New Year's Day with children to participate in the class reunion, a good class reunion, hard to become a child's talent show, every child is the piano, chess, painting, singing and dancing performances can come, have to sigh, now the children are really too powerful.
If I hadn't been married and hadn't had children, I would have suspected that these children wouldn't have to study. But the truth is that today's children are not only amazingly talented, but also rank among the best in their academic performance.
Take my eldest, this year in the fifth grade, but if there is a subject below 90 points, the rank in the class will inevitably fall to 30, belonging to the middle school between B and C.
It is really not terrible to learn to bully, but I am afraid that the bully is also excellent in talent.
Every New Year's Festival, when the school holds a party, the children themselves will think that they are a little embarrassed not to order any talents.
Now that the "double reduction" policy is in place, the children's time is abundant, and many parents pay more attention to the children's interest classes, but also, there is less homework, more spare time, and you can't let the children watch TV at home on weekends, right? As a result, various talent interest classes began to rise.
But many parents are also difficult, how to choose so many interest classes?
Today, I will talk to you about how to choose an interest class for your child.
"It is more appropriate to start an interest class at what age"
There are sufficient data to show that the current children's learning age is really developing towards a younger age.
Parents are also anxious now, hoping that Jackie Chan is eager, do not say "win at the starting line", and now parents are eager to run.
Let's first talk about the advantages of learning early, that is, a high starting point.
If you think about it, people start learning piano at the age of four or five, and you start learning piano at the age of twelve, and the future can be the same. Therefore, the early enlightenment will indeed have a great advantage in time.
But if you learn too early, it is easy to cause children to fiercely rebel and even abandon school.
There is no absolute right age, and it needs to be measured according to the child's ability to understand and accept.
Generally speaking, six years old will be a more appropriate age.
How to choose the right course for your child.
The first condition for choice is to respect the child's own interests and hobbies.
If the child is interested in the best class, if not, it needs to be chosen by the parents.
Those with weak physique or strong energy can choose dance basketball martial arts martial arts taekwondo swimming and other sports interest classes. Weak physique can enhance physical fitness, and energetic can consume the child's excess energy.
Exercise can also promote metabolism, in short, sports sports are always a good choice.
Children with a quiet and introverted personality and less concentrated attention can choose to draw calligraphy instruments, which are courses that require quiet sitting and concentration, which will significantly improve the child's concentration.
If you want to exercise your child's language skills, you can go to the newspaper host.
How to choose the right training institution
Training institutions basically have their own accounts on the Internet, will release the daily course situation of the training class and the display of the results of the students, open the mobile phone to see it directly, choose two or three institutions that feel good, and directly make an appointment to go to the trial class.
Generally speaking, interest classes are free trial classes, take your child directly to make an appointment to go to the trial class.
There is also a small detail here in the demo lesson. The vast majority of parents will always see how their children are doing in class, and they will take pictures and videos. If you do this, your child will keep his attention on you. The new classroom environment is unfamiliar to him, and the series of actions you make it easy for children to be distracted and the class is not efficient.
When listening to a lesson, parents should focus not on their own children, but on the teacher who teaches their children.
Whether the teacher's mental state in class is full or lazy, whether the content of the class is carefully prepared or there is no teaching plan at all, the class is just a delay.
Now the level of teachers in the interest class is really uneven, an hour of class with children to play for forty minutes, and then fifteen minutes of class, and then give the child a small toy, the child played happily and told his parents that he wanted to enroll in class, these routines abound. Would such a child succeed in his studies?
A good teacher will always feel that there is not enough class time, and he will be more severe, because he really wants your child to improve.
Be wary of promises such as "package teaching package" and "fast delivery"
There is no such concept as a "pack of lessons", because the interest class is not a math problem, there is a unique answer.
Let me give you an example.
Piano, what is it called? Does playing a scale count?
Dance, what is it called? You don't learn, at home to learn a few movements in the vibrato can also jump twice, is it counted?
Basketball, what is it? Take a ball to the community basketball court, aim at the basket and throw it, anyone will.
So, don't believe the so-called package of teachings.
Don't be obsessed with the so-called "quick success", many training institutions will seize the impetuous heart of parents, and want to let parents see the learning results in the shortest possible time so that you can continue to renew.
What is the cost of a quick fix? The most important part of the foundation is ignored. Ten years of work on stage for a minute, the quick end is to abandon school.
A little more patience can go a little further.
What you need to know after you sign up
Home practice after class is essential if you want to make faster progress, especially for children who choose to learn musical instruments.
Classes can not open the gap, everyone goes to class together to progress together, there is no difference, the difference is really in the practice after class, this is where the curve overtakes.
Pay attention to the time of practice each day. Do not be too long. Learning is a matter of thin water, not a small period of force.
Practicing for an hour a day and being able to stick to it for a long time is better than practicing for four hours a day and then developing resistance for a month and then giving up studying.
Parents must also maintain enough patience and not rush to achieve results.
- Is talent important?
significant! Talent must be important!
But talent more often determines whether you can be one of the top few people in the industry.
For a beginner, all you have to do is work hard, because the level of effort you have to work is far from the time of the talent of fighting.
It is easy for parents to see that other people's children seem to be better than their own children, so they begin to wonder whether their children are not talented.
Learning faster may be that he is more focused, or it may be that he practices more after class. And these gaps can definitely be bridged and exceeded by hard work.
Just work hard, if you really get to the time to fight for talent, you will find that you are already standing at a very high height.
- What if the child wants to give up
At least half of the parents will face this problem, and the child does not want to learn what to do.
As a twelve-year practitioner of interest training institutions, I would like to tell parents that the most important thing about this question is not to force the child to continue learning or to give up directly, the most important thing is to understand why the child does not learn.
First of all, we must know that it is normal for children not to love to learn, and we adults do not love to learn where to go. unbelief? You go to see whether there are more people playing mobile phone games or more people reading books in Xinhua Bookstore.
The child does not learn because the interest class occupies the time he plays and does not want to learn, or because the teacher of the training class does not want to learn.
If it is the former, then at this time the parents do not have to be too democratic and tell him to continue to learn. In fact, giving up an interest class is not a big deal, it is important not to develop the habit of giving up school because you want to play!
If it is the latter, then parents need to communicate with the training class teachers and even transfer to the training institution. Therefore, it is particularly important to select the organization before applying.
- Parents should know this
When a child learns a hobby, the first thing to give up must not be the child himself, nor will it be the teacher, but the parent.
More school dropouts began with frequent leave of absence.
Any learning is the accumulation of time, parents must not rush to see the results, so that the children's achievements can only become a bubble.
In fact, the learning of interest classes is not only about learning a skill, but more about learning other things in the process of learning this skill.
When he learns basketball, he will learn to work as a team.
If he studies fine arts, he will also improve his aesthetic ability.
When he learns to dance, he will learn to grit his teeth and persevere.
These things, in life, will also be of great help to children, even more than the skill itself.
At the end of the article, I wish all children success in their studies and good health and growth.
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