People often say, "No rules, no squares." ”
But sometimes the rules are dead, but the people are alive.
Everyone has inconvenient times, and at this time, you need to be flexible.
But it is a pity that some people understand this truth and some people do not understand it.
There are even people who have paid with their lives for it.
The old man died suddenly in the bank
In 2013, a bizarre thing happened in Gaozhou, Guangzhou.
An old man died suddenly at the bank.
Bizarrely, when the doctor diagnosed it, it was opposed by the people around the old man.
At that time, the old man was lying in the bank lobby and was already dying.
The doctor has already arrived, and with the equipment, he will give the elderly on-site diagnosis and treatment.
But when the doctor first approached the old man, he was blocked by the people around him.
The people who blocked it were the families of the elderly, who refused to let the doctors touch the elderly.
Although the doctor was anxious in his heart, he could only sigh and shake his head when he saw that the family members had a tough attitude.
Soon after, someone asked the doctor back to the bank again.
The doctor looked at the old man lying on the ground and said regretfully:
"The old man has already stopped breathing, and the family is ready for the aftermath."
Because at the first examination, the old man was already dying.
After such a long time, the old man did not know when he had stopped breathing and lost the opportunity for treatment.
The doctor's words made the people at the scene start to talk.
Some people blame the bank for being unkind, and some people blame the family for malicious obstruction.
There were also people who looked puzzled, they really didn't know what was happening.
So why did the old man die suddenly in the bank?
Since the doctor was at the scene, why did the family block the treatment?
After the family heard the doctor's words, they began to make a big fuss on the spot, arguing that the bank would lose money.
This makes the doubting people even more confused.
Why are they making banks lose money?
What's going on in between?
One-sided words
The old man who died was named Deng Jinfang, who was more than 70 years old at the time.
Before his death, the old man was already seriously ill and could only rely on drugs to maintain his illness every day.
In order to help the elderly treat their illness, the family spent all the family's money and carried a lot of foreign debts.
Despite this, the old man's illness did not get better.
This left the old man's children at a loss.
Just as they were trying to raise money, the old man called his children to the bed and said weakly:
"I know that I have spent all my family's savings on my illness, I used to save some savings, you go to the bank to withdraw it, more or less can reduce a lot of burden." 」
After saying this, the old man slowly took out a passbook from his pocket and handed it to his children.
The children quickly resulted in the passbook, opened it to see that the old man had saved more than 20,000 yuan.
This is an immediate solution, because the money can keep the family going for a long time.
Early the next morning, the sons and daughters arrived at the bank with their passbooks.
I thought I could quickly withdraw the money to buy medicine for my father, but I didn't expect an accident.
At that time, the children knew that it was troublesome to take money for others, so they brought all the documents of their fathers, including the household registration book and identity card.
Even the hospital issued a serious illness certificate, the children also brought it.
But when it came time to withdraw the money, it was rejected by the bank.
And the old man's son, when interviewed after the old man's death, seemed to tell the situation at that time.
According to the old man's son:
At that time, the bank asked them to go to the village committee to issue a certificate.
They issued a certificate and then asked them to go to the public security bureau to issue a certificate.
In the end, they went to the public security bureau to open a certificate, and in the end the bank only changed the name of the old man.
This completely angered the family of the old man, who was angry at the bank on the spot:
"I came to get money from my father, but you changed the name of the office, and the money had to be taken by myself!"
According to the old man's son, the lobby manager heard the noise and rushed over to solve the problem.
He first asked the old man how much money he had in his passbook, and when he learned the amount, the expression on his face turned to impatience.
He even said a lot of cynicism.
"He said to me strongly: Won't you borrow money and take out loans? Unless you get money here, you have to take it yourself, and you can't do it yourself. ”
When the old man's son looked back at the lobby manager's words, he was trembling with anger.
Later, the old man's son said that the money was to treat his father, but he did not expect the lobby manager's attitude to be even worse:
"Pull people in the car, pull the pillow off, just come over and take a picture."
The lobby manager's words made the family extremely angry, but in order to withdraw money, he finally carried his father to the bank.
After the old man was carried into the bank, the lobby manager has been grinding and rubbing and not handling.
It wasn't until the old man finally died that the lobby manager withdrew the money.
Although the old man's son was extremely resentful, this was only his one-sided statement after all, and the course of events still needed to be considered.
So what's going on?
The truth of the matter
Later, under the supervision of the bank, the truth of the matter was restored.
At that time, the name of the old man's ID card did have an error.
In order to be able to confirm the identity of the elderly, it is necessary to have proof from the public security bureau and the village committee according to the regulations.
