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In life, everyone hopes that they can live a little happier, let the blessings fill and surround themselves, dispel all accidents and bad luck, and let themselves live a calm and stable life.
But for such a nihilistic thing as blessings, many people are confused about why people's luck is always good and bad, some people are treated tenderly by the years and spend a long life easily; some people hesitate all the way forward, encountering too many ups and downs and disputes.
The eternal heartbeat in love and marriage, the eternal entanglement in the crowd, is always closely related to blessings, and although blessings are very illusory, they are actually closely related to our personal habits.
What kind of way a person behaves, it will bring a certain amount of luck, the so-called blessed people do not do unblessed things, a person's blessings, usually closely related to their own hearts, want to have good blessings, you must learn to start from your own heart. Having done all this, the blessing comes uninvited.
Blessed are those who have good hearts
Blessed people are always generous at heart, not that life has opened up a gentle mode for them, but that they will use their own efforts to make others open their hearts to them and be gentle.
Kind people are easy to get the kindness of the people around them, because their kind actions will make others see in their eyes and remember in their hearts, so they can't bear to hurt this kindness, human nature is good, good people don't have to be good at attacking the heart, but they can easily accept other people's hearts, so that others don't have to hurt themselves.
The same is true of love, sometimes no matter how much romantic attack, no matter how much begging and coercion and seduction of the dead face, they can not resist the gentle words and warm waiting of the good people in their hearts, and because of this, it is always easy for good people to get good love, which is also a blessing.
It is said that suffering losses is a blessing, and good people are good at forbearance, know how to be humble and compassionate, but will reap blessings in a more profound sense.
When a person is kind, more people love him and like him, the road is wider, the life is better, and the blessing is uninvited, just like this, life has entered the Kangzhuang Avenue step by step.
In everyone's heart, there may be a sense of innocence and kindness, but some people are willing to pass this kindness on to more people, so that the blessings can be sprinkled all over the heart and sprinkled all around them, so what we have to do is to awaken the goodness hidden in our hearts and strive to have more blessings.
Having a good attitude is a source of blessing
A philosopher once said: Your state of mind is your master.
Mentality determines our vision of the world, and it will also affect our mood. Those who have a pessimistic mentality, when they encounter a little unpleasant thing, will completely fall into self-hatred and self-pity, and it is difficult to get rid of it. And people with a good attitude, they are more likely to see the positive side, always sunny to life, and therefore able to enjoy the joy of life.
Many people have no blessings, this is because of the bad mentality, they excessively pursue the perfection of life, and even with other people to compare and reference, once they feel that their lives have encountered misfortune, they complain about the world, originally love to complain about the people and friends are fewer, the road is narrower, the blessing is more thin, this personality is obviously very bad, you should turn around to adjust your mentality, when the mentality is clear, the road is smooth.
A person must have such self-confidence: they do not have to live better than others, as long as they live happily and happily, it is enough, contrast and jaggedness are the reasons why many people complain about the unfairness of fate, and the source of happiness for many people is not abundant, on the contrary, if you are willing to change your mentality and face life with a more comfortable and calm attitude, it is already a change of fate.
Love to the extreme overflowing with words, no need for inferiority and guilt, just bright and frank, there is no need to wander in inferiority, in a narrow state of mind to continue to imagine, deep in the corner that no one knows, full of pain, self-hatred.
Once the mentality is smooth, the sense of happiness is naturally filled, and once the happiness is overflowing in the heart, the efficiency of doing things is improved, and the smile on the face is more, it is easy to go smoothly.
Good luck is based on their own hard work
In the American drama "Mrs. Maisel", Mrs. Maisel was the perfect woman in her husband's eyes, she painted exquisite makeup every day, lived a very exquisite life, was understanding and gentle with her husband, but in the end she encountered her husband's betrayal.
When she found the truth, she was sad for a while, but after the sadness, she ushered in the rebirth of nirvana, began to focus on the cause she was good at, and worked hard, relying on the struggle to win the favor of many people, she not only had a successful career, and the ex-husband who had betrayed the marriage could not help but want to return to her side, she was radiant, scrappy, from a sad woman with an unfortunate marriage, instantly became a blessed woman.
In fact, such things are not many in life, a person's blessing is not only to ask for the outside world, but also their own internal source of motivation, need to work hard to fight for, if they do not strive for it, then this sadness may never get rid of, will never become their true ideal appearance, get a good life.
Most people have different original families and different experiences, but happy people always have commonalities, they are willing to struggle and are willing to do their best, no matter what kind of way they take, some people will also strive for happiness in marriage, and strive to express their love and gratitude for their lovers, which is also a very important source of blessings.
A person's good fortune has never relied on others to give alms, but has hidden the footprints of one's own hard work and hidden in the vigorous struggle for life. Only by relying on oneself can one be surrounded by blessings for a long time.
Whether a person has good luck is not simply judged from one aspect, in the past we always felt that a woman married a good man, and a happy marriage is a symbol of good luck.
This is not the case, and blessing has always been a broad symbol. Externally, it is manifested in a kind of frankness and smoothness, in the goodwill and favor of others, tolerance and love, in the unity and harmony of family relations, and in the comfortable and gentle working environment, which all need to be managed or fought for by oneself.
To believe that things are man-made, if you feel that fate is too mean to yourself, always miserable and rainy, wind and rain, it is better to reflect on whether you have some problems in your personality, or what you have done wrong in ordinary life.
I hope that everyone can let go of all bad shackles and shackles, know how to start from their own hearts, repair their hearts, and let go of their dependence on others, so as to have a good blessing.