"The Secret of the Little Window": Teach people to be good and not too high, when the original can be followed

5. The evil of attacking a man should not be too strict, but should be considered to be bearable; teach him that good is not too high, and that he should be obeyed.

Plain language and easy to understand. Criticize others, but also leave room for the other party. Don't say high-profile words, say what is feasible. It's a reminder, and it's a reminder to me.

My public account can be said to be a base for me to spread traditional culture. How effective I actually don't know, I have been writing and writing, in fact, I am still in the stage of learning traditional culture, if I can't do it myself, why talk about dissemination? The first is to be yourself. Criticism of oneself cannot be too strict, and the education of the self cannot be too high, which is what I learned from this sentence. Aiming at the Tao, and then being in harmony with the Tao, without fault, step by step, moving forward in a down-to-earth manner, this is called "according to virtue", just like establishing a base area, take it slowly.

"Little Window Ghost", there is a kind of quiet, a kind of tranquility, a kind of calm, this kind of calm, let us see our real situation, this is "awake", to be sober.

Push open the window, there is a bright moon, there is a breeze, there is a thousand worlds outside the window.

6. Not close to human feelings, the whole world is afraid of the way; do not perceive the situation of things, a lifetime of dreams.

I am most afraid that intellectuals live in their own knowledge concept system, lose human feelings, and do not perceive material conditions. I love to read books, and I am vigilant and observant of all kinds of intellectuals today.

Close, close, not far from people. Sensing, observing, lattice, lattice to know. This is not far from the contemplation of life, the awareness of the self, the perception of people and things. To live, one must be a living, lively, full of vitality.

Recently practicing calligraphy, not to pursue a certain font, a certain glyph, but to find the rhythm of writing, like the rhythm of dance, there is breath, there is life, the breath is endless, and there are emotions and feelings, which is the writing of life.

This may be the closeness of human feelings, the observation of things, that is, the popularity of people, grounding.

"The Secret of the Little Window" may be a kind of idleness that leans on the window, scattering in the view, and gradually calming down in the view.

7. It is advisable for deliberators to be aware of the interests and interests when they are outside the matter;

What is said here is not clear, the interests, the interests of things, the interests of oneself, and the consideration of strength are what a wise person must do. What is said here is a bit clear and lofty, a little "do not detect the situation of things" feeling.

Being outside the matter may be seen lighter, but we are not the parties, and our evaluation of things must be empathetic. It's okay to be straight, but it's warm. Straight and warm, can not be straight and harsh.

Take responsibility for something, do your best, and forget your own interests, this is a gentleman's journey, of course, to promote, but this is self-discipline, self-awareness.

"The Secret of the Little Window" has a total of twelve articles, the first one is "set of awakenings", mostly a reminder, mostly to make people wake up, re-understand themselves, and look at the problem from a different perspective.

8. Frugality, virtue also, too is miserly, for contempt, anti-hurt ya Dao; let, Yi Xing also, too is enough to be respectful, for the sake of the curve, more out of the heart.

It is not easy to achieve "frugality" and "concession". It's our minds. The right to free choice is in oneself, and there is a heart to do it, and it can be done now.

The reminder here is that frugality is one's own way of life. You can't take this way of life, ask others, treat others. This is not willing, that is not willing, stingy, then it becomes a miser. Because of frugality, he can treat others more generously, which is frugality.

Jean, still have a twisted mind, then it is not let go, this is for more "get".

"Man regards himself as if he sees his lungs and livers", and he cannot hide his thoughts.

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