These four points can see whether a person is educated or not, which is really accurate

author：THLDL Grand Classroom 2022-02-10 20:12:00

We often hear people say that the difference between a cultured and an uncultured person is greater than the difference between a man and a pig.

Parenting is a very important behavioral embodiment, an important criterion for measuring a person's quality, a cultivation and foundation rooted in a person's heart, and a reflection of the values in the depths of a person's soul.

A person's upbringing has nothing to do with his background and money, and rich people will also appear Sven scum, and those who have no money will also have people with cultivation.

In life, we feel comfortable dealing with cultured people. And a person's upbringing is reflected in the details of our daily life, and educated people can always do the following four things:

These four points can see whether a person is educated or not, which is really accurate

1. Do things punctually and keep promises

We often say: time is money. Well, a cultured person who does things in a timely manner and keeps his promise is the best respect for others.

Everyone's time is very precious, and only those who respect the time of others and cherish their own time can get the respect of others.

Mr. Lu Xun once said: Time is life, and the waste of other people's time for no reason is actually tantamount to seeking wealth and killing people.

If a person does not keep his promises in time, it means that he does not respect the time of others and does not respect the lives of others, and such a person is not worthy of our respect.

Cultured people will never waste the time of others for no reason, they always treat people and things in a punctual manner, and they deserve the respect of others.

2. It does not affect the lives of others

We have been taught from an early age to be a cultured person and not to disturb others casually.

What is cultured, what is not to disturb others, I once saw such a scene on the subway:

Once, when I was on the subway, a couple came up in very ordinary clothes, with a little girl. After the subway drove out for a while, I saw that the little girl had a noticeable uncomfortable reaction, she hugged her mother's leg with one hand and covered her mouth with the other, which was very uncomfortable. At this time, the people next to them were all away from the little girl, afraid of vomiting and getting on themselves.

This is the little girl's mother who pulled a plastic bag out of her bag and gave it to the little girl, making her spit in the bag, and when she got out of the car, she carried the bag and got out of the car.

Seeing this scene, I finally believed that parenting had nothing to do with identity, not with whether there was money or not, only with parents.

Cultured people who do not smoke or speak loudly in public;

Cultured people try not to make a sound when eating or reading;

Cultured people will sincerely say "sorry" if they really disturb others.

3, do not easily complain

People have sorrows and joys, and the moon has clouds and sunshine.

Life is not always smooth, when we have a lot of troubles crowded together, our thoughts will produce irritability and anxiety.

This is the best time to see if a person is educated.

A cultured person will never easily lose his temper with others, let alone spread his negative emotions to others, and even produce excessive behavior.

When we wantonly vent our dissatisfaction to others because of our emotional instability, others will be dissatisfied with you, disappointed in you, and will gradually consume other people's expectations and tolerance for you.

Cultured people respect others and do not easily complain to others. They will control their emotions and not let their dissatisfaction easily affect others.

4. Do not expose the privacy of others

Everyone has their own privacy, and everyone has their own unbearable memories, which is a pain in their hearts.

The greatest cultivation of being a human being is not to expose the privacy of others, let alone to take out the pain of others and laugh at them wantonly.

Interacting with people, many things need us to see through and not to say broken, to know how to maintain the self-esteem of others, to maintain the face of others, such a person deserves respect.

If we often expose people behind your back, it will only make others doubt your character and morality, and no one likes to associate with such people.

As the old saying goes, a good upbringing will make a person more attractive and more likeable and recognized by others.

These four points can see whether a person is educated or not, which is really accurate

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