A beautiful girl after the 90s, when she met love, she devoted herself to this relationship, in order to form a happy family with her husband, she gave up a high-paying job with an annual salary of 600,000 yuan and chose to be a full-time wife.
A year later, they had a happy family and a particularly cute baby, but she couldn't be happy at all, and she often asked herself, what is all this about?
Narrator: (September Mom), Xiaomei (pseudonym)
Xiaomei is more than 20 years old this year, with a very good-looking face, and an enviable figure, so that more people envy her annual salary of 600,000 yuan, you can use the three words "Bai Fumei" to compare her, such an excellent girl, it is estimated that the people who chase her have to queue up tens of meters.
On her terms, you should find a handsome guy who is right at home, and spend the rest of her life happily together, but before she can meet a boy who is as good as her, her husband appeared, and she can only say that the fate is that you can't hide, Xiaomei and her husband have known each other for just one week, the two have established a romantic relationship, and after a month, they have become a formal couple.
Love came very quickly and suddenly, she did not have time to think about this relationship, the two people quickly flashed marriage, she also admitted that she really loves her husband, but also willing to pay for her husband himself.
Shortly after the two married, she became pregnant, and in order to take good care of her husband and the family, Xiaomei quit her high-paying job and decided to be a full-time wife, taking care of everything at home, so that her husband could feel the warmth of home every day.
Xiaomei husband is 5 years older than her, when the two met his husband has been in debt of more than 3 million, his husband also told her truthfully, Xiaomei said that her husband was particularly warm to her at that time, it was this warmth that made Xiaomei full of expectations for him, Xiaomei firmly believed that he had the ability to deal with the 3 million debts, so Xiaomei agreed to his marriage proposal.
Therefore, when the two of them got married, Xiaomei never mentioned the bride price at all, at that time she was ready for no bride price, but what surprised her was that her husband borrowed 300,000 yuan to their family in such a difficult situation, and married her into the door in a beautiful way.
Xiaomei knew his situation, she had never asked for these things from beginning to end, and Xiaomei had also asked his husband, why did he do this? Her husband said: "I am in debt, but this is my attitude of marrying you", Xiaomei was particularly touched when she heard this, she felt that her choice was right, he was worth entrusting his life.
What else does any woman ask for when she meets a man who treats her like this? In the future life will definitely give you the best, I think it should not only Be xiaomei who thinks so, maybe the girls under the sky will think the same as Xiaomei at this time, right?
But there will inevitably be some quarrels between husband and wife, they have had countless quarrels after marriage, and sometimes the quarrels are particularly fierce, but Xiaomei has never regretted marrying him.
Little sister's personality is very strong, when she encounters things, she belongs to the kind that does not leave a way back for herself, never accepts defeat, every quarrel between them is her husband who chooses to compromise, she is very patient with her, she usually loves to play a small sex, especially when pregnant, his husband gave her countless tolerance and love, so no matter how the two of them quarrel, Xiaomei never regrets marrying him.
Since Xiaomei gave birth to a child, her life with her husband has not been as harmonious as before, and her husband's love and tolerance for her has been much less, and she has gradually lost patience.
Xiaomei had also thought bitterly about why the two couples, who were originally very harmonious, had suddenly become what they were now, and she had also wondered if it was her own reason, but she couldn't figure out why her husband had become like this.
Since the marriage of Xiaomei husband busy with work, the burden of taking care of the children is all on her alone, in order to take the child she always feels physically and mentally exhausted, slowly she began to insomnia, often stay up until most of the night to sleep, in addition to her husband's concern for her is less and less, she feels that her spirit has reached the brink of collapse.
Since the birth of the child, her husband often came home late at night, and when he got home, he did not care about how his life was today, he slept upside down, and she did not know how to accept her husband who had changed his personality.
Now she misses the days when she was not married before, when she did not have to worry about family trivia, every day she simply knew how to make money, how to spend money after making money, she did not expect that after getting married and having children, it would be like this, and now compared with her former self, it is like the feeling of transforming from a white swan into an ugly duckling.
Before getting married, she always thought that after getting married, having a cute child, and then having a husband who loved herself, a family of three lived a plain life, she didn't expect that there would be so many unknown problems after marriage, and now she doesn't know what unknown problems will be waiting for her in the future.
Now she feels confused, does not know what the road will be like in the future, and does not know what new tests will wait for her in the future.
The more she thought about it, the more frightened she became, the more she thought about it, the more helpless she felt, and she often asked herself, what did she really want?
However, Xiaomei's mentality is still sunny, although she feels that her life is very confused now, she has not given up, she is also full of expectations for the future, she firmly believes that the current state is only temporary, and everything will be fine.
There is a saying that goes well, "A woman is weak, but a mother is just", since the birth of the child, no matter what kind of family situation she encounters, she has never bowed her head, she said that she did not do anything else, for the sake of the child to persevere, as long as there is my son, everything is not a problem for me.
Xiaomei's husband should also understand that the debt of 3 million yuan is not to mention, and there are wives and children in the family who rely on him alone to support, which is indeed not easy.
However, I think that no matter what the man is outside, don't put all his time and energy into it, leave a little bit for his family, this time the pain is not only you, but also your wife at home, she does not tell you does not mean that she is not in pain, do not tell you that it is completely for the sake of pain you, do not want you to pain more pain.
So men, no matter what difficulties they encounter, don't forget their wives at home, she supports everything in the family by herself, and there will be a lot of mental pressure, be nice to your wife, she is the only one who is willing to share everything with you.
Finally, I wish Xiaomei's husband to pay off the foreign debt as soon as possible, and I also wish Xiaomei and her baby happiness every day in the future, and I wish that the relationship between the two of them will soon return to the state before marriage.