Speaking of Yu Bo, everyone may not know who she is.
But if you talk about her husband Ma Ji, everyone must know,
Ma Ji, as the "master of art" in the Chinese cross-talk sketch industry,
The performances of "Mountaineering Hero Praise", "Portrait", "Looking for Uncle", "Cash Cow" and other cross-talk are deeply loved by everyone.
And the reason why Ma Ji can achieve such an achievement is inseparable from the silent support of his wife behind his back.
Yu Bo chose to "marry" at the low point of Ma Ji's career and walked hand in hand with him for 39 years.
After Ma Ji's death, Yu Bo fell into grief for a long time and did not come out,
Fortunately, her son Ma Dong became her dependent, making her happy and happy in her old age.
Yu Bobi Ma Ji is eight years younger, is a beautiful looking water spirit, cheerful northeast girl,
Since childhood, I like to sing, a chance, when Jiao Naiji, the leader of the Railway Corps, heard the songs she sang, he felt that this little girl was very talented, and thought of receiving her to the literary troupe to sing.
Yu Bo listened to the ability to follow and sing, and happily agreed,
But at this time, Yu Bo's mother did not agree, first, the old man was reluctant to let his girl leave home so far, and second, the child was too far away from home to find an in-laws.
Jiao Naiji, who knew yu bo's mother's concerns, patted his chest and promised: "Auntie, you can rest assured, your girl Yu Bo's marriage package is on me, I will definitely find a good in-law for her".
With Jiao Naiji's promise, Yu Bo's mother nodded in agreement, and Yu Bo also followed Jiao Naiji to work in the Railway Corps as he wished.
The regimental commander Jiao Naiji always remembered to introduce a boyfriend to Yu Bo, and not long after working in the regiment, he asked her around.
One night in 1967, Jiao Naiji found Yu Bo and said to her: "Less than, I will introduce you to personal acquaintance".
Upon hearing that the regiment leader really introduced himself to himself, Yu Bo shyly asked: "Regiment leader, who is it?"
Jiao Naiji smiled and said, "You definitely know him, that is, Ma Ji of crosstalk",
Knowing that the blind date was Ma Ji, Yu Bo laughed out: "Commander, don't joke, I've heard him say crosstalk since I was a teenager, he must be more than 50 years old now, is a little old man",
The meaning of Yu Bo's refusal was obvious, but the regiment leader did not see it, leaving a sentence of "you will know when you meet when the time comes", turning around and leaving in a hurry.
Later, Jiao Naijituo told Yu Bo that on July 18, he went to Zhongshan Park to meet Ma Ji.
When Yu Bo heard it, his heart was full of resistance, but this was the good intention of the regiment leader, and Yu Bo had to go to the appointment under the pressure of the leader.
Yu Bo went to the appointment as agreed, and his first impression of Ma Ji was very bad, and he thought, "Why is this person so dark?"
It turned out that in order to meet the blind date, Ma Ji specially bought a white shirt, Ma Ji's own skin was black, and his face was even darker under the background of the white shirt.
In addition, Ma Ji is not tall and a little fat, looking like a black ball from a distance,
Yu Bo wanted to leave, but Ma Ji was really satisfied with Bo, and Ma Ji also ordered a few good dishes when eating "bleeding".
Although Yu Bo did not like Ma Ji, it was not easy to leave because of the leader's lead.
After the two had dinner, Yu Bo used the excuse that he wanted to buy something for his friend, thinking of ending this blind date.
Knowing that Ma Ji cheekily said: "Anyway, there is nothing wrong, I will accompany you to go",
The two chatted as they walked, and on the way, Ma Ji made Yu Bo laugh by relying on a cross-talk mouth.
At the time of parting, Ma Ji was at the bus stop, and he sent an invitation to Bo, wanting to ask her to see her again in a few days.
Yu Bo also found out in the chat that Ma Ji did not want to be like that, so he agreed to his request.
Yu Bo did not expect that Ma Ji would take her to see the big character newspaper when he went on a date with her again.
After Yu Bo went in, he found that it was full of bad remarks and criticisms of Ma Ji.
In order to increase each other's good feelings, Yu Bo will always try to show his excellent side, Yu Bo is still the first time to see his own problems and shortcomings to tell each other,
Ma Ji saw Yu Bo's shock, but still gave yu Bo all his situation and things,
Say to her, "This is the real me, can you accept it?"
At that time, Yu Bo was still a little girl in her twenties, but she was more mature than her peers.
Through continuous getting along, she learned about The unique charm of Ma Ji and was also touched by his sincere and down-to-earth nature, and the two quickly walked together.
When the two were together, Ma Ji was over thirty years old, and he was an older leftover man in that era.
