Author: Number One Emotion
Original works, plagiarism must be investigated
Every New Year, there will be a lot of classmates to participate, at first to enhance each other's love for classmates, but gradually will find that the classmates seem to be less simple, but become a place to show off to each other.
Are you still willing to participate in the annual alumni association today?
If I had to answer, I wouldn't, and I wouldn't have participated if I could push it off, unless I really couldn't do it, and I would occasionally participate.
Most of the student associations are AA system, but there are also times when people are invited, this year I participated in a class meeting where some people invited guests, which made me understand a truth: the poorer people, the more they like to "pretend"!
The poorer the person, the more they like to make loud noises
People with good relationships sit together, and there are people who have forgotten their names but look quite familiar, and everyone is undoubtedly showing off themselves, and then they go to please other classmates who seem to be mixed well.
In fact, you will find that those who are really powerful often do not like to talk, only talk to the people sitting around, and do not want to become the focus of the meal.
On the contrary, those who are not mixed well like to make loud noises, and then all eyes will be focused on him, and the dinner will be pushed to climax in an instant, and the scene is very lively.
I have to say that the more people who are not mixed well, the more they like to pretend to be very powerful, because he feels that only loud noise can attract everyone's attention and make people look up, but it is a well-mixed person, often hiding in the corner and staying quietly.
The poorer the person, the more he likes to be poor and generous
This year's student union, instead of adopting the previous AA system, was paid by a classmate alone, I originally thought he mixed well, but after understanding it, I found out that it was just a small employee of a company.
Those who mix well and have very good family conditions when they go to school will not take the initiative to pay the bill, do not want to leave the spotlight on themselves, and often choose to go with the flow and will not deliberately show off.
In fact, the poorer the people like to be poor and generous, I don't know how much this time to pay the cost of this classmate's salary, although everyone unanimously said that they want the AA system, but he is dead to face the guilt, said that he must buy the bill, otherwise he looks down on him.
To tell the truth, such a classmate is also considered to be open, but it is indeed some strong support, if it is really to enhance the feelings between classmates, the use of AA system is the best choice, there is no need to be generous, not only can not get the recognition of the people around them, and even affect their own lives, why should this be?
Why do the poorer people like to "pretend"?
In fact, it is not difficult to answer this question, it is nothing more than that the vanity of this kind of person is very strong, usually very ordinary in life, just want to satisfy their vanity at the class reunion, plus most people are not particularly understanding, this time is the easiest to satisfy themselves.
And you will find that the richer people are, the more they like to keep a low profile, and the most important thing is that they don't want to pretend, because the inner world is rich enough that there is no need to make others praise and admire them by pretending to be themselves.
When the two are in stark contrast, perhaps you will be able to understand why the poorer people prefer to "pretend" more, because their inner world is very poor, so they need to rely on disguise to satisfy their inner vanity, which is easy to see clearly.
Why do more and more people not want to attend class reunions?
Through the above analysis, it is not difficult to find that the essence of the alumni association has become more and more focused on personal show-off, everyone themselves came together to enhance the friendship of classmates, but now it has become a place for most people to show off and satisfy vanity, such a party itself has lost its meaning of existence.
Some people even want to find a "patron" through a class reunion, always beg some well-mixed classmates, look down on those who are not mixed well, and even some people who are not familiar with themselves also need to disguise a very enthusiastic look, everyone disguised as another person, what is the meaning of such a party?
What's more, they still talk about their feelings at the classmate meeting, which causes the family to fall into the brink of rupture, after all, after drinking, they can't restrain themselves at all, and when the time comes, they make irreparable mistakes, which is also a factor that more and more people hate class reunions.
Today's Topic:
Do you think class reunions have deteriorated? If it were you, would you still like to attend a class reunion?