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In the world of feelings, loving someone requires a measure. It is okay to love someone, but you can't give up on yourself because of one person.
If a guy really likes you, he will come to you on his own initiative, and if you blindly take the initiative, it is not interesting.
Feelings need to run in both directions, and they need to grasp the measure. Loving someone requires keeping a certain distance, and not loving someone has no self.
Know that a person who has no self will not be cherished. Therefore, no matter how good the feelings are, no matter how much you love a person, don't take the initiative in these three aspects, and many times you will lose as soon as you take the initiative.
Reach out for money
Money is a very sensitive thing, no matter how much a person loves you, no matter how willing to spend money for you, he must also have the ability to make money.
At any time, a person should have the ability to be independent, do not reach out for money, a person who loves you will take the initiative to spend money for you, do not need you to ask for it.
You know, a good feeling is to be able to talk about money frankly, not if you take the initiative to ask for it. Any relationship, when you need to take the initiative to ask for it, has actually deteriorated.
Feelings of this kind of thing, people who love you are afraid to give you too little, people who don't love you will only feel that you want too much.
Two people together, good feelings, do not destroy the harmony between each other, do not take the initiative to reach out for money, because once you take the initiative, your position in each other's heart will deteriorate.
No matter when, only what you have is the most practical, and you have to give yourself the confidence you want.
Take the initiative to please
Feelings cannot be maintained by flattery. Any humble relationship will not have a good ending in the end.
It is said that you can love someone, but don't become humble, once the feelings are humble to the dust, it will be ruined.
You know, if you are humble to the dust, no one will love you in the dust. Most of the feelings that need you to please are often not cherished.
A really good feeling is that they should be consistent with each other, and both parties are willing to work hard for each other, rather than one party to please and wrong themselves.
Qu Yi Feng Ying cannot be exchanged for love, and blindly pleasing can not get the sincerity. When a relationship has lost its balance, it loses its original meaning.
The more you please, the more humble you become, and the more the other person looks down on you. Therefore, love needs to be based on mutual respect, be your true self, others will love you and cherish you.
Take the initiative to give up on yourself
In fact, no matter who you are with, the most important thing for a person is to have yourself. If you don't have your own words because you love someone, it is a very sad thing.
In this world, the person who can ultimately be relied on is yourself, whether there is love or not, you should have yourself.
If you are with a person, you need to give up your self-worth, give up your circle, and without the focus of life, such feelings will not last long.
Good feelings should make you better, not sacrifice you and make you less like yourself.
It is okay to love someone, but don't lose your self-worth, no matter how much you love someone, you must have the ability to love yourself.
Therefore, no matter how much you love a person, you must build on the basis of loving yourself, maintain love, be loyal to yourself, and only then will you live the way you want to be.
summary:
In this life, people will meet many people, and some people you can pay, but don't overdo it. Many feelings, often too late, moderate can be long-lasting.
It is okay to love someone, but don't be too active, without self, otherwise you don't love yourself like this. So, try to be true to your heart and be your true self.