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Wisdom of life: Life must go through at least one hardship and tempering, achieve a breakthrough, and then be able to be reborn in nirvana

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Wisdom of life: Life must go through at least one hardship and tempering, achieve a breakthrough, and then be able to be reborn in nirvana

Recently watched a video, a men's football fan burst into tears, it turned out that the Chinese men's football team in the qualifiers against the vietnamese team that is not as strong as itself suffered a fiasco, while the women's football team that no one paid attention to won the championship temporarily.

Just as the so-called high is how bad it falls, the Chinese men's football team burns money that is shocking, as far as the Chinese Super League club is concerned, the average salary of players is about six times that of Japan and twelve times the salary of South Korea. The annual salary of women's football is similar to that of the big city, at most not more than one million.

The more it is not taken seriously, the more it is holding its breath and trying to kick out the point of fame, probably this is the women's football team can be a loud slap in the face with practical actions after the men's football team was cancelled by the TV station at the same time.

Without experiencing the tempering of pressing the heart to the ground and repeatedly rubbing, where can stimulate the potential, where can be exchanged for the so-called applause of the crowd.

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Wisdom of life: Life must go through at least one hardship and tempering, achieve a breakthrough, and then be able to be reborn in nirvana

Behind the first and one blockbusters are countless bloodstorms of hard work

This time the men's football team lost to the Vietnamese team, and was ridiculed by the Vietnamese media: the players have big bellies, beautiful wives, and make a lot of money but have poor strength.

Just before the explosion of the national football captain in Guangzhou Pearl River has hundreds of millions of yuan of mansions, of course, there are many players are also tens of millions of annual salaries, luxury cars and beautiful women accompanied, as the fans sighed, the ball did not enter, the money arrived, Chinese football will never play.

Objectively speaking, the gap between China's football strength and Western football is still very large, but in Asia, it was also so-so before, although it is not a good ranking, it is not up and down, but the recent results continue to be at the bottom, what is the problem?

The strength is not strong, coupled with the use of energy outside the stadium, the result can be imagined.

Let's look at how women's football is evaluated by the media, such as "women's football team bloody, bloody without tears, women's goalkeeper blood staining the field, trying their best to kill opponents..."

Wisdom of life: Life must go through at least one hardship and tempering, achieve a breakthrough, and then be able to be reborn in nirvana

The treatment of women's football players is generally low, the venue facilities, rewards and other material guarantees and men's football are heaven and earth; coupled with the shortage of coaches, there are not many high-level coaches; it is under such internal and external troubles that women's football is struggling to persevere, for what? In order to fight for a breath!!!

Women's football eliminated the Japanese women's football team, let people see the tenacious will and self-sacrifice spirit, in the victory over the South Korean women's football team, the team members bravely sacrificed themselves to block the football, it is the two team members who struggled to block the football attack, only then did the victory come.

The men's football team chose to avoid the same situation, which eventually led to scoring points.

Although the era is no longer patriarchal, in real life this kind of thinking is still pervasive in the hearts of a large number of people, and it can be seen from the fact that women's football is not valued.

Women's football can give up their lives to play football desperately, not only for the glory of the country, but also for women to be respected and valued by more people.

We all say "women's volleyball spirit", and now there is a "women's football spirit"; what we need is an attitude, an attitude of doing whatever it takes to do so.

Wisdom of life: Life must go through at least one hardship and tempering, achieve a breakthrough, and then be able to be reborn in nirvana

Fame and profit are the biggest driving forces, first after the name will be beneficial, and the first advantage will lose the name; the men's football team is advantageous but can not get the name, the women's football team through the name of the final profit.

Second, under heavy pressure, to do things to the extreme is victory

The Beijing Winter Olympics is undoubtedly a successful Winter Olympics, thinking back to the 2008 Summer Olympics is so wonderful; when the 2004 Athens Olympic Games closing ceremony of china's 8-minute display let Zhang Yimou be scolded by everyone, when Zhang Yimou and all of us are the same idea, it is not easy for us, so the display of the big and complete but not criticized.

When running for the director of the opening ceremony of the 2008 Olympic Games, the candidates were Chen Kaige, Li An, Jiang Wen, etc.; and Zhang Yimou won with sufficient pre-selection plans and filings.

