In this society, there are many people who always like to judge the behavior of others with their own ideas, and they will not think about whether they have such qualifications to judge the lives of others. There is a saying that is very good: Do not persuade others to be good without suffering; if you suffer through me, you may not have my goodness! When others encounter something, we make a big comment on his behavior, point fingers, criticize his feet, we feel that we are the messengers of justice, indignant to point fingers at the behavior of others, at this time few people will think, when we encounter such a situation, what will we do?
What's more, in the world, in addition to the things we have personally experienced, for other things, we can only see the surface, for their inner mechanism, we actually do not know, and in this case, we judge them, but also self-righteously think that we are a messenger, to preside over the light of justice, quite ridiculous, but also quite sad, isn't it?
Each person has his own experiences and encounters, just as 1,000 people who have experienced different lives look at Hamlet, and in their minds there will be 1,000 different Hamlets; and even if a person looks at Hamlet at different ages and after some circumstances, he sees Hamlet differently. For people outside of us, we have not experienced his encounters, we can only see him on the surface or the scenery is infinitely good, or sad and desolate and unloved, but we will never know what kind of time and life he has experienced behind his back! It's like in our lives, no matter who the other person is
We can only become a person in a period of time in our lives, after that period of time, he will leave us, elementary school, junior high school, high school, college friends will fade with the passage of time after graduation. Other people's lives, for us, are just a passer-by. Our judgment of him at that time may be forgotten by ourselves after a while, but perhaps for them, these actions of ours will cause some irreparable harm to them as parties, and I would like to repeat this sentence: Without the suffering of others, do not persuade others to be good If you suffer through me, you may not have me to kill good! Everyone has their own happiness standards, please don't point fingers at other people's lives, judge the point!