●Author ╳Lin Wanyang ●Source public name ╳Wanyang woman
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The most popular person in these days is probably Gu Ailing.
Almost everyone in my circle of friends was talking about her. A friend of mine asked, how is it that suddenly, it seems that everyone envies Gu Ailing, is it because she has become a world champion? However, many people who have won the world championship?
However, Gu Ailing is indeed a little different.
To use a hot search entry about her on Weibo to describe it is - which window did God close for Gu Ailing?
Because, she is too versatile.
Underage won various international awards, known as "genius ski girl", at the same time, is still a bully, while skiing, while self-study, but also with close to full scores admitted to Stanford University; this is even if, as a result, in a variety of documentaries introducing her, we also learned that in addition to skiing but also good at various sports, such as running, basketball, etc., when studying, can drive other female classmates in the class to play basketball with her.
And then it looks so beautiful;
Then, we found that her mother, father, and grandparents were all high-level intellectuals, and all of them attended schools like Peking University, Stanford, and Harvard.
How to say it, Gu Ailing is the kind of all-round 360-degree no dead angle crushing excellent.
As a result, everyone only has envy for her, no jealousy, because jealousy is easy to occur when two people are not far apart, tiptoeing can be enough, encountering Gu Ailing, even tiptoeing is too lazy, even if it is to move a ladder, it is still a long distance; I don't want to compare with her in other aspects, because her shortest board is longer than other people's longboards.
There is no way but envy and liking.
Gu Ailing made me realize one thing - if you often feel that others are jealous of you, thinking that other people's dislike of you is due to "you are better than her", waking up so quickly is an illusion, because there is only one truth, that is, you are not good enough.
Those who stand at the top will only appreciate each other and be appreciated; only those who are still halfway up the mountain will beat each other up for a higher position.
So good that people can only look up, jealousy will naturally disappear. People will turn around and willingly admit and even dig into Gu Ailing's other shining points.
Therefore, some people envy Gu Ailing's original family; some people envy Gu Ailing's talent; some people envy Gu Ailing's self-discipline; and some people envy Gu Ailing's happiness...
But, to be honest, I don't envy Gu Ailing's talent at all, even though I know that talent is probably the most important reason why a person can live a heavier life than others.
What I envy most is the courage of Gu Ailing.
Gu Ailing participated in the free ski jumping competition, qualification and final I have seen it in its entirety, in fact, this is not the project she is best at, the second jump of the qualification, she has also made a major mistake, this project, there are indeed several players, more stable than her.
Therefore, when the first two jumps of the final are completed and she can get a medal no matter what, many people think that her last jump will be more conservative and dance a move that she can control more.
After the game, Gu Ailing also revealed in the interview that when the second jump was completed, she called her mother Gu Yan, and her mother also suggested that she jump 1440 at that time, so that she could get a silver medal anyway.
However, she herself insisted on jumping 1620, a move she had never publicly skipped before.
When I saw this, I was very shocked, because I was so envious of Gu Ailing's courage, she had the courage to give up [everything she has gained], and she would not play the so-called safety card for fear of losing.
It's really hard to get a guy to fight for [get], especially when she has nothing, but it's hard to get a guy to give up [what she gets], especially when she already has more than the vast majority of people.
Not only on the field, in fact, Gu Ailing's entire life is full of courage [not afraid of loss].
Many people envy Gu Ailing's family lineage, but this kind of thing is sometimes a help, and sometimes it is also a shackle.
I've asked myself more than once, if I had a family like Gu Ailing, would I choose the freestyle skiing program? No matter how many times I ask myself, the answer is "no."
Because I didn't have the courage to face the risks of [free skiing], I felt that sitting on everything I had and choosing a safer track was already a very good life.
Rich, beautiful, smart, self-disciplined, why go to the [free skiing] field, suffer all kinds of injuries, not to mention, this extreme sports, danger will happen at any time, when watching the game, from time to time there are athletes falling, the commentator said that there was once a top far mobilization at the age of 29 because of injury and died.
Gu Ailing, who participates in training and competitions every day, has heard and seen dangers, of course, far more than us ordinary people.
However, she still stood firmly and bravely on this track. It was as if she had never received anything, as if her every day was new and had to be repeated, as if nothing needed to be firmly held by her except freedom and pleasure.
I really envy Gu Ailing's courage to want to win, but accept [loss] at any time.
Because the older people are, the more they will find that courage is the most precious quality, but it is something that is farther and farther away from us - the more we have, the less courage we have, and in the end, when the mud and sand are all down, it is better to swallow the mud and sand mixed with rice into the stomach, and do not dare to throw away the bowl of rice in my hand and look at it elsewhere.
But Gu Ailing, having so much, is still fearless.
Maybe, maybe because she was growing up, she already understood that courage can make people lose a little, but it must also make people get more, she tried, so she was more determined.
And we who have not tried, nor dare to try, can only live as ordinary people, trying to chew out the courage of the return in the miracle of others.
Or, even a little bit of sweetness is enough to make tomorrow a little different.
Perhaps, this is the meaning of the existence of the movement.