Hello everyone, I am Xiaomengniu (pseudonym) mother. It has been 60 days since the baby was born, and the newborn baby is very soft for the first time as a mother, I dare not hold him is the family helping. The most distressing thing every day is the baby's sleep problem, my baby is also like many children to hold and sleep, as soon as they put it down, they immediately cry, and my family has not rested well with me. Later, I learned through my friends that I finally knew "Why the baby will sleep in the arms, put it down and cry!" 》Let's take a look!
First, bad sleep habits
As a first-time mom and dad, I know too little about my baby's crying needs. As long as it is a cry, it is immediately held, the baby is accustomed to the temperature on the human body, forming a dependence, and the temperature gap between the human body and the human body is large. I woke up immediately. Therefore, be sure to cultivate the habit of sleeping alone and avoid sleeping in your arms for a long time.
Second, calcium deficiency
Lack of calcium can cause the baby's nervous excitement to increase, resulting in crying at night and sleeping unsteadily, easy to wake up, so it is necessary to give the baby a proper supplement of calcium and vitamin D3, and pay attention to more sun exposure to promote calcium absorption.
Third, lack of security
In life, when the baby sends us a demand signal, we do not respond in time or do not understand the meaning of the signal sent by the child, so that we cannot give Xiaobao a correct response, which is easy to cause a lack of security. Insecure babies do not like to be alone, they are more eager to get love and hugs from their mothers, and only in their mother's arms can they sleep peacefully.