Because of the lessons of the eight minutes before the end of the 2004 Athens Olympics, Zhang Yimou deeply felt Alexander, who is a hero if he does a good job, and a sinner who does not do well, because the people of the whole country are the biggest judges.

In our impression, the big director is mainly creative, and the rest of the execution has nothing to do with the big director; but Zhang Yimou, the big director, is different, as a director, producer, conference secretary and even housekeeper and so on.

Wisdom of life: Life must go through at least one hardship and tempering, achieve a breakthrough, and then be able to be reborn in nirvana

Up to the decision of each creative decision, down to the implementation of each prop and the communication with all aspects are inseparable from director Zhang Yimou's personal affairs, and the long-term battle that sleeps every day cannot even be carried by young people, but Zhang Yimou is full of energy.

Until the opening ceremony of the 2008 Beijing Olympic Games was a great success, the participants silently sighed in their hearts: "Zhang Yimou is not easy. ”

Others can shirk when they encounter difficulties, and others can find him when they encounter problems; but when he faces difficulties, he cannot have a little panic, he needs to face them alone, and gently comforts everyone: "A person's appearance and temperament have been determined, and the rest is just makeup." ”

Zhang Yimou successfully held the opening ceremony of the Beijing Olympic Games, allowing his reputation to reach a high point; behind this success is inseparable from Zhang Yimou's resistance to pressure, and finally presented the world's unparalleled opening ceremony.

Third, if you want to achieve a breakthrough in life, you must be a small strong

Compared with the honors won by the women's football team, compared with the praise received by director Zhang Yimou, and compared to the championship won by Gu Ailing, which is remembered by people, there is an ordinary person who has also become the hot spot of these two days, his name is Zhang Jiahao.

Zhang Jiahao's dream is known as a person's winter Olympic dream, when he was 17 years old, he was a baker, and in 2012, he was taken to the ski resort by a friend to let him start a dream journey.

Wisdom of life: Life must go through at least one hardship and tempering, achieve a breakthrough, and then be able to be reborn in nirvana

Young and bold is his exclusive label, and he dares to play without fear; so he works the night shift to make bread while going skiing during the day; in order to ski, he dedicates all his time and expenses to this hobby.

It was his dedication and fearlessness that led him to finish ninth in a ski race in 2014 and have his first sponsor.

After that, he resigned to become a professional skier, and from the time he began to think about it to participate in professional skiing, during which he had fractures in both hands and feet, broke his lungs twice, and even had concussions three times, and stitched ten stitches in his lips.

Even so, Zhang Jiahao was chasing his dream like an undead Xiao Qiang, until he finished sixteenth at the New Zealand Ski World Championships in 2016; so he had the dream of impacting the Beijing Winter Olympics.

Zhang Jiahao then won the Shaanxi Ski Conference in 2017, the national championship in the National Championship in 2019, and the FIS Points Race in Chile when he won the points in 2021.

Because he is not a national team, in order to get the minimum 50 points to participate in the Beijing Winter Olympics, he spent two years alone tens of thousands of kilometers to travel to North America, Europe and other places at his own expense, during which in order to save money, he stayed at a friend's house, exercised to a free fitness place, no nutritious meals, did not dare to be injured; a person competed alone until Chile won the championship after he saw the opportunity to board the Beijing Winter Olympics, and then lost in Switzerland and the Netherlands.

Wisdom of life: Life must go through at least one hardship and tempering, achieve a breakthrough, and then be able to be reborn in nirvana

Although Zhang Jiahao did not finally appear on the beijing Winter Olympics, Zhang Jiahao's spirit like a small strong man made us see that if we want to chase our dreams in life, we need to have the same passion as Zhang Jiahao and the spirit of fighting like Xiao Qiang.

Finally, the rebound under the pressure can be reborn

Life is like a spring, the greater the pressure, when you press to the bottom, the strength of the rebound will be greater, and the bounce will be higher.

Our life needs to experience pressure, we need to withstand this pressure, we can not be bent by pressure, only under the pressure to stimulate the potential to achieve rebound, our life can be nirvana rebirth.

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