Soon after the two got along, Ma Ji proposed to Bo,
In that special era, although Ma Ji was a famous cross-talk master, he could only sweep toilets and paint placards in Beijing at that time, while Yu Bo was a glorious SOLDIER of the People's Liberation Army at that time.
Before getting married, Yu Bo's friends had advised her not to marry Ma Ji, but Yu Bo was also stubborn, and the things he decided would not change easily.
In this way, Yu Bo entered the palace of marriage with the 33-year-old Ma Ji at the age of 25.
After marriage, the marriage between the two was also controversial, but Yu Bo did not care, and in 1968 gave birth to a son to Ma Ji, named Ma Dong.
At that time, Ma Ji was arranged to go to the countryside to farm, Yu Bo was alone in his hometown with his son, and the husband and wife did not see each other for a long time.
Long-term separation between the two places, but the feelings have not changed,
In 1971, Ma Ji returned to Beijing from the countryside to work, and the husband and wife were reunited.
After Ma Ji returned, he was arranged by the unit to go to the Huaiyang "May Seventh" cadre school to perform condolence performances, and used his spare time ma Ji to adapt and perform the cross-talk "Ode to Friendship", which was deeply loved by everyone.
Seeing that her husband's career is back on track, yu Bo's career also has good news,
Transferred by his superiors, Yu Bo was assigned to the China Record Company as a music editor.
Among them, the song "Fifteen Moons" edited by her became popular overnight,
This song has been released, looking for red all over the streets, people only know that it is Dong Wenhua who sang this song, tieyuan composer, but few people know Yu Bo,
Yu Bo also did not express himself, taking advantage of the popularity of the song, Yu Bo also edited the sister article of this song——— "Looking at the Stars", with a record distribution of up to 400,000, and Yu Bo was also commended.
Husband Ma Ji's side is also rising, yu Bo said that he is very happy and happy, but the good times are not long, and the accident quietly comes.
After Ma Ji returned to Beijing, he went to other places to perform more and more on business.
Every time he came back, Yu Bo would wait for him at the airport early.
But the shy Ma Ji did not dare to look directly at his wife every time, and it was Yu Bo who took the initiative to speak.
After returning home, Yu Bo said to his son happily: "Dongdong, come out and see who is coming".
Ma Dong ran out to see Ma Ji, first saluted a Young Pioneer salute, and then politely said: "Uncle is good",
Hearing his son call Uncle Ma Ji, Yu Bo and his wife were stunned for a moment, and Yu Bo immediately said to his son: "This is your father, obedient, call your father".
Ma Ji cried out at the moment when his son called out to his uncle, and at that time began to reflect on whether he had too little time at home.
So in order to have more time to spend with his wife and son, Ma Ji tried to minimize the number of cross-talk performances in other places, and he slowly shifted the focus of his work to creation, and began to write cross-talk segments at home.
In this way, you can have more time at home with your family, and you will not be as tired as when you perform,
But even so, under the pressure of long-term work, Ma Ji's body still has problems.
In 1987, Ma Ji wrote a paragraph in the study as usual, but suddenly had an acute myocardial infarction, fortunately, Bo went to the study to find him, and found him in time to send him to the hospital.
After emergency rescue, finally retrieved a life, when Yu Bo's son Ma Dongyuan was studying in Australia, in order not to disturb his son's study, Yu Bo did not tell him about this matter, he was alone in the hospital to take care of Ma Ji,
Yu Bo took care of Ma Ji in the hospital for three months, because Ma Ji was found to be still suffering from diabetes, and the cholesterol was also a little high, the doctor suggested that the patient could exercise appropriately to increase resistance.
After being discharged from the hospital, Yu Bo followed the doctor's instructions and would drag Ma Ji to exercise outside every day after dinner, considering that her husband had a bad heart, so he took him for a walk outside.
Ma Ji has diabetes, but also likes to eat sugar, Yu Bo will hide the candy at home, cooking can also be without adding sugar without adding sugar, changing the pattern every day to make coarse grains for Ma Ji to eat,
In addition, Yu Bo also set a good work and rest time for Ma Ji, working for a few hours a day, not letting him get too tired, taking medicine at what time, not drinking, smoking, etc.
The passages created by Ma Ji will always be shown to Yu Bo for the first time, and Yu Bo will give him his own opinions and opinions after reading them patiently every time.
Of course, there are sometimes exceptions.
Once, when both husband and wife were already asleep, Ma Ji suddenly woke up from his sleep, and while getting dressed, he said, "I suddenly thought of a paragraph".
After he ran to the study to finish writing, he gave it to Yu Bo, thinking of letting his wife make some suggestions.
Yu Bo understands Ma Ji, if he gives an opinion, he will definitely change, and he will have to go to bed very late when he comes and goes.
