What can make men give more love is often the woman who does well in these four aspects
Text/Coriander
Love is a rare and unforgettable emotional experience in a person's life.
A famous person once said this: What is a life without love? There is no long night without dawn.
It can be seen that love is longed for by everyone. Women, in particular, can give up almost everything about themselves for love.
Men also crave love, but men are more rational than women. Or, for a woman, love may be all she has. But love for a man is only a part of his life, not complete.
Therefore, men and women rarely pay reciprocally on the road of love. However, if a woman does a good job in four aspects, the man may love her more.
★ Not too much to spend his money
Generally speaking, when two men and women decide to be together, they will naturally see each other as their own. Some men once identify a woman, he will give his money to her for safekeeping. However, there are also some men who are relatively rational and will wait until after marriage to hand over their pay cards and let their wives keep their money.
For money, everyone loves it. In this world, the only thing that people never tire of is money.
The love of money will also be more direct and obvious in the performance of women. For example, some women, she looks for a man or a boyfriend, just to make them spend money on themselves.
Two people are in love, and it is a matter of course for a man to spend money for himself. But if a woman wants to spend a man's money too much, then she must not be truly in love with him. A woman with true love will not spend the man's money excessively, but will think about him and save for him. Because, she will plan for the future of two people.
A woman who spends too much money on men, she values only profit, only material enjoyment, not the man himself.
Therefore, a woman who wants to spend money too much, for a long time, will also reveal her true face, thus making men tired.
★ Don't force him to change himself
On the road of love, if a person really loves another person, he will take the initiative to change for the other party. In fact, this point does not need to be forced.
But often, there are plenty of women who will ask men to change for themselves. For example, women like to be tidy and pay more attention to hygiene, and she hopes that her man can do the same. So in daily life, she would always force him to change his original sloppy habits and keep up with his rhythm.
In fact, this is a big contrast for men. But for the sake of love, he may also change, but this change is not what he is willing to do. He just doesn't want to disappoint his woman and just doesn't want to listen to her nagging.
If a woman, knowing that her man has such a habit, does not force him, but silently uses her own actions to influence him, so as to achieve the effect of making him willing to change, this is the most intelligent behavior.
Not forcing men to change for themselves is a manifestation of women's wisdom. After all, two people are together for fun, not to add to each other's blockage.
Being able to keep a man by his nature is the happiest thing for him. As a woman, in fact, don't worry, living together for a long time, it will be subtle, and his changes will also be unconscious, as long as you have this patience and confidence.
★ Don't keep an eye on him too closely
There are some women who, once established a relationship with a man, will see him as their private property and stare at him to death.
In fact, this is also an unwise approach.
No matter how much love, the man is also a complete person, he also has his own thoughts and careers. If you keep an eye on him too closely and want to be tied to your side for 24 hours, the effect will only be counterproductive.
We all know that springs have toughness, but they also have limits. When it stretches to a certain length, it will bounce.
People are actually the same. Occasional staring, men may also feel a sense of happiness, thinking that it is a woman who cares about herself. But everything cannot be passed, and once he stares too much, he will get bored.
There are many such phenomena, that is, once a man and a woman establish a relationship, the woman does not agree that the man has contact with other women, and even asks him to block all the female friends on the mobile phone.
Such demands are really excessive. It is said that "people are floating in the rivers and lakes, how can they not be stabbed?" That is to say, as long as people live in this society, live and work in this society, they will inevitably have to socialize. These societies may include working relationships, partnerships, or business relationships.
If you love someone, you have to cut off all these relationships, which is impossible to do safely.
In fact, if a woman does this, she is extremely unconfident in herself. The less confident she is, the more shallow the man may be.
Confident, self-reliant, self-reliant women are what men have always liked and desired.
★ Do not become humble for love
"Don't make yourself humble for love". It's a celebrity's advice to women.
In love, it is pitiful for a woman to be too humble. For love to descend to dust is not a smart and desirable approach.
Many times, the more humble a woman is, the more despised the man is.
And humble women generally depend on men to live. Without men, she couldn't survive. That is to say, without the support of a man, it is difficult for this woman to survive. To put it bluntly, she lacks the ability to earn money herself.
This is like a vine, once you lose what you rely on, you can only hang low on the ground and let others trample on it.
If a woman does this, her value becomes very low. How can anyone cherish a low-value thing?
Therefore, women must not lose themselves for love, for men, lose dignity and bottom line. Only a woman who has self-esteem and self-love will let men cherish it.
The love road is beautiful, but it is actually not easy to walk. Every man and woman who walk well on the road of love are wise people.
May the beauty of love nourish every pair of lovers; may the lovers in the world love each other and never abandon each other until they are white!