At night, I was preparing to rest, my mobile phone kept vibrating, thinking that it was almost early in the morning, and the unit would not call at 12 o'clock at night. But the phone has been vibrating stubbornly, I picked up and heard the voice of the ex-girlfriend, I listened patiently, directly replied to her, I am married, I wish you happiness!
My name is XiaoYe, I have been single since my divorce and live with my son. My son lives on campus and only comes back on weekends. Live a life where one person has enough to eat and the whole family is not hungry. When there is nothing to read, fish, brush the news, every three to five with friends to get together, the day is quite comfortable.
I am 35 years old this year, after graduating from college, assigned to work in a public institution, after being introduced to marry my ex-wife, after marriage found that the two people have serious incompatibility with each other. Both were working-class workers and lived on a meager monthly wage. The ex-wife spent a lot of money before marriage, because after the birth of her son, she spent more than 100,000 yuan on serious illnesses, and spent all her savings to pay off debts. But the ex-wife not only does not pay back, but also requires AA financially, often spending her own salary, and has to let her share half of the salary to her. Because I have to save money to buy a house, but also to pay off the debt, when I don't give it, I start to humiliate, "Are you a man?" "Marry a man and marry a man to get dressed and eat!" ", after work home ten fingers do not stick to the Yang Chunshui, the food I made is picky, resulting in my son also began to picky eating, do delicious eating at home two bites, do not meet the appetite to take the child to eat in the restaurant. Life is also very domineering, she has the final say in big things, and she has the final say in small things! Once there is a disagreement, they are separated, punished with sex, and divorce is often on the lips!
They are all children from rural school, why are their concepts so inconsistent? Moreover, her family situation is also very general, but when she went to school, her economic conditions were slightly better, so that her parents were spoiled, good and bad, and her nature was difficult to move!
I really can't go on, I want custody of my son, and I get divorced. He bought a house with the financial support of his parents and spent two years with his son peacefully.
Once, when I went to the countryside, a friend asked about the family situation, and I told her that I was divorced and had a son. Friends were particularly excited to say to me that she had a girlfriend, working in a unit, working stably, with a daughter, regardless of age, work, personality you two matched, immediately called her girlfriend, added WeChat to each other.
I don't want to refute such a warm-hearted friend face, and adding a WeChat is nothing. I didn't expect that the woman who introduced me to me would teach me a profound lesson.
Added WeChat for a week, I didn't say a word, just like a stranger in the address book.
I was at work, sent a photo over, said that she was playing outside, saw that the fishing rod was good, and spent 800 yuan to buy me one.
I love fishing, fishing rods are my favorite things, how did she know I liked fishing? Do we really have a relationship?
I bought me a gift, but I can shirk it again and again, and in the end I can't help but accept it! On the weekend, she called me and asked me to pick it up, and she also said that she had bought me some food, but there was no refrigerator at home, and it was broken overnight!
After hesitating for a long time, she went hard, brought some gifts to the child, and called downstairs to ask her to come downstairs to get it, but she said that she was washing her hair and reported the room number to let her go directly.
The two sides sat down, poured a cup of tea, and she told her story straight to the point, talking as if she were telling someone else's story.
Her name is Xiao Ya, her family is in the nearby countryside, she was very well-behaved when she was a child, and she graduated from junior high school and was admitted to secondary school in the top ten in the county. Because of my young age, I was able to concentrate on my studies at school. After graduating at the age of 19, he was admitted to a public institution in a town. Later, he was introduced by a matchmaker and married a demobilized soldier. After marriage, the relationship is very good, after giving birth to a daughter, because the child has a genetic disease, the whole family blames the problem on her, and begins to raise a cold eyebrow, pointing out that the sang scolds the locust, the in-laws often manipulate right and wrong, let the husband beat her, Xiao Ya really can't stand the face of the in-laws and her family, the two sides agree to divorce, and the daughter is raised by the man.
Soon after being single, many people came to the door to propose to them. There is a divorced man who often goes to the unit to find Xiao Ya and pursues Xiao Ya madly. Because Of Xiaoya's dormitory, men often washed, cooked, and talked to Xiaoya's colleagues in spite of the cold, and Xiaoya said that she was really a little moved. Men take a shot, often invite colleagues to drink, in front of Xiaoya colleagues do not lose the opportunity to mention marriage to her, Xiaoya is still hesitating. After returning from a trip, the man revealed to Xiaoya's colleagues from time to time the meaning of raw rice to make mature rice, and under the instigation and encouragement of colleagues, the two received certificates.
But soon after marriage, the man's problem of spending heart was revealed. Xiao Ya thinks that she still has charm and looks good. How nai family flowers do not have the fragrance of wild flowers, men just can't resist the stimulation of the outside, every day to find fun, often cheat on different women. According to Xiao Ya's words, there were several women who were much older than men. In order to save the marriage that is on the verge of collapse, Xiao Ya risks habitual miscarriage to protect the man's fetus and conceive a child, and has repeatedly demonstrated where her lover is with a big belly. Due to the blow of neurasthenia, he drove in a car accident and almost lost his life.
