Introduction: Huang Yongbai, born in 1968, graduate degree, Master of Philosophy, university teacher. In his spare time, he loves to write, especially essays.
About writing
Text/Huang Yongbai
The articles we write ourselves are very much like the children we have given birth to, and others may feel that they are very general, but we ourselves always like it. Always can't help but read and even intoxicated over and over again, and if there is some unintentional praise of others in the middle, it will definitely strengthen our self-confidence and masturbation. That kind of happiness, even happiness, must be strongly positively related to the number and quality of the audience.
We know that we can't become everyone, but the desire in our hearts never dies. Reason reminds oneself to write for self-amusement, but emotionally always desire to be recognized by others and best commended. Emotions triumph over reason at every turn, so neither of you nor I is exempt from vulgarity, and we all care about the evaluation of our articles by others. Especially the people you care about are paying extra attention to what your articles say. Although, many people who evaluate may just say it casually or even praise it against their hearts, of course, there are also sincere but out of encouragement, and there are also criticisms that are really from the heart. Anyway, we unconsciously give our mood to others, as if our writing is only for others, and our happiness comes from other people's faces. You may not know that people are much more complex than animals, and their faces are often silent, smiling tigers, warm and cold, and expressionless, not to mention, changing faces and changing days are often in life.
Since the article is their own child, it is generally not willing to let others criticize or even blame, as for the unauthorized modification of you without my permission, the author must be very unhappy. The higher the status and the higher the taste, in short, all the people who have a high positioning for themselves are unwilling to accept even the benign criticism of others. In fact, it is of course wrong not to have an opinion, but it is even worse to be too assertive and to be paranoid and not to listen to the opinions of others. No matter who you are, we still have to put our mentality a little lower, and we must firmly believe that there will be my teacher in the threesome. Then there are the unbearable, there are its merits. One more staff officer and one more perspective may have more novelty and perfection. Or that sentence is good, listen to the opinions of the majority, consult with the minority, and finally decide for yourself. It is best not to be less than one link.
It is said that the literati are light, and it should be said that it is in the bones. But on the surface, everyone is more hello and I am good. No matter what kind of article, it must be immediately praised, and it must be praised to the fullest, as if the evaluation of people in the eulogy must be high or low, and it must be a high mountain on the top of the whole color. This would probably do nothing to a lover of literature other than satisfying his little vanity and reinforcing his blind self-confidence to the point of conceit. Of course, we easily do not go to the other extreme, but once we go to the other extreme, the mouth is fierce and smelly, in addition to criticism or criticism to make it ironic, then the emperor's new clothes that everyone painstakingly maintains and dresses up are immediately torn off, and the period and atmosphere of unscrupulousness, the evil aspects of human nature will be continuously and infinitely stimulated, and they will fall into the endless struggle, burial and hatred of each other. It is better to always pay attention to seeking truth from facts, and it is better not to have big advantages and small disadvantages, after all, constructive opinions and suggestions are better than blindly fooling around, which is much better for people's growth and progress.
The inclination of literati is also a high probability phenomenon. It's just that here we talk about each other, and I specifically mean mutual affection, admiration, and favor. Because of the words, may be divine intercourse, looking at each other in the literary world and media channels, so that the good feelings, likes, misses, and worship become more and more intense; because there are many times when I don't know what to write and how to write something new, and as a result, after seeing your article, Mao Sai suddenly opened up, suddenly opened up, and was shocked and admired by your perspective. All of this, as long as you hold the attitude of appreciation and learning, most people's articles can always give you such and such benefits, such as the simplicity and freshness of people's writing, the discovery and praise of beauty in the cracks of life, the touching and wonderful moments in the ordinary life of ordinary people of small people, thick nostalgia, warm family affection, pots and pans, rice, oil and salt, and so on.
Fewer people make a fortune by writing, but they entertain him and reflect on themselves much more. Careful reflection and taste, writing has many benefits: you can write about the blocks in your heart, relieve depression and depression; you can constantly think and clarify your thinking to prevent premature alzheimer's disease; you can brainstorm, think wildly, be free, and be happy; you can self-display, self-intoxication, and get others to understand and affirm; you can laugh and scold, you can deny the world, you can be full of kindness and energy, and create harmony and warmth. In short, as long as people live, they must express themselves. To express, in addition to words, writing is another important channel.
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