and stop being blinded by love.
Feelings need two people to maintain, and before entering marriage, you must know what he really thinks in his heart. You can spend more time cultivating feelings, if you really can't go into each other's heart, choose to let it go in time.
Although there is no perfect marriage in this world, there is no perfect lover, but in marriage two people are close to each other. If you can't do this, in fact, sooner or later, the feelings will have problems.
Don't listen to the deceitful people in romance novels, and don't take poisonous chicken soup as a life motto. Love yourself well, don't let yourself be hurt, don't hate, take revenge, be a quiet and calm woman, and keep a quiet time for yourself.
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