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Don't let love turn into a gentle knife.
There is such a story.
One autumn, a flock of swans came to an island in Swan Lake.
They flew from the far north, ready to go south for the winter.
The old fisherman and his wife lived on the island, and they were very happy to see this group of celestial visitors, and took out the feed for the chickens and the small fish they had brought in to feed the swans.
Winter came, and the swans did not continue to fly south.
The lake was frozen and they could not get food, so the old couple opened their huts for them to warm and feed them until the next spring, when the lake thawed.
Day after day, year after year, every winter, the old couple gave their love in this way.
Finally one year, they got old and left the island, and the swans disappeared.
But instead of flying south, they starved to death during the lake's freezing the following year.
The fisherman couple in the story. He took care of the swans like he loved his own children, ate and lived, and devoted himself day after day, year after year.
People can't help but sigh: "What a good couple, what a lucky swan!" ”
However, the tragic end of the swan tells us that it is this excessive love of the fisherman and his wife that makes the swan indulge in a leisurely and comfortable life, develop inertia, lose the instinct of life and the basis for survival, can no longer adapt to the environment, and is eventually engulfed by the changed environment.
In real life, how many parents have been creating a comfortable and comfortable love nest for their children all their lives!
When the child is young, he is afraid of falling in his hand, and he is afraid of melting in his mouth, and the child does not dare to give the moon to the stars.
Do not let the child do a little housework, eat a little pain, suffer a little tired, let the child live a "clothes to reach out, food to open the mouth" of the old-fashioned life.
When the children are older, they are busy finding a good career for them to ensure that they do not get rain or rain, and they also think of leaving them a rich inheritance, even if they suffer and suffer for this, they are willing...
This is the typical "fisherman couple" type of parents, and their generous and selfless love!
However, thinking about the end of the swan, can we still be proud of this love?
In fact, this kind of "meticulous" love, this kind of blindly creating comfort and ease, is just the "trap" of life.
People caught in this "well" have nothing but dependence and inertia.
Once there is a "frozen lake" in life, their ending will never be better than that of a swan.
People need love, but when this love mutates into a gift of happiness, a kind of all-encompassing care, it ceases to be love, but becomes a gentle knife that can kill people.