Three-child families: What should children do when they compete for family property?
The friend asked, "I have three children." They have loved toys since they were young. How do I make a family discipline or will to prevent them from grabbing the family property in the future? ”
This show shares a "three-day together" approach to education that can also be used in sales pry, staff management, oratory writing and more.
"Three-child families: what to do if children compete for family property? 》
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The friend asked, "I have three children." They have loved toys since they were young. How do I make a family discipline or will so that I can prevent them from grabbing the family property in the future and can move forward in unity? (Laughs~~)
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Someone said, "This is a kind of 'value perception bias' problem. This show shares a "top-down, first-leading, post-technique" way of speaking (guidance).
This education method can take advantage of a goal or appeal of the other party at the moment to raise the value vision of the other party to a higher level.
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In this story, the crux of the matter is that the child does not realize that "the values of the parents are the most precious assets" and instead believes that "the toys in the family (family property, family business) are the only wealth".
To break this kind of cognitive bias, parents can tell more stories for their children from an early age, so that children can always develop the habit of "changing boundaries and reconstructing value coordinates". example:
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One day, after parents told the story of the tortoise and rabbit race, they asked their children: "Which character do you think is the most valuable MVP in the play?" ”
Most children will say, "I choose the turtle." Because it reveals the importance of persistence and focus." An enlightened child might say, "I choose a rabbit." Because without him playing a negative role, we wouldn't realize that pride and laxity are the mother of failure. ”
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That's right! Parents can go on to conclude: "The most valuable role is actually the "heart that determines victory and defeat with obvious values" that exists in each of us.
Because without this heart playing a negative role, everyone will not feel that there is positive energy in this story, and it will be widely praised.
When parents say this, they can gradually get used to looking at the core values of an experience from an outside perspective.
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When children are accustomed to looking at problems with external thinking, they can first make a family training or will:
I raise three children, filial piety is the eldest, the family is divided into 70%, to filial piety.
I have three sons, the wise are honored, and the wealth is divided into two percent, so as to help the right path.
I have three children, the thick black is expensive, the noble is self-sufficient, and I don't want anything.
Divide one into one, take the writer's vein, follow the fate of the world, and remember the family style.
When you write this way, your child can see the worldly model and self-positioning. ”
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Oh, I see! A friend said: "The so-called "founding a country and inheriting the family, the villain should not use it" is just like this:
In the early stage of entrepreneurship, let employees see their own advantages, understand the inherent shortcomings (villains), and achieve the accurate allocation of "incentive resources". ”
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yes! Someone said, "This is a technique of 'high-low dimensional docking'. That is, how to "convince the other party with high-dimensional values" when the other party decides victory or defeat with a single value.
Therefore, it can be widely used in various fields such as sales public relations, business management, family education, talk show creation and chat. ”
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1. Soundtrack:
A performing version of "Stars And Lights"
7, seven keywords:
Dark web thinking method, inverted triangle creation method, ternary design method, dynamic equilibrium method, value mapping method, four-scene landing, confrontational unity
6. Six headings:
How to make a family discipline or will? The Wisdom of Three Days together》
Employee Motivation: How to Unblock Cognitive Barriers? 》
Sales Science: How to Break the Ceiling of Customer Perception? 》
Oratory: Narrative Techniques of First And Later Techniques
The Tortoise and The Rabbit Race: Who's the Real Winner? 》
3. Three layers of value:
How to Establish a Family Training (provides a practical model)
How to Tell a Story (Provides a new teller of the Tortoise and Rabbit Race)
How to improve cognition (demonstrating a "three-layer alignment movement" guiding method by itself)
5. Five-step closed loop:
Pedagogy, Creative Law, Game Science, Cycle Theory, Comorbidity,
9. Nine illustrations:
Three lives of all things, family training, standing on the top of the mountain, coordinates or frame of reference, turtle and rabbit race, space to see the earth, three lives and four realms, the great black sky god of wealth, fox
4. Four-way landing:
Sales PR: Tells the story of "how to guide customers to re-understand the value of our products or services".
Business Management: Tell the story of "how to set reward and punishment coefficients with high-dimensional values".
Homeschooling: This story.
Chat Speech: Taking this show as an example, dissect this technique of "using a model to provide a useful method for three layers (explicit, deep, top-level) values" and make it a basic skill of speech or chat.
2. Second Introduction:
This is a radio lesson I wrote today, about the race between the tortoise and the rabbit, about family education, about the wisdom of ancient civilization.
Thank you for your last gift, and with the help of its prompts, I have sorted out an explanatory method of "using three sources of power, facing four types of audiences, and balancing the five techniques". Here is an example of that.
8. Scenario synchronization:
Various "turn a blind eye" type of event:
(1) The crowd did not see the child fall;
(2) The downstairs sluice gate is not closed;
(3) "Watch as an egg" joke because of the concentration on doing things;