01.
The road of life is always full of big and small turns, and we often don't know what the next step will be.
Sometimes inadvertently moving towards mistakes is actually inevitable.
However, we often regret our mistakes, thinking that if we had made a good choice, such an outcome could have been avoided.
Just as we will encounter all kinds of people on our own life path.
We can only realize the seriousness of the matter after meeting those who have bothered us.
But life is always inevitable to have helplessness.
Sometimes, even if we are superficially tired of a certain lifestyle, or even tired of connecting with someone.
But for a variety of reasons, we often choose to compromise and choose to live in harmony with it.
In fact, although such a choice seems to be for the sake of the overall situation, it also causes many harms invisibly.
Many times, we don't actually have to be so "perfect".
There are so many people in this world, and it is obviously more difficult to get along with all the people you meet.
For those who are not worth it, in fact, they are forced to get along with it, but it is better to simply and neatly break the connection.
02.
People who are full of negative energy for life are too tired to get along with
Some people say, "Don't worry about things that you can't get, and stay away from things with negative energy." ”
In fact, this sentence also applies to people.
Those who are full of negative energy about life, perhaps sometimes unintentionally;
But the feeling of powerlessness that is unconsciously revealed will inevitably affect the listener's otherwise peaceful life.
There is a saying: "The speaker has no intention, the listener has a heart".
At a time when those negative energies are constantly being appealed to others, although the speaker can quickly resolve the sorrow.
However, the listener listens more, which may change the original good mood and fall into the trough like a roller coaster.
They talk about everything and are always able to understand each other's careful thoughts.
However, this did not last long.
Because one of the girls' garden often destroys everyone's original good mood.
YuanYuan is straightforward and fast-talking, and he is also very righteous, and friends who have difficulties are always the first to solve them.
But because of this, once she is unhappy, she will complain to all the people around her.
As a result, friends often persuade her to be happy, she always thinks it is perfunctory, so she often breaks up with the people around her.
With those who love to complain, we may understand each other's pain and be patient and enlightened at first.
But over time, we will inevitably be troubled by the emotional changes of the other party's "fuss";
Let the original good mood also disappear.
And in the end, it is often the other party who has long forgotten, and he is affected by the other party's "gain and loss".
People who love to complain too much, instead of choosing to be complete and get along with them, we should choose to break off the connection.
After all, everyone has their own path to follow.
03.
People who don't take your heart to heart will only hurt themselves by getting along with them
There are always people who take it for granted that others are good and partial to him.
Instead of appreciating, some people treat each other as dispensable beings.
We will meet all kinds of people in this lifetime.
At the beginning, I didn't know much about the other party, and I didn't know whether the other party was trustworthy and communicative.
Sometimes, we inexplicably see each other as an important role in life.
Even if he finally realized that his sincerity was not worth mentioning to him, he was still willing to pay for him.
In fact, those who can't be true to you, we don't have to be too serious about him;
Not to mention the end of the story, he will change his mind.
There is no need to waste time on insignificant people in this world, which will only increase the trouble.
As one story goes, the girl felt that one of her friends was struggling.
So, always find a way to bring some food to the other person.
Not only that, but the other party also said some nonsensical things behind people to demean girls.
After the girl knew, she decisively chose to stay away from each other, and since then she has also seen people more cautiously.
There are some people who don't take the good of others as kindness.
In their minds, the goodness of others is nothing more than "profitable."
These people often don't take others seriously, so we don't have to spend too much time and energy on them.
Some people, it is better to get along than to break off the connection.
After all, not all people have good intentions, and not all people deserve our sincere treatment.
Those who are negative, those who do not really treat you, avoid it, and it is better to get along than to break off the connection.