So when Ma Ji showed yu bo the written paragraph, Yu Bo pretended not to wake up and continued to sleep.
Ma Ji saw that he couldn't shout Yu Bo for half a day, so he said: "I know you are awake, you don't want to see that I read it to you", and when he finished, he read it.
Yu Bo had no choice but to get up and give him advice, and it was too late for Ma Ji to finish.
Regarding Ma Ji's rogue behavior, Yu Bo said: "This is a common thing",
His mouth was full of disgust and helplessness, but whenever he encountered something similar again, Yu Bo would still help her husband.
Two people are music editors, one is a cross-talk master, one is inside the main and one is outside the main,
Such ordinary and long-term love makes people envious, but luck does not care for the couple, and the accident comes again.
On December 20, 2006, Ma Ji suffered a heart attack again, this time not as lucky as the last time, and finally died in vain.
Died on December 31, 2012, at the age of 7
This "cross-talk master" who has a pivotal position in the Chinese cross-talk industry has passed away forever.
For a time, the people of the whole country felt sad and regretful for his death,
The saddest thing is his wife Yu Bo, who has accompanied him through 39 years.
After Yu Bo and his son held a funeral for Ma Ji, he locked himself in the room.
Although Yu Bo knew that her husband would eventually leave, he could not accept it when he really left.
The elderly widowed Yu Bo was immersed in grief for a long time and could not get out, and she also became haggard and old overnight.
When her husband first left, Yu Bo often stared at the previous photos of the two in the room, and when he came back, Yu Bo found that he had already burst into tears at some point.
The son Ma Dong looked at his mother's haggard appearance, so he discussed with his wife to take his mother to live with him at home.
Yu Bo refused her son's request, she was afraid that she would leave, and her husband would not find herself when she dreamed at night.
Seeing that her mother insisted on not living with her, Ma Dong and his wife often went to see her, and every time they went, they carried large bags of fruits, clothes, and meals to visit Yu Bo.
Ma Dong is usually busy at work, so he let his wife Peng Xiaosheng often go to chat with his mother to relieve boredom.
Accompanied by his son and daughter-in-law, Yu Bo gradually came out of the grief of his widow.
After Yu Bo recovered, he would sometimes enlighten his daughter-in-law,
Daughter-in-law Peng Xiaosheng was the choreographer of Hunan Television in his early years, and after marrying Ma Dong, he followed her husband to Beijing to develop, and after giving birth to a child, she put her focus on the family and became a "full-time wife" at home.
Without work income, Peng Xiaosheng sometimes feels very inferior,
After Yu Bo knew his daughter-in-law's troubles, he found Peng Xiaosheng and said: "Xiaosheng, you must know that the reason why Ma Dong can make money outside with peace of mind is that you can't do without you silently paying for this family behind your back, you are taking care of everything at home than working outside, the family has to worry about big and small things, without you This family will not be so happy, Mom thank you for your efforts for this family",
His own efforts have been recognized by his mother-in-law, which makes his daughter-in-law more respectful and loving for Bo.
She made up her mind that she must be doubly good to her mother-in-law,
The two get along like a biological mother and daughter, they have never had a red face for many years together, and every year they take Yu Bo to the hospital for examination.
He often took Yu Bo to the mall, bought her clothes, went to the market to buy vegetables, went back to cooking together, massaged her before going to bed at night, and so on.
When people reach old age, they will always be nostalgic, and Yu Bo is no exception, sometimes he will often stare at the old photos of his youth.
After being seen by his son and daughter-in-law, Ma Dong invited his mother's old friends from his youth to come to the house to celebrate on Yubo's birthday.
The old people ate and chatted together, recalling the funny and funny things in the past, and Ma Dong and his wife were next to help everyone take pictures and record them.
Ma Dong sometimes goes on holidays, and the family goes to a picnic around Beijing together, bringing ingredients and tools to barbecue in the wild.
The children's grilled meat skewers will always be given to Yu Bo first,
Seeing that the children were so filial to themselves, Yu Bo was very satisfied in her heart, and she also walked out of grief under the care and companionship of her son and daughter-in-law.
The son is filial piety, the daughter-in-law is sensible, and the granddaughter is well-behaved and lovely, and Yu Bo's old age is finally happy.
In Bo's heart, her husband Ma Ji never left,
Her love for Ma Ji has never changed,
Because of love, when he was at the lowest point of The Horse Season, he chose to marry him,
Because of love, although the two have quarrels in their lives, they have walked hand in hand through 39 spring, summer, autumn and winter,
And because of love, after the death of her husband, she chose to live strongly,
Her son and daughter-in-law are also filial piety, so that her later life is not lonely and monotonous, and it becomes her dependence.