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Love will naturally trigger a person's behavior, and only emotion can completely change in a person.
When we have never fallen in love with someone, we are more focused on our inner feelings and do not take other people to heart at all. I only think about myself about everything, I have no worries in my heart, and I live a life of ease.
There were also some brief ambiguities, when they just held a playful attitude towards each other, and the two people laughed and played together, and did not really pay attention to each other at all, nor did they think about what responsibility they had for him. Only care about the pleasure in front of him, do not care about the long time, pay more attention to the comfort and fit with him, and are not willing to give up themselves for the sake of each other.
Such a liking is still a bit selfish in the end, neither side has made any commitments, and together, as long as there is a little discomfort, they can immediately part ways.
And when we completely fall in love with a person, we have concerns in our hearts, and we will also breed certain responsibilities for him, unwilling to easily let go of each other's hands, even if there will be friction and contradictions between two people, I would rather spend time to repair and patch, rather than think of separation.
In fact, whether a person has a shallow liking or deep love for you can be seen through his words and deeds. A person's external performance can directly reflect how deep his feelings for you really are.
Don't look at men who are very mature and stable, in fact, when they are completely in love, women are careful in love and they are not lost. In addition to inspiring their different behaviors, there will also be some deep expression of love that holds the two people together tightly.
Generally speaking, men will only have these changes if they are completely in love with you, don't understand.
Changes in personality, become delicate and considerate, very gentle to you
Regardless of whether men or women are completely emotional, their personalities will definitely change.
Especially at the beginning of love, we will try our best to show our most gentle and considerate appearance in front of each other, just want to show the most beautiful side to each other, that gentle and considerate only this, just want to give our unique other half.
Even if the personality is rough, it is only such a personality in front of outsiders, and they are not willing to lose their temper with the people they like, and they will also pull out the thorns on their own bodies because they meet a person, remove the cold on their bodies, and the whole person becomes soft.
Chen Xiaochun used to be a famous violent temper, but in front of Ying Cai'er, he became completely temperless, and because after meeting her, his whole person was a little less angry and became very gentle and supple.
Chen Xiaochun revealed in the program that she was afraid of Ying Caier, saying that her advantage is to be able to control herself, the man's "fear" is actually a manifestation of love misery, only in front of her, it will become very gentle, but also breed a delicate and considerate look, once thick branches and leaves, but in front of her, always be able to find changes in women, that is estimated to be aware of her unhappiness, this careful, is the embodiment of sincerity.
When men face girls they don't like, they look solipsistic, and only in front of people who are thoroughly loved can the gentleness of the water be reflected.
A change in behavior will be willing to change some bad things for you
Two people together are like people with different tooth marks, which need constant friction and change to become the other half who just fits each other.
Two people were born in different families, the environment is completely different, the way of life is also very different, originally two complete strangers, because the intertwining of fate came together, there are bound to be many differences, you need to accommodate each other, in order to be able to come together smoothly.
If both people are always stubbornly sticking to their own way of life, it is difficult to go on for a long time. The slightest friction and contradiction will part ways, so that the love that is easily dissipated cannot be said to be deep love.
If only one side has changed, the other side is still holding on to itself, unwilling to compromise in the slightest, and there is no way to carry it out smoothly.
Generally speaking, women are very willing to accommodate the person they love, in front of the person they like, they would rather give up their egos and just think about being with him, men, unless they love deeply, they will not easily make concessions and compromises.
Only in front of the people they love deeply, they will take the initiative to make some changes, and they will sacrifice their own interests in order to match the pace of women's lives. Will change some women do not like the problem, such as he likes to smoke, women do not like to smell smoke, will be willing to quit smoking for her, women like to go to bed early and get up early, will also change their own schedule to cooperate with her.
Men's machismo will be invisible in front of the people they like, and will voluntarily make some changes to become the other half who fits with you.
Arousing a sensitive and suspicious side, fear that you will leave, a little unlike yourself
Not only women will have a sensitive and suspicious side in love, but men will also. Don't think of men as too strong, in fact, once they are completely moved to the truth, sometimes they will be more suspicious than women.
When men face people they like very much, they will stimulate the inferiority side in their bones, always feel that the other party is very good, feel that they are not worthy of each other's good, want to spoil her as a princess, but invisibly become a little nervous, become less like themselves.
Because they care too much, they will be a little bit of gain and loss, even if they are good enough, they are always a little ashamed, they will be full of vigilance against the opposite sex around women, treating them as imaginary enemies, and will unconsciously overturn the vinegar jar.
When two people first meet, they may also show a very confident side in front of you, and when they get closer and closer to each other, when they have deeper and deeper feelings for you, they will become more and more sensitive and less like themselves.
Sometimes because of jealousy, do some abnormal behavior, say some ugly words, and even sometimes push you away because of inferiority, in fact, among these abnormalities, all of them are slow affection and love.
I'm afraid you'll leave him, so I'd rather pretend not to care, but in fact, I can't deceive others, let alone myself.
Love can make a person look different, it may be a positive change, it may be a reverse change.
Men will become sensitive and suspicious in the face of the people they love deeply, and will stimulate their own inferiority side, because they are afraid of the other party leaving, thus suffering from gain and loss.
It will stimulate a gentle and delicate side, which may have been an informal, indifferent to many things, but will become delicate for the sake of the other party.
Will be willing to cooperate with the other party, and make some concessions and changes, as long as it is able to get closer to her, let him make any changes are willing.
If it is not a thorough deep love, men will not have these changes, although sometimes they may stab the deeply loved ones because they care too much, but women must understand the deep affection behind this abnormality.