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And the other half can't go on, what to do? Hear what marriage experts have to say

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There is a kind of marriage, no betrayal, no cold violence, but it feels like the feelings can't go on, you can't feel the love of the other party.

The other half doesn't take you as seriously, maybe he's not considerate enough and always ignores your emotions when you need comfort; maybe he's not romantic enough to talk to you about the sweet words you want.

And the other half can't go on, what to do? Hear what marriage experts have to say

If you divorce, it seems that the other half does not have a particularly big mistake, but once the marriage is dissolved, the future may not meet a suitable person, the children do not have a complete family; if there is no divorce, such a marriage is too difficult, you are very eager for your partner to love you, but your marriage has lost the flow of emotions, and there are problems with feelings.

When encountering this situation, what should I do?

Many people see this situation, the first reaction is: divorce, you do not love the other half, children in this kind of family is not happy, do not wronged yourself.

And the other half can't go on, what to do? Hear what marriage experts have to say

In my opinion, this statement is particularly irresponsible!

The family is a system, a system not only has a part of love, but also a part of family responsibility, but also the cost of building a family with each other, the basis of each other's feelings for many years, and many people also love this home.

Of course, the lack of feelings in the family is very painful, but what needs to be done is to solve the problem of lack of love in marriage, and we should solve the problem of the relationship itself, rather than using "substitution" to solve the problem. Moreover, divorce substitutions may not solve the problem.

Need to see: Why does the love between you disappear?

It may be a problem with the mode of getting along. Everyone has expectations in the relationship, when the partner does not meet your expectations, or you do not meet the expectations of your partner, you begin to blame, attack, and deny each other, and the feelings are worn out little by little.

It may also be a problem with the communication mode, some couples' communication mode is negative, such as using criticism, accusation, depreciation, quarrel, cold war way and the other half of the communication, do not know how to communicate positively, do not know how to express their love to the other half, resulting in partners can not feel your love, but with negative communication to hurt feelings, it will lead to feelings worse and worse, do not love each other.

And the other half can't go on, what to do? Hear what marriage experts have to say

If we can do marriage counseling, correct this communication pattern, and manage feelings in the right way, most broken, loveless marriages still have a good chance.

Marriage is not easy, the original love was real, and now it has reached the point of not loving, perhaps just because we do not know how to love.

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