At that time, the staff of the bank told the family of the elderly all the required materials at one time.
Moreover, the family members of the elderly did not mention the fact that the elderly were seriously ill throughout the whole process.
As for why the withdrawal was refused in the end, the bank also gave an explanation.
It turned out that when withdrawing money, the bank learned that the old man's passbook was passwordless.
According to the regulations, this situation must be present in person, and if it is taken to the family of the elderly at that time, the bank's funds will not be safe.
As for whether the lobby manager said something inappropriate, bank monitoring also gave the answer.
According to the monitoring, it can be clearly seen that the attitude of the lobby manager at that time was indeed not very good, but he did not say the words of pulling out the needle and lifting people.
But there was nothing wrong with it, he did say the word to borrow money.
Later, the bank side also said that it is true that the work done by their own side is not enough, but they also act according to the rules.
And the bank has door-to-door service, but the family of the elderly did not say that the elderly were seriously ill, so there was such a ridiculous thing.
Under the bank, the events after the old man was carried into the bank were also restored.
At that time, the old man was indeed carried into the bank.
But the lobby manager did not rub as the family said, but was particularly positive.
And it took less than 10 minutes to withdraw the money from the beginning.
It follows that the family is deliberately exaggerating the truth of the matter in order to be able to claim compensation.
04 Whose fault is it?
Logically, the money has also been taken, and the family should quickly take the old man back.
But what happened after that surprised everyone.
At that time, after the family got the money, they suddenly asked the bank to compensate for the lost work costs and claim 10,000 yuan.
Such unreasonable demands were naturally ignored by the bank, and the family members slapped the glass of the counter hard, and finally went to the door to make a big fuss.
The old man lay in bed the whole time and was ignored.
From the monitoring, it can be seen that perhaps the elderly receive emotional influences, and the whole person's breathing is getting weaker and weaker.
The first to observe the situation was the bank staff, who also immediately called the emergency number.
First aid arrived quickly, but the family did everything they could to stop the ambulance at the exit.
And he also scolded the doctor.
In order to treat the patient, the doctor had to get out of the car and walk into the bank, but was stopped by the family.
The old man's son even almost moved his hand in order to stop it.
But the doctor still worried about the old man's body, and then returned to the bank, but found that the old man's pupils had dilated.
It turned out that when the family made a big fuss at the bank, the old man had already died.
Speaking of which, whose fault must have been very obvious, but it was anxious, and there was a follow-up to the matter.
indemnify
After the old man's death, the family not only did not stop, but also made more fierce trouble.
The old man's son even made 3 requests:
First they demanded 400,000 reparations from the banks;
The second is the bank to take care of the father's affairs;
In the end, they actually asked the lobby manager to accompany the funeral.
It is worth mentioning that the family members did not suffer because of the death of the old man throughout the whole process, and even the tears were not left.
After these requests were rejected, the family actually bought yellow paper and began to burn it in the lobby.
There is no doubt that this has seriously affected the work of banks.
Finally, in order to be able to make the big thing small and the small, the head of the bank compensated the family for 130,000 yuan.
The lobby manager was also punished and forcibly suspended by the bank for investigation.
Only then did the family stop messing around.
In fact, who is the culprit who caused the tragedy, compared to many people already have the answer.
However, things are all two-sided, at least not to say that either side is completely irresponsible.
The saying that there are no rules and no square circles is true.
But in the face of human feelings, at least you can change the rules appropriately.
If the lobby manager could be more patient at that time and fully understand the situation of the elderly, there would naturally be a door-to-door service behind.
In this way, the old man will not be carried to the bank, and naturally he will not die.
But the family is not innocent either.
If they had not blocked the hospital's treatment, which seriously affected the time of treatment, the elderly may have turned the crisis into safety.
But it was too late to say anything, and the old man had already passed away.
I believe that at the moment of death, the old man's heart is also uneasy.
After all, the family was so noisy in the hospital that they did not pay any attention to his condition.
epilogue:
In fact, it is still that sentence:
"Rules are set by man, and man is alive."
In the face of the law, it may be necessary to be unforgiving, but in the face of some rules, it is still necessary to learn to be flexible.
After all, there are not only rules in the world, but also feelings.
After all, the rules are also for the convenience of the people.
In the face of life, some rules will seem worthless.
But from another point of view, greed is also the main culprit in this matter.
For the sake of greed, the family members actually regard the old man's life as nothing.
Finally the old man died, what is the use of asking for so much money?
How much money can be exchanged for the life of the old man?
Hopefully, everyone will understand this and make this kind of thing less.
After all, affection is priceless.
Whose fault do you think it is that the old man died suddenly in the bank?
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