The man's heart really made her want to cry without tears, until one day, a pregnant woman from out of town drank sleeping pills and found the door. It was only then that she left the house with her daughter, leaving the man who made her sad.
I admire Xiao Ya's patience, according to her words, she has been separated once, her daughter is still young, and divorcing again will make people around her laugh.
In the end, Xiao Ya still filed for divorce, and the man did not keep it. After two years, I used the money borrowed to buy a house to speculate in stocks, made money, bought a house, repaid the loan and a surplus, and planned to live with my daughter. The daughter is very well-behaved, and her study is also practical, which is her spiritual dependence.
When I heard this, I really admired Xiaoya's spiritual strength, being able to let go after divorce, and being able to live independently. Although she has a good feeling, she is not my dish.
After a few days, Xiao Ya took the initiative to contact me to be a guest, made several home-cooked dishes at home, very exquisite, and slowly learned in contact that Xiao Ya is still a person who loves life very much, although the marriage is unfortunate, but has been prepared how to face future life. I tried to understand and accept Xiaoya, hoping to use my sincerity to heal the trauma of her marriage. If it can be combined, it must not fail Xiao Ya.
I am a slow-heat type of person, get along quite well, every time I meet there are endless words, do not meet in WeChat to talk to each other, deepen understanding and communication with each other. After spending half a year together, Xiao Ya took me to meet my parents and sisters. We have jointly imagined the way we get along after marriage, my son, she and a daughter, take care of each other, let the children grow up in a loving environment, and make up for the harm to the children caused by the family breakdown with actions!
But the day before the appointment to go to the kiss, Xiao Ya's phone has not been able to get through, and she has gone to the unit, home, and hometown to find it, but she is not there. The only thing I could contact was WeChat, but I didn't reply to a word for two days. Where will she go? Disappear without warning, will something happen?
Waiting for two days in torment and anxiety, suddenly received a picture from WeChat, I quickly opened WeChat, it was sent by her, as long as people are okay!
Opening the picture, bringing me surprised news, Xiao Ya got married with a license!!!
Yes, it is true, there is a group photo, there is a mutual ID number, there is a date for obtaining the certificate!
I felt a great humiliation, it was really incredible, unbelievable! But the marriage license photo is real, don't you need to give me a reason? Don't you need to give me an explanation? My girlfriend actually married someone else, and which man is not me!
My heart couldn't turn around, and I had to endure the heartache. Yes, I was played, teased by her, cheated on me.
Yes, they are all adults, and there is no need to give you a reason, and there is no need to explain anything to you! Maybe that's life!
My heart immediately fell to the ground, the day before yesterday I still talked about marriage, every day holding my arm and shouting my husband's woman and others to get a license?!
I kept fidgeting with my phone and repeatedly asked myself if this was true? The photos are real, I have confirmed it repeatedly. Is there really no explanation or apology? Even if it is a simple three-word "sorry", there is no more information on which end of the phone.
But the facts are in front of you, what is the use of giving an explanation and an apology? After about an hour, I solemnly wrote four words in the WeChat window "I wish you happiness!" "
I quickly adjusted to my status and still lived a life of being single with my son, calm and idyllic, no longer bored by this matter. It's like there's no emotional entanglement in the previous paragraph.
Yes, people just live in passion and blandness, and life is probably nothing more than that. I no longer believe in love! Love, just the beginning of the love between young boys and girls, just the first love period of you and me, where is the love in the adult world?
But the world is so small, and the rumors about Xiao Ya's marriage still reach my ears from time to time.
The man who received the license with Xiaoya was two years younger than me, divorced, childless, and originally had contact with Xiaoya, but because of the inappropriateness, he did not make a date. Because I heard xiaoya walking together, I hurried to find Xiaoya, and Xiaoya accepted and received the certificate on the same day, and I didn't know anything about it. According to people familiar with the matter, it was mainly that I had brought a son, and since she had entered puberty, she did not know how to get along with her son.
A year has passed like this, and I am still single. When I put down the phone and prepared to rest, the phone began to vibrate non-stop, a set of digital mobile phone numbers, a familiar voice came from the earpiece,
"Xiao Ye, are you okay?" Sorry to have hurt you at the time, can you cool me down? ″
"Yes"
"I know I was wrong, I wasn't happy after marriage, you may have heard that he wasn't good for his children and cheated..., I'm getting a divorce, can you still accept me?" ″
"It's better to walk one way than to stay one place, life is like this, you have to stick to your choice." 」 Besides, I'm married! I wish you happiness from the bottom of my heart! "
I hung up the phone, a pain in my heart, do adults still have love? It is precisely because of the strange shortage that it has been sung, from the "Book of Poetry" to the "West Chamber", from Liang Zhuhua Butterfly to the Cowherd Weaver Girl, the adult world is only suitable or not!