"A lover will eventually become a family member" may be the most beautiful ending between lovers, once Lu You and Tang Wan, two talented lovers, also fantasized about working together to grow old, but there are always all kinds of shackles in the world that hinder the people who love each other. Lu You has nearly 10,000 poems left in the world, and his talent has been passed down through the ages, but the two of them have also left a poignant story because of each other's misses.
Born in Shaoxing, Zhejiang Province at the end of the Northern Song Dynasty, Lu You was a famous patriotic poet of the Southern Song Dynasty, and Lu You had two characteristics that could not be forgotten, one was that his poetry achievements were extremely high, and the other was that he devoted his life to resisting Jin and recovering the lost land in the north.
Tang Wan was three years younger than Lu You, not only from a family of officials and eunuchs, but also a beautiful talented woman.
Both families are official eunuch families, and should have intersected long ago, so Lu You and Tang Wan met earlier, lu you once used a delicate and unusual phoenix as a souvenir to be related to Tang Wan, and the two married when Lu You was nineteen years old.
Although the two are young and love each other, the two have to be separated after only one year of marriage, which also opens up the poignant love of the two people's lives. Why?
1 Lu Mu forcibly divorced his wife
Since Lu You and Tang Wan got married, the two have been immersed in the world of the two like glue, and because both of them are good at poetry, they are affectionate all day long, and they put their experiences on the bard against each other. This led to Lu You's abandonment of his studies to a certain extent, and he had no intention of doing so.
In ancient times, especially in the family of officials and eunuchs, the imperial examination was the most important way for men. Lu's mother hoped that her son could be named in the golden list and honor the ancestors of Guangzong Yaozu, and when she saw that Lu You was so depressed because of her children's private feelings, she gradually became dissatisfied with Tang Wan, believing that Tang Wan was delaying her son's future.
Later, Lu Mu learned through the signature that Tang Wan's disagreement with Lu You's eight characters would not only mislead Lu You, but also make Lu You's surname life in danger. And Tang Wan married into the Lu family for a year and did not have children, at this time Lu Mother could no longer sit still, so she forced Lu You to divorce his wife. At this time, although Lu You was reluctant to give up, but Pepsi filial piety came first, and Lu You tearfully sent Tang Wan away.
At first, Lu You secretly set up a courtyard for meeting Tang Wan, but the paper bag did not know the fire, and eventually it was known to Lu Mother. In the end, the two still broke off contact and went their separate ways.
2 Each family regrets for life
After the two separated, Lu You married a woman surnamed Wang under the arrangement of Lu Mu, and Tang Wan was also promised by the beautiful lady to Zhao Shicheng as a successor.
Lu You later married two concubines and gave birth to six sons and two daughters. It is worth mentioning that even after retiring Tang Wan, Lu You's career has not been smooth, because he advocated resisting Jin LuYou was suppressed by Qin Juniper, and when he rushed to take the exam, he was hated by Qin Juniper because he took the first place, and finally he was not named on the list, and he has not done much in the official field since then.
After Tang Wan married Zhao Shicheng, she was treated gently and gave birth to a son and a daughter for Zhao Shicheng, and lived a happy and happy life.
If this is the case, the two may go their own way and not meet, Lu You will continue to be his hot-blooded youth, and Tang Wanxiangfu will spend the rest of his life. But fate is such a trickery, eight years later the two meet again, and forge another bad relationship.
3 It is difficult to continue the frontier when they meet again
In 1154, Lu You was a little discouraged because he was deprived of the first place by Qin Jun, so he returned to his hometown Shen Garden to relax, and happened to meet Tang Wan, who was already married. At this time, Tang Wan sat next to Zhao Shicheng, who was prominent in the doorway, and when the two looked at each other, resentment, thoughts, and deep feelings instantly surged into their hearts.
Over the years, the wounds in Tang Wan's heart have never healed, but Zhao Shicheng has always treated Tang Wan with tenderness and sincerity for people. The wound in Tang Wan's heart was only temporarily forgotten, and when she saw Lu You, she could imagine that the old feelings and grievances of the past poured out in an instant.
After the trance, Tang Wan left without a word, while Lu You, between heartbreak, lifted his pen and inscribed a "Phoenix" on the powder wall.
Red crispy hands, yellow wine, full of spring color palace wall willows. The east wind is evil, and the joy is thin. A few years of sorrow. Wrong, wrong, wrong.
Spring is as old as ever, people are empty and thin, and the tear marks are red and silky. Peach blossom fall, idle pond pavilion. Although the mountain alliance is there, the Jinshu is difficult to trust. Mo, Mo, Mo!
Later, Lu You left his hometown again because Qin Juniper was dead, and Tang Wan also came to Shen Garden again, saw the words left by Lu You, and thoughts were thousands of times.
The world is thin, people are evil, and the rain sends dusk flowers to fall easily. The wind dried and the tears were broken. Want to write a heart, monologue oblique. difficult! difficult! difficult!
People are everywhere, today is not yesterday, and the sick soul is often like a swing rope. The horns are cold, and the night is dark. Afraid of people asking, tears filled with joy. deceive! deceive! deceive!
In the words, it can be seen that Tang Wan's endless thoughts about Lu You are also expressed that she has become worried about the disease. Sure enough, just a year later, Tang Wan died of depression due to psychological torture and stimulation.
The tragedy of Lu You and Tang Wan is not only caused by Lu You, but also caused by the times. On the one hand, Lu You was not firm enough in the face of his mother's persecution; on the other hand, because of Lu Mother's feudal superstition and Tang Wan's inability to give birth to children, it was inevitable that Tang Wan would be suspended under the social atmosphere at that time.
Reading "Phoenix", the world weeps, and we can only sigh with this poignant love